u/Fresh_Ad4945

Another topic for discussion, and a big one for a lot of us: discretion.

Most of us are pretty careful, but slip-ups happen, or someone stumbles onto something they weren't supposed to see. Has a family member, close friend, or coworker ever found out about your LS when you really didn't want them to? What happened, and how did they take it?

More importantly, how did you handle it in the moment, and afterward? Did it change how open or careful you are now?

And for couples: have you actually talked through what you'd do if this happened? Is there a plan, or is it more "we'll figure it out if it comes up"? Curious how prepared people really feel versus how prepared they think they are. Thanks

Hi,

I Just noticed that people are not taking it well after my latest post. When you mention what you don't want is the opposite of rude, is appreciating your valuable time. Why is this wrong?

I also noticed, people just ignore what you post and don't read. When you clearly state couples only, why do men still think they have a chance?

Would like to know others point of view.

I accidentally deleted my previous post. So I'm reposting it again.

43M and 40F, both straight, look after ourselves and reasonably fit. We are looking for a like minded couple who are willing to take it slow. Don't mind going out a few times to check the chemistry. We are not after ONS or body counts. We like to build friendship and make it a regular with the right couple.

He (168), straight, is a gentleman, confident and intelligent.

Her (165), straight and not into girls, classy, very attractive, and cheeky.

We both love a great conversation, love confidence, and hate cockiness and ego. As previously said we're not into rushing things, we are very selective. If you're reasonably fit and are like minded please DM us.

P.S. no Indians please. We're not interested.

I accidentally deleted my previous post. So I'm reposting it again.

43M and 40F, both straight, look after ourselves and reasonably fit. We are looking for a like minded couple who are willing to take it slow. Don't mind going out a few times to check the chemistry. We are not after ONS or body counts. We like to build friendship and make it a regular with the right couple.

He (168), straight, is a gentleman, confident and intelligent.

Her (165), straight and not into girls, classy, very attractive, and cheeky.

We both love a great conversation, love confidence, and hate cockiness and ego. As previously said we're not into rushing things, we are very selective. If you're reasonably fit and are like minded please DM us.

P.S. no Indians please. We're not interested.

MF 4 MF only

Hi, 43M 40F both Straight, reasonably Fit, looking after ourselves. We are looking for couple who are intelligent, confidence and have a sense of humour. Who we could have deep conversations with. We like to build connection and chemistry before the next the step. Not after body count or ONS. We prefer to meet selective couples who take care of themselves, are attractive and who we click with than continuously persuing the next. If this is what you're after please send us a message.

P.S. I know this may offend some, but we do care about the couples ethnicity. We are not after Indians, sorry.

Hi, 43M 40F both Straight, reasonably Fit, looking after ourselves. We are looking for couple who are intelligent, confidence and have a sense of humour. Who we could have deep conversations with. We like to build connection and chemistry before the next the step. Not after body count or ONS. We prefer to meet selective couples who take care of themselves, are attractive and who we click with than continuously persuing the next. If this is what you're after please send us a message.

P.S. I know this may offend some, but we do care about the couples ethnicity. We are not after Indians, sorry.

Hi, 43M 40F here. Going out for a drink and dinner tonight in the CBD. Looking for a couple that are a match who would like to hang out. If you think we're aligned DM me.

We're a straight couple who come as a pair, happy, drama-free, and looking to meet another couple we genuinely click with.

We're easygoing, up for great conversation and a little adventure, and new to the lifestyle, so we're keen to meet like-minded couples in a similar age range who value friendship, trust, and mutual respect.

We look after ourselves and stay active, and we hope you do too. We value confidence, intelligence, and a sharp sense of humour. Confidence is attractive to us; arrogance and ego aren't.