r/AskMenSexAdvice

Well what can I say my wife(31F) and I(32M) haven’t had sex in months and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even want to ask for sex anymore because I get shut down every single time and it just hurts. She’s always saying how she wants me and everything but never actually does anything always showing me new sex toys we can use but we don’t even make out anymore. She seems annoyed every time I try to initiate and I always tell myself that I’m done and I’m not gana ask anymore but for some reason I always still do and always get rejected. She always tells me that she wants to and that she’s horny but when we finally come down to it she’s always to tired. I had a conversation with her about it and I was open and honest about everything and she said she was sorry and would change but nothing ever did. I just don’t know what to do anymore, should I just admit the fact that I’m never gana have sex again?

I (F19) have been dating my boyfriend (M19) for a year now. We’ve had a very active sexual life. however, i have never been able to achieve an orgasm, through masturbation (i’ve tried toys, things to relax myself, etc) or sex. i also started SSRIs this year, i assume if i am capable of having one this i assume would make it even more difficult. it’s kind of made me wants to just stop having sex in general. i kind of just want to focus on my boyfriends pleasure but before i lost my drive he would always just say “whatever will make you feel good/whatever you want”, so it’s kind of just made me lose any motivation for sex in general. i told him i dont want to have sex for now and he’s okay with that. however, i dont know how long this will go on for. should i say that we probably wont be having sex for a quite while or extremely early just because i dont really enjoy it? i’m on the fence since ive never been able to or be capable of having one and although he’s been fine with it, i dont know if he will be forever.

My husband 44 and I 44 have been together for about 7 years. Up until about a year ago we couldn't have had a better sex life. We also have our 2 children 4 and 12 staying in the same room as us. We never get to have any alone time and we never leave each other's sight. Yesterday I went into his browser history and found him searching for gay and bi hookups in our area. Not just once or twice but about 15 reddit pages. He never communicated with anyone but when I confronted him his excuse was he was trying to get into the porn that I like but I knew he was lying because they didn't have porn videos on these pages. Should I be worried?