u/Fun_Eye_343

Im trying to find out the best way to ruin my orgasm and wanted some opinions

What’s the most frustrating way to ruin it ?

Option 1: After several edges, go really slowly, get right to the edge with a soft touch go over it, then stop completely to make it as slow and frustrating as possible
Option 2: After several edges, go fast, get right to the edge, then pull away at the last second to make it feel even more desperate

If there are others way too I’m open to know

I’ve made it 25 days...

but please after all this time I need something I need to cum

im begging please let me have a ruin at least I have been just having edges and fake orgasms ( I get to the edge and pretend im cumming)

I need more please this us the longest I have been please im supper needy

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I’m still trying to figure out the timing…

The last time, I took my hand away and felt a lot of clenching and lingering sensations afterward, even without any further stimulation but didn’t feel desperate after it

For people who intentionally go for ruined orgasms, when exactly do you stop stimulation?

should I stop when I get other edge or a second before ?

What signs tell you that you’ve successfully had a ruined orgasm?

I made it to Day 10 without an orgasm

When I started, my goal was only a few days, so making it this far already feels crazy…

This greedy slut deserves a reward??

So I’m putting it to a vote.

After 10 days, what has this slut has earned?

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When I started, my goal was only a few days.
Now it’s Day 9.

The funny thing is that reaching my original goal didn’t make the challenge feel finished.

It just made me wonder if I’ve been making it too easy on myself.

For years, I have been cumming at least one time for day.,. But what for? I got impatient, gave in immediately, and never had to practice any real self-control… but know I know my place

At this point, I’m looking for ways to make the denial more difficult…

So make it harder.
Add a rule
Add a punishment
Move the finish line
Give me a milestone I have to earn
Something that will make me regret asking for more

More opportunities to prove that I can stick to something even when it’s inconvenient.

So if you were in charge of making this challenge harder, what would you add?

What rule would you create?
What habit would you change?

What would make it genuinely difficult…

I want to be pathetic humiliating
I want to feel desperate begging

I don’t have toys do you will need to be creative…
Kinks: orgasm control degradation misogyny humiliation patriarchy, edge, gaslighting, light pain

I’ve been sticking to this challenge for five days, and now that I’ve finally reached my goal…

Part of me thinks I’ve earned the reward.
Part of me thinks that’s I shouldn’t stop

So I’m making an offer:

Take the decision out of my hands.
Make me edge and then choose what I deserve

Be selfish.
Take my orgasm from me
Take my relief away
Make me desperate no mercy

Make me a desperate mess

Five days ago I thought the goal was reaching day 5.

Now I’m wondering if reaching day 5 was only the beginning.

Limits: No photos, no videos, no blood, no scat, no anal.

Kinks : Orgasm control, degradation, humiliation, psychological play, pet play, sensory play, bladder control, inferiority dynamics, teasing

Tomorrow I reach five days denied , which was my original goal.

When I started this challenge, five days felt impossibly far away. Now that I’m almost there, I’m realizing I don’t actually know what comes next.

I’ve spent the last few days thinking about this far more than I should. It’s become a challenge, a distraction, and honestly a bit of an obsession.
What I keep fantasizing about isn’t really making the decision myself.

It’s the idea of someone else making it.
Someone who lets me wonder and tease me about it.
Someone who waits until the very last moment before telling me which path was chosen, just when I’m really close…

The two options are simple:
I get the orgasm I’ve been wanting for the last five days.
I ruin my orgasm and watch it thob and clench

And here’s the important part:
Whatever is chosen, I will follow it.
No changing the rules at the last minute because I don’t like the outcome.

Trying to convince myself I know what the answer will be, only to realize I have no control over it.
After the decision is made, I’ll accept whatever was chosen.

Then I’ll put tape there as a reminder not to keep touching, not to get greedy, and not to immediately start looking for loopholes.

