u/ForeverLove_Kismet

Do K off my puppy parts.

Hi everyone, thank you for all the congratulations I received in my DM’s. Here’s the follow up.

Soooo unfortunately that was too good to be true. We didn’t even meet at any point. I just shared images of my body to them and they talked sexy to me back. I then KNEW I just KNEW that the man would be the problem. I feel really damn stupid.

I am polyamorous and I shared with them that I had a very soul connecting time with someone the other night and the guy had made a comment on how I like them less now and I said “No, I still like yall the same” he says “a lot less now 😂” And I wasn’t sure what or who he was laughing at. I do not interpret sarcasm or jokes or whatever like that especially with people I’m still not entirely familiar with.

One of my boundaries is to not assume or speak behalf of what you think my thoughts or actions are because I been hurt from the past. Would rather someone talk to me and ask than assume and make actions based on assumptions. I reassert my boundaries using only “I” statements, didn’t get mad, and didn’t cuss. I was respectful and then he response back by saying “Woah woah bring it down a notch” 🤨 He said I was “popping off” and that was “not cool”.

So he just making up stuff that I did not even remotely try to do and I found it really confusing and disrespectful that the one thing I told you not to do and you did it right in front of me. I then asked what part was I popping off cause I only used “I” statements and not you. And then the group chat ghosted me for the rest of the day. NOT HOW YOU TREAT A PUPPY!! You don’t just fuck with the puppy feelings and disappear.

I took it upon myself to leave and said this wasn’t an environment I feel safe in. The point of communication had already failed. When i left the gc, unadded, unfollowed everyone, the guy messaged me “Sure thing 👍🏽” which pmtfo cause wow I give you my body and you disrespect my boundaries. Thats all you had to say to me? It made me feel like shit and not worthy of love or attention. He then had the audacity to say “Baby girl, it’s over stop messaging” BITCH YOU MESSAGED ME WTFFF!! I knew I shouldn’t trust a fucking man even if a woman says he’s safe. That’s my stupid ass fault for trusting a man with my emotions and to be mature about communication. All they do is lie, twist, and manipulate.

I’m never doing couples again if there’s a man. If there’s a man in anything I will not engage. This is too much of a headache and compared to other women’s experiences, this is mild. I need girls to kiss all over me to feel better.