r/AskMenSexAdvice

I’ve known this guy since may 2025 and we hookup four times twice may 2025, once in January, and once in June. We had sex in June and every other time was just other stuff. Every time we hang we usually talk a little and a little after but it fades out and I was usually only visiting my home town and going back to school after so it didn’t make much sense to keep in touch. He doesn’t seem like a huge player like he says stuff that makes it seem like he doesn’t do things with girls often and he wasn’t lasting long in bed at all but he always pulls away after we hookup. Obviously it’s a casual situation and I don’t think he wants to date me but I’ve been on delivered for over a week after he reached out after sex yet he sent an insta follow request but undid it right away. Is he just messing with me? Would it be stupid to hit him up in a few weeks to try and run it back? I thought the sex was good and want to do it again but he faded away a lot faster this time.

I love to post pornographic photos and videos of myself online. I show everything including my face. I have had over 3 million views total, mostly on X. I'm addicted to it and can't stop. It's a total rush for me to be exposed for everyone to see. I'm aware of some of the consequences. But don't seem to care. I have not been contacted by anyone I know, and feel like with all the porn out there I wont get caught. My wife does not know I post pics of myself alone and with men. I always wonder if people I know IRL will recognize and catch me? Or what some of the consequences could be. I recently did a facial recognition search of myself and found my photos everywhere. I don't think I'll be able to get rid of everything online, but I'm so addicted to it I cant seem to stop.

I (26F) have been dating this guy (40m) for about 5 months and everything was going really great initially. We had some really great dates and our personalities really complement each other. We spend so much time together and the chemistry is so damn good. The problem I’m having is we recently started having sex a few weeks ago and it has been terrible. I didn’t know his age when we first started dating but I didn’t think 40 was old enough to start having sexual issues.

He struggles with maintaining an erection and this is still the case when taking performance enhancement. He also was really bad at performing oral initially. He was biting which was wild asf but I got him together on that end pretty much. Last night he gave really good head but he still can’t stay hard.

I have no idea what to do. I really like him but sex is so important to me. I want to talk to him about it. I brought it up a little when we recently had a conversation about me expressing my sexual needs but I didn’t want to hurt his feelings and didn’t know how to go about it in a nice way so i didn’t hone in on the erection issue as much as I should have. I don’t think sex is everything in a relationship but it is important and I fear it will only get worse from here. I could really use some solid advice pls.

Me and my girlfriend were making out and i think i just inserted my penis a bit and she said yea it was in but not completely in and then i had some liquid on my penis, i am not sure if its my semen or pre ejaculate type semen , or my urine which i didnt urinate for a long time that day or its because of my girlfriend wet liquid(idk wt that is) i am scared to death right now, someone let me know wt i should do or should i be scared or no