u/Genobs12

So i did not even intend to go approaching today but i was coming from a meetup and i said to myself yesterday that when i approach next i wont follow specific script, say what comes to my mind and try to have longer conversation. So I was looking for a station today to go home when i saw random girl walking and ask her where it is then proceeded to have like 7 min conversation with her at 12 pm on the street. She was asking me questions to and at end i got number, i asked her to meetup in person but she didnt know when is she gonna be free really so we exchanged contacts and thats it.

Thing ive seen at myself im not even scared of rajection im more scared of what other people will think about me that are AROUND the girl. So im getting in approaches pretty consistently daily but i could get even more done if i solved this problem. if anyone got any tips how to deal with this i would appreciate it.

After crying here on reddit yesterday i got rejected 10 times i went out today and did some day game . So i did 3 approaches, i was focused on getting to know them, what do they do, where are they from etc… and i was social didnt care about if i get contact or no. So first approach i was walking to the park saw a girl for a second in store stopped went in approached her, tell her she is cute, getting to know her and after minute i said we should hang out sometime and exchanged ig. She was really hot like 9/10 at least. Second one approach i went for a girl i saw from behind she looked good but when i approached her i didnt like her but still i talked to her and spoke to her like 5 minitues before saying goodbye didnt even ask for number. Third approach i went for 2 girls but it was quick since they said they are leaving the city tommorow. I wanted to do 5 approaches but just couldnt find girls fr.

So what i did right, i had better structure what to say, didnt care much about if i get number.

Also need to do more approaches but sometimes i struggle to find them.

Onto tomorrow

Made 10 approaches today, 3 daygame which i got one instagram but she didnt follow me back then went to nightclub and made 7 more and talked a bit but convo just went nowhere, there was no vibe or she wasnt intrested so rejected everytime.Feel like rn this shit is impossible, i just dont know anymore. Fuking hell. Anybody ever felt like these that you just cant score no matter what lol?

Guys how do i escelate into a kiss. I went to night club after long time ago and i dont have much problems approaching girls but got problem escelating… i got advantage because ik how to dance salsa and dance with girls but really dont know how to escelate. Still got a phone number and instagram by end of the night but ye, i want to get more in escalation and Potentional hookups. So could you guys some experienced dudes help me with this, i would really appreciate it.

Came to barcelona with erasmus couple days ago and did some daygame approaches and got the date. Belive it or not i got the first actual date lol. We was looking at each other 90% of the time of 1 hour coffie date, she was interested in conversation, engaging and asking me questions but 70% of time she was talking. she needed to go study or sum but she said she wanna see me again. I was quite relaxed to and chill and enjoyed the date. Only thing is how do i escelate next time we go out? I complimented her ring and touched her hands but thats about it from escalating lol…

So im 19 and about 193 cm, fit for my age but i got a question. Im doing approaches and my typical approach is compliment her, ask her a little about herself and after 20 seconds or 30 seconds i ask for number. I dont really get much success, mostly of them say they got a boyfriend. I did totally probably about 20-30 approaches in my life time but i just started like couple months back now but i wasnt so much consistent as im getting now approaching almost everyday. Now question what can i do to improve my chances? Should I extend conversation to 2-3 minutes or what should i do? I dont tease or flirt during convo, just normal convo