u/GingerViking1886

I’m not looking for something random, I want something that actually feels good to be in.

I’m a 40 year old man, I’m 5’9 with glasses, a beard, a bit of a dad bod, a few visible piercings and a good amount of tattoos. I don’t smoke, I don’t drink and I’m 100% clean. I live in the South Sound, think part way between Seattle and Tacoma, and can host on weekends.

Here’s the catch, I am married. It’s a dead bedroom situation and has been for a while now. I miss the physical connection with someone. I’d love to find a discreet friends with benefits situation. Someone who can come over, and actually enjoy spending time with both inside and outside of the bedroom.

I’m open to any race and age as long as it’s within reason. Non smoker is a must. Bonus points for tattoos and piercings and submissive women go straight to the front of the line. Please be DDF, discreet and open to exchanging pictures early on as physical attraction is key.

If this post resonates with you, and you think we might vibe shoot me a message! Tell me about yourself, and let’s see if we vibe! Looking forward to hearing from you soon!

I think I’ve tried writing this a bunch of different ways before finally settling on honesty.

I’m a 40 year old married man in a dead bedroom situation. I miss the physical connection of another person, so that’s why I’m here.

I’m 5’9 with a beard and glasses, I’m moderately tattooed with a few visible piercings. I’m passionate about music and a good science fiction book, movie or TV show. I’m pretty introverted and prefer a night in over the bar scene. I’m a non smoker and DDF.

I’m looking for someone to connect with on more than just the physical level. Definitely would prefer a long term FWB over a ONS. Someone to hang out with, cuddle up on the couch with a good movie or TV show on. Bonus points if you have tattoos or piercings and lean towards the submissive side. Obviously discretion is important, not trying to blow up anyone’s life.

Typically I’m pretty available on weekends, and I’m located in the south sound, think half way between Seattle and Tacoma. I can definitely host, but I’m willing to travel if the vibes and connection are right.

We’re all adults here and are capable of communication, so let’s not waste each others time and this isn’t a horror movie, no ghosts here.

If this sounds like something you’re interested in exploring, shoot me a message, put a bit of effort into it and tell me about yourself and what your interests are!