u/Fuzzy-Durian-9457

I'm 25 and I recently discovered about sugar dating.... One of the reasons I got into entertaining this arrangement is because I really want to continue my master's this upcoming semester as well as help my dad around with the bills once he retires this year.

I'm currently meeting this guy who is pretty established in his career but I dont think he's feeling me as I feel like the vibes aren't aligned with the two of us. He rarely replies to my messages (his reason is partly due to how demanding his job is and that it can cause him to get busy), plus he said that he feels like I have a wall up whenever I'm with him.

He has already 'evaluated' me and given me a set allowance, based of my looks and appearance but so far he hasn't provided me anything. I don't even know if he wants to continue or is just leaving me hanging. I also dont know how to ask him for funds too... And I guess the reason why he thinks I have my guard up on our meeting was because it was what it was... it was our first time to meet and just like him I was also getting a feel of him.

Since then, after our meeting, our correspondence with each others has been online or SMS and he told me that I need to work on seeming more sweet to him through our chats. He said that our next meeting would entail if we'll determine if were gonna be compatible in doing the deed together. If you know what I mean???

I need advice on whether or not I should continue this arrangement with the Sugar daddy or do I just continue looking. I am a person that's not ready for a relationship- as my last one ended up traumatizing me. I have a stable career as a Preschool teacher and I love my job but its just not paying enough which is why I decided to give this unorthodox setup a go.

Please help me out in deciding whether to continue this relationship with him or do I move on. Anybody??? Thank you in advance.