He can’t make me finish, what do we do?
So me f18 and my boyfriend m19 of 10 months are having issues with making me.. yk. I honestly don’t know what to tell him when we’re having sex and he tries. I instruct him on where to go, how to touch, but it always feels off in someway. Either he’s going too hard or too soft or he’s in the wrong spot completely and it’s sooo frustrating because I want to feel good too :/. Like I use a vibrator when I’m alone and that requires no effort at all, I can cum basically immediately. To be honest, that’s the only way I can. I’ve tried masturbating just with my hands but it’s literally never worked so how am I supposed to tell someone else to do it if I can’t even do it myself? It’s not an intimacy issue, he turns me on so much it’s insane. None of the men I’ve been with before have been able to get me there either. I don’t get it. What can he/we do?