Ideas on how to dom as a sub
Hey all I’d really like some ideas, I will preface this here that I do not want the whole “you guys aren’t compatible and you should see other people” that’s not what I’m asking.
Me and my friend are both subs and since they’re amab and I’m afab wildly far more of a sub than they are usually they take on more a dom role and I want to be able to dom for them as well but since doming takes up a lot of effort it gets hard for me to think of things in the moment. They like being bratty and being used, I always feel mean calling them names or possibly hurting them (we have very good communication and safe words) so I want to come in with ideas first and mentally prepare myself (I do like doming I just don’t know what to do and I get nervous).
When I google names to call them, commands and actions to do they all end up weirdly gendered or romantic. (both of us are non-binary so it feels weird and we’re both on the aromantic spectrum with me being romance repulsed)
I’ve tried biting, hickeys and putting my fingers in their mouth and they liked all of that but I can’t think of anything else to do, I’d just like advice on things that I can test out I don’t want to be told to look for someone else since they’re my friend that I just so happen to have this type of relationship with as well.