Who is self locked while with GF?
Sometimes I feel weird, sometimes I need it too bad I just proceed with self lock. My GF is ok with me self locking (so not keyholding as she already has stress with her own keys ) although when I put it on in shower and she walked in I undone myself behind the curtains because I was too uncomfortable with the situation.. It's like she accepted it but it doesn't entirely feel accepted.
Maybe I should have walked out with cage on after all..
Communication is key, but additional communication would be like pushing it..
Interested to hear whether there are similar experiences or whether there is any advice to do push this to next level.
Sometimes I wish I didnt had this urge to wear a cage, would make things way easier...