u/Gloomy-Owl2257

30 [M4M] Have you ever been to a strip club?

It’s an oddly specific post, right?

But I’m curious. I myself have never been to one. But I know that it’s definitely a right of passage for many men. I have always been fascinated by the concept of strippers or really sex workers in general. It’s more of an interest in them psychologically than anything, which I know is rather niche.

So, who on here has actually gone to a strip club? What is your opinion of them?

I will give extra points if your opinion of the dancers themselves is largely negative.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 10 hours ago

30 [M4M] [Missouri] The Psychology of Whores (Strippers, porn stars, etc)

Whore. Such a crass word. But in a sea of posts, it will probably stand out.

I’m looking for other guys that share the same niche interest as me: the mindset and psychology of a “whore”.

I am NOT talking about sluts. I am talking about legitimate whores.

Now, this could mean many things. Obviously, escorts come to mind. But it could also encompass porn stars, strippers, even just your average internet thot.

But as far as conversation goes, I’d like to explore the key motivations of one of these individuals. The boring answer is that they “like it” or that it’s fun. I believe that the answer is way more complex.

What is your take?

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 1 day ago

[M4F] Do any strippers or the like lurk on here?

Very specific question for a very specific group of people.

Strippers, I am interested in your experience. I am interested in the “why” of what you do. What motivates you to do that kind of work? Do you like the work? Is it something that you see yourself doing longterm?

I am looking to deep dive into your perspective and thoughts on your life and career.

I am fine with fake or “catfish” responders but please god, make it realistic. I am here for realism. Not to talk to someone who’s just “super slutty” and obviously a dumb horny trope

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 6 days ago

[M4F] Do any strippers or the like lurk on here?

Very specific question for a very specific group of people.

Strippers, I am interested in your experience. I am interested in the “why” of what you do. What motivates you to do that kind of work? Do you like the work? Is it something that you see yourself doing longterm?

I am looking to deep dive into your perspective and thoughts on your life and career.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 6 days ago

30 [M4M] Do any strippers happen to lurk on here?

A bit of a random question, I will admit.

But I am looking to hear about and learn about the perspective of strippers or dancers, as they are often called.

I would like to hear more about your story. About your opinions on the job. What your experience has been like in general. I think that it’s a rather niche demographic of people who do not often have a space to tell their story in an anonymous environment.

Also, if you’re going to fake it, make it realistic. I expect that it’ll happen and I don’t care. But make it plausible and realistic. I don’t want to hear about how you’re “such a slut” or whatever. It’s not interesting to me on any level. I am here for realism.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 7 days ago

[M4M] A discussion about whores

We live in an era where this type of work is lauded or encouraged by many people in society. There has never been a time where it has been more socially acceptable.

On the other side of the spectrum, I am quite interested in the perspectives of strippers, full-fledged escorts, and porn stars. Rather than sit around and discuss how “hot” we find them, I am looking for another male who is interested in the mindset, psychology, and motivations of the women who choose that type of profession. I think that these people likely have incredibly complex personalities and psyches and it would be interesting to really delve into what makes them tick. I am rather bored by conversation that would involve “gooning” or just drooling over them. I want to have a conversation that really analyzes and explores who exactly these people are and the “why” of what they do. Is it purely economics? Is it an intersection of economics and the right type of psychological chemistry that makes a person more likely to engage in that type of behavior and work? What is life like for those who have worked in these industries and then left? I want to discuss the context in which these women pursue this kind of work, engage in this kind of work, and just about everything you can imagine related to who they are as people.

I think that it’s overall a probably a grim reality that many men like to ignore when they consume porn or think about these types of people. They assume that all of the women involved with this are just “horny” or “sluts” and like behaving that way. For me, I think it is likely more varied and complex than that. I think that the answers are likely out there and something that would be interesting for us to discuss and analyze as a tandem. Maybe you have experiences with going to strip clubs or engaging with escorts. Perhaps you are the type of person who likes to watch or read interviews with porn stars who are either active in the industry or have left it. I am approaching this from almost an academic standpoint and I expect you to really want to get into the weeds with me.

I look forward to receiving responses that will hopefully be well-written, engaging, and overall address the essence of what I am looking for without completely changing the subject. I am not remotely interested in your girlfriend or cucking, please do not message me about anything related to that. I am also a completely straight male and would prefer responses from likeminded individuals.

This post is strictly for conversation. I am not much of a roleplayer and prefer to have in-depth conversations about a topic, specifically with likeminded people. What I am looking for is very niche and specific. I am not expecting this to receive much response.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 8 days ago

[M4F] Do any strippers lurk on here?

Very specific question for a very specific group of people.

Strippers, I am interested in your experience. I am interested in the “why” of what you do. What motivates you to do that kind of work? Do you like the work? Is it something that you see yourself doing longterm?

