u/Ginger_Fox9

Don’t be shy!

As a domme, there is nothing worse than a sub coming to me for a dynamic but wanting to turn it into what he had with another domme. I am me and my dynamics are my own not a carbon copy of someone else’s. I don’t really want to deal with someone who is still hankering after someone else. And I guess some dommes too have had that “perfect” sub who they just clicked with and nothing else feels as good.

So I was wondering, how many of you are here still carrying baggage from a lost dynamic? Do you have a last domme or sub that still holds too big a place in your heart?

I think for me personally, I learn from every dynamic/experience that I have and am still learning every day about what I do and what I don’t want from a dynamic.

Check my profile to see what I offer.

I don’t know if I’m cynical but every time I see a domme post with a few exceptions it seems to be a thinly disguised advert and every time I see a sub post again with a few exceptions it seems to be a thinly disguised (or blatant) bait post or an obvious attempt to get their ego jerked off in the comments by desperate dommes.

I’m starting to wonder what this subreddit is actually for. I have had posts denied here asking genuine questions but this crap always slips through.

Let’s have some funny, lighthearted conversation! Trolls welcome to reply 😝