u/GeneralAd8978

My(M20) sex drive has never been normal. When My boyfriend (M21) and I first got together my sex drive was strong we had sex everyday for while, after the first few weeks it slowed down to a “normal” amount ide say ( about twice a week). But now sometimes we go about a month with sex.

I’m the reason we go that long sometimes and I don’t know what to do to fix this, I am still in love with my boyfriend and very much attracted to him. We have an open relationship and we talk about sex a lot, I’ve always been a horny person I like the thought of sex but when it comes to actually doing it I get choked up.

I know I have preference anxiety when it comes to doing new things sexually but with my boyfriend of over a year I don’t have any anxiety I just still have trouble getting hard and staying hard on a regular basis.

I really need to figure out why this is happening because it’s starting to come between us and I really don’t want to lose him because of my sex drive. If you guys know what might be going on or have any advice for me I would love to hear it and I would appreciate it very much

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