r/AskMenSexAdvice

So me f18 and my boyfriend m19 of 10 months are having issues with making me.. yk. I honestly don’t know what to tell him when we’re having sex and he tries. I instruct him on where to go, how to touch, but it always feels off in someway. Either he’s going too hard or too soft or he’s in the wrong spot completely and it’s sooo frustrating because I want to feel good too :/. Like I use a vibrator when I’m alone and that requires no effort at all, I can cum basically immediately. To be honest, that’s the only way I can. I’ve tried masturbating just with my hands but it’s literally never worked so how am I supposed to tell someone else to do it if I can’t even do it myself? It’s not an intimacy issue, he turns me on so much it’s insane. None of the men I’ve been with before have been able to get me there either. I don’t get it. What can he/we do?

So, as of recently, I've been really into cuckolding. I'm not too sure why, but it started around 3-4 months ago. There have been phases of weeks where I have been trying to stop it and honestly stop being into it, but it just turns me on too much. I've tried quitting porn so many times, and even when I do for like 2 weeks, I get off to scenarios of my gf cucking me in all kinds of ways. It's gotten so bad that I make AI stories of my gf cucking me and get off to it, or scenarios of her cucking me in different ways. I think at this point now, I've accepted that I'm a cuck. Well, the main point here is: how do I tell her? We haven't been dating for too long, like around 1 year and 8 months, and we were both 18. I want to confess to her, but I'm scared she will completely lose respect and leave me. I don't want her to actually have sex with other guys or even anything crazy; I just want her to know, and if she wants, maybe say some scenarios in my ear while she's jerking me off lol. What I know is that she has had 2 exes but supposedly she has not done anything intimate with them because she was too young, honestly i get off to the fact that she might be lying. Anyways, I need some advice on how to tell her.

Hi, I started dating this awesome man.

I love our sex life so much. We created such a safe place to talk about everything, especially our intimate thoughts and fantasies about sex.

He told me he likes if I make him feel less of a men when we fuck, he likes that I do comparisons with other dicks, telling him that he cannot satisfy me, he likes to watch me so things with other men.

The biggest fetish he has concerns feet.

I have kinks myself, so I've tried different things.

Also it doesn't come natural to degrade him, considering he has really good attributes.

Here my help request to people who have the same fetishes, what would you like for your partner to do?

Give me some advices, please!

Thank u ))

Hi Everyone, Recently I had sex for the first time but I have observed that when my dick gets hard and my foreskin is positioned at the back of the head it gets tighter.

This resulted in the lack of blood flow and the head got reddish and resulted in pain.Because of that I am unable complete the sex and felt really disappointed.

Has anyone faced this condition and how to avoid it?

Should I have to consult any doctor in order to get any kind of surgery to remove my part of the foreskin?

Please let me know in the comments for the suggestions.

I’m 20F and my boyfriend is also 20, we have been having sex since March and it’s AMAZING. We lost our virginity to each other so I’m very grateful it’s so enjoyable with no prior experience. I would like to know if there are any tricks, fantasies, or CRAZY unique things I can do to surprise him or make things EXTRA GREAT, like if we ever were to break up I want to make sure no other women can ever do what I did. I want him to think about me when yall catch what I’m sayin? 😈😭

So as said in the title, My partner and me are really compatible and communicative about our pleasures. We satisfy each other with our hands and mouths. But we’re both new to sex and sex was only ‘good’ when we started doing it. Not what we actually expected. Considering our chemistry, we thought sex would be very good. But now it isnt. So am calling upon regular sexual people to help my partner and me out here.

See, yesterday I did it with my girlfriend. It was the first time for both of us. She had told me that it was her first time. Then we did foreplay, and she enjoyed it; her reaction was very expressive, like she was saying it felt really good. But when I tried penetration for the first time, she didn’t react at all. I continued for a short while, but there was still no reaction or voice from her. Then afterward I couldn’t last for long; it was less than a minute, but I still loved it.

After that, I cuddled with her, hugged and kissed her, and then we did some more foreplay for a few minutes. Then I got ready to try again for the second time. I said, ‘Let’s change positions, come on top and sit on my lap,’ but she refused and said, ‘Let’s just do it like this, lying down.’ Then she eventually agreed and came on top of me, but still there was no reaction. At one point things didn’t go as planned and I got hurt, so I preferred to continue in the same position.

After that, I tried again, and at one point when I was fingerin her she was enjoying alot , she told me ‘stop, stop,’ and I respectfully stopped. Then after a few minutes i continued again , and afterward I asked, ‘Can I put isnid?’ and she said yes then i do it But still, it felt to me like she wasn’t enjoying it or having a good time. She wasn’t really participating or contributing much, and it felt like she just wanted it to be over quickly. Then we both went home.

I really felt i didn't do it or maybe it's not her first time pls help

Edit: i felt she's not interested while doing it, she doesn't react means she didn't interact to do something else or explore or want anything else, and today she's saying, I get bored, next time we'll go on coffee date,

i just wanted her to explore with me new things and try something new or have much interested to do anything or else or i can't explain you all what's my concern is,

i've made a few videos playing around with my piercing for him and he sometimes uses his fingers to tickle my belly button or whatever but i'm mostly coming to this sub to ask if there's anything in particular i should do for him or film myself doing that appeals to this fetish, i want to fulfill his fantasies but i know he's insecure abt telling me what he wants.
if this isn't ok to post on this sub, my apologies and i will delete this

How do I get my gf to try this ? Any1 have advice

Trying to figure out if this is fixable or if I’ve messed something up permanently.

Background: I’ve masturbated by lying face-down and grinding against the bed/couch since I was a kid — never really did the standard hand-stroking method. I’m uncircumcised too, and honestly still not 100% sure if I’m supposed to retract the foreskin when I do this or not, or if that matters.

A few weeks ago a girl gave me a handjob and oral and I could not finish, even though it felt good and I got right up to the edge (that tip-sensitivity, almost-need-to-pee feeling). It just never happened.

Since then I’ve been trying to switch to normal hand masturbation with lube, and it’s inconsistent — sometimes nothing, one time I did finish but wasn’t fully hard at the time.

Then I had sex for the first time a few nights ago and couldn’t stay hard enough to finish, and my partner ended up upset/crying about it, which obviously didn’t help my head going forward.

Is this just from years of prone masturbation conditioning my body to one specific stimulation? Is it fixable, and if so how long does it actually take in people’s experience? Did the foreskin/retraction thing matter at all? Trying to figure out if I need to see a doctor or if this is something guys commonly work through on their own.

Any insight appreciated, this has been messing with my head.