I know I could remove it whenever I wanted
That’s the ridiculous part
I could change my mind at any time
I could ignore the challenge
I could make the decision myself
But somehow the fact that I can doesn’t mean I want to decide/choose

And it definitely doesn’t mean I feel like I deserve to
What I really want is to accept whatever you think I deserve

After 7 days of holding back, teasing, edging, and trying so hard not to give in… I finally lost control.

And the worst part is that it wasn’t even planned.
I really wanted to stay denied longer. I was only edging, trying to keep myself right there on the edge like always… but my body gave in anyway.

Now I’m sitting here feeling needy, embarrassed, frustrated, and honestly kind of pathetic.

Part of me wants to pretend it never happened and immediately restart my denial like a good little toy.
Another part of me keeps thinking about doing it again already… because now that I ruined it once, my brain keeps telling me maybe I should just keep going.

Because after spending a whole week teasing myself and staying desperate for other people’s amusement, I stopped feeling like my orgasms even belonged to me anymore.
.
Like I was supposed to stay right there on the edge while everyone else got to enjoy themselves fully.

And honestly… I liked that.

I liked feeling used.
Like a needy little edge toy that exists just to be teased, denied, played with, and left frustrated afterward.

Hearing other people talk about cumming while I had to stay desperate somehow made everything feel even more intense.
Like my job wasn’t to get release… just to stay worked up for someone else’s entertainment.

So now that I accidentally came, I feel weirdly guilty about it.
Like I ruined the whole point of being useful.

And the worst part?
Even after ruining 7 days, this stupid needy brain still wants attention, and someone telling me what I deserve now what is my place and should I do

Not sending pics, and no toys

I’m on my 4th day without cumming and honestly… I think it’s starting to melt my brain a little.

I keep getting so close just to stop again and again, staying needy and frustrated while other people get to enjoy themselves whenever they want.
And for some reason… I like how unfair that feels.

I want someone to give me tasks, edging instructions, things to watch, ways to tease myself and stay under control instead of getting release.
Make me stay desperate. Make me earn every edge and still keep me right there.

I love the feeling of being used for someone else’s pleasure while I’m left aching and needy.
Being told what to do, how to touch myself, when to stop, how long to hold it… that kind of control gets in my head so badly.

You can manipulate me, be mean, tease me, make me beg for it and still tell me no.
No mercy.
I want to feel controlled and used, like my pleasure isn’t mine it’s for your amusement and only

Kinks: submission / orgasm control / edging / denial / mental play / degradation / humiliation / misogyny/ discipline / needy behavior / mean control/ frustration/ bladder control

Limits: pics, scat, blood, vomit, illegal stuff

My punishment is letting people have fun punishing me tonight, you can tease and deny me as much as you want

Need someone to give me edges.
Too many of them.
Keep me right on the edge over and over until I can barely think straight anymore.

Make me stop right before I want it most.
Make me wait, calm down, and do it again.
Keep me needy, frustrated, squirming, and wanting more every single time.

My lesson is that my pleasure matters less than your entertainment.

Make me beg for permission I probably haven’t earned.
And remind me, it’s not about me but about your pleasure…
Make yourself cum while get me desperately needy**

I guess that’s for you to decide.

Kinks: denial, edging, control, humiliation, power dynamics
Limits: no pictures/videos, no personal info, no gore/scat or blood
You can dm me if you want

My punishment is letting people have fun punishing me tonight, you can tease and deny me as much as you want

Need someone to give me edges.
Too many of them.
Keep me right on the edge over and over until I can barely think straight anymore.

Make me stop right before I want it most.
Make me wait, calm down, and do it again.
Keep me needy, frustrated, squirming, and wanting more every single time.

My lesson is that my pleasure matters less than your entertainment.

Make me beg for permission I probably haven’t earned.
And remind me, it’s not about me but about your pleasure…
Make yourself cum while get me desperately needy

I guess that’s for you to decide.

Kinks: denial, edging, control, humiliation, power dynamics
Limits: no pictures/videos, no personal info, no gore/scat or blood
You can dm me if you want