u/Educational_Win924

I did it for the first time and I'm now more stressed

See, yesterday I did it with my girlfriend. It was the first time for both of us. She had told me that it was her first time. Then we did foreplay, and she enjoyed it; her reaction was very expressive, like she was saying it felt really good. But when I tried penetration for the first time, she didn't react at all. I continued for a short while, but there was still no reaction or voice from her. Then afterward I couldn't last for long; it was less than a minute, but I still loved it.

After that, I cuddled with her, hugged and kissed her, and then we did some more foreplay for a few minutes. Then I got ready to try again for the second time. I said, 'Let's change positions, come on top and sit on my lap, but she refused and said, 'Let's just do it like this, lying down.' Then she eventually agreed and came on top of me, but still there was no reaction. At one point things didn't go as planned and I got hurt, so I preferred to continue in the same position.

After that, I tried again, and at one point when I was fingerin her she was enjoying alot, she told me 'stop, stop, and respectfully stopped. Then after a few minutes i continued again, and afterward I asked, 'Can I put isnid?' and she said yes then i do it But still, it felt to me like she wasn't enjoying it or having a good time. She wasn't really participating or contributing much, and it felt like she just wanted it to be over quickly. Then we both went home.

I really felt i didn't do it or maybe it's not her first time pls help

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u/Educational_Win924 — 12 days ago

I did it for the first time and I'm now more stressed

See, yesterday I did it with my girlfriend. It was the first time for both of us. She had told me that it was her first time. Then we did foreplay, and she enjoyed it; her reaction was very expressive, like she was saying it felt really good. But when I tried penetration for the first time, she didn’t react at all. I continued for a short while, but there was still no reaction or voice from her. Then afterward I couldn’t last for long; it was less than a minute, but I still loved it.

After that, I cuddled with her, hugged and kissed her, and then we did some more foreplay for a few minutes. Then I got ready to try again for the second time. I said, ‘Let’s change positions, come on top and sit on my lap,’ but she refused and said, ‘Let’s just do it like this, lying down.’ Then she eventually agreed and came on top of me, but still there was no reaction. At one point things didn’t go as planned and I got hurt, so I preferred to continue in the same position.

After that, I tried again, and at one point when I was fingerin her she was enjoying alot , she told me ‘stop, stop,’ and I respectfully stopped. Then after a few minutes i continued again , and afterward I asked, ‘Can I put isnid?’ and she said yes then i do it But still, it felt to me like she wasn’t enjoying it or having a good time. She wasn’t really participating or contributing much, and it felt like she just wanted it to be over quickly. Then we both went home.

I really felt i didn't do it or maybe it's not her first time pls help

Edit: i felt she's not interested while doing it, she doesn't react means she didn't interact to do something else or explore or want anything else, and today she's saying, I get bored, next time we'll go on coffee date,

i just wanted her to explore with me new things and try something new or have much interested to do anything or else or i can't explain you all what's my concern is,

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u/Educational_Win924 — 12 days ago