I am looking to deep dive into your perspective and thoughts on your life and career.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 9 days ago

30 [M4M] Have you ever been to a strip club?

It’s an oddly specific post, right?

But I’m curious. I myself have never been to one. But I know that it’s definitely a right of passage for many men. I have always been fascinated by the concept of strippers or really sex workers in general. It’s more of an interest in them psychologically than anything, which I know is rather niche.

So, who on here has actually gone to a strip club? What is your opinion of them?

I will give extra points if your opinion of the dancers themselves is largely negative.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 9 days ago

[M4M] Let’s Talk About Women

Bonus points if you have an interest in psychology and can spell. I am NOT into cucking or other men, do not message me about that. I do NOT want to hear about your girlfriend or wife, at all.

I want to talk about women. I don’t really mean in like a “let’s goon together way”. I mean, let’s really talk about what we like about women. Whether it’s their makeup, hair, their figure, are you into blondes or brunettes? Quiet or the life of the party? College girls? Older women? Do you not really discriminate? There’s a large assortment of possibilities for talking points and I included many below.

I feel like this prompt can be a jumping off point for a much larger conversation. I am a completely straight male and I am sure there are plenty more like me out there that just want a nice and neutral environment where we can get up on our soapbox and talk about our biggest interest. I am not looking to do anything that isn’t completely straight and I figured I’d include that as a disclaimer.

I’ve included a few potential starting points for conversation:

Blondes or brunettes? Maybe you prefer redheads? For me the choice is easy, it’s always blondes. But I’d love to hear what your preference is! Do you prefer natural hair color or someone who regularly maintains and gets their hair done?

*Tits or ass? Look, we know it’s both. We know it depends. But if you absolutely had to pick, which one are you going with? How do you feel about breast implants?

College girls? MILFs? Somewhere in between? This is an important one for us to discuss and unravel. I think that there are merits to both.

Favorite models, porn stars, etc? Are you a legitimate fan of any of them are do you merely enjoy them for the content that they produce?

I am also interested in discussing women in pornography, escorts, and other topics similar or adjacent to those type of women in general. I think that that’s a deeper conversation that can go a lot of different directions.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 10 days ago

30 [M4M] Have you ever been to a strip club?

It’s an oddly specific post, right?

But I’m curious. I myself have never been to one. But I know that it’s definitely a right of passage for many men. I have always been fascinated by the concept of strippers or really sex workers in general. It’s more of an interest in them psychologically than anything, which I know is rather niche.

So, who on here has actually gone to a strip club? What is your opinion of them?

I will give extra points if your opinion of the dancers themselves is largely negative.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 11 days ago

30 [M4M] Have you ever been to a strip club?

It’s an oddly specific post, right?

But I’m curious. I myself have never been to one. But I know that it’s definitely a right of passage for many men. I have always been fascinated by the concept of strippers or really sex workers in general. It’s more of an interest in them psychologically than anything, which I know is rather niche.

So, who on here has actually gone to a strip club? What is your opinion of them?

I will give extra points if your opinion of the dancers themselves is largely negative.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 12 days ago

[M4M] Heterosexual Male Talent Wanted for Porn Production Company

This post is a fictional prompt and has no basis in reality. With that being said, I would like for you to message me as if you are legitimately inquiring. I am not much of a roleplayer but I do love to discuss hypothetical situations and really flesh them out to the fullest extent.

It’s a dumb question but who WOULDN’T want to get paid to have sex? My company is known for producing particularly rough gonzo pornography. In this era of self-made porn, we are producing studio pornography that seems like it could come straight out of the raunchy 2000s. Facefucking, anal sex, choking, spitting, and borderline mistreatment are all staples of the type of product that we have been producing for the past couple years.

The dilemma? We have had issues retaining male talent who move on to do other projects with other companies. You see, our company doesn’t necessarily produce AVN award winning content. In fact, we’re explicitly NOT invited to award shows and most of the industry only acknowledges us when it’s to run our name through the mud or criticize our work. As a result, we’ve had a lot of male talent up and leave after a few months for greener pastures.

That’s where you come in. I am looking to invest significant capital into retaining a male talent that will stick around for the long term. Candidates will be interviewed to try and find us a “franchise player” that I can build the entire company around. The requirements for this are that you have experience having sex, obviously. And that you generally look the part. I am willing to take on newcomers who may grow into the role but only the most serious candidates who have a real passion for making porn need apply for the position.

As I said in my italicized opening, I would like your initial response to be framed and look like a realistic and serious inquiry into the position. It does not need to be a long response. But I would like for you to at least make it look legitimate and not break the 4th wall. The actual content of the conversation is going to center around your contract negotiation and extensive discussion about the type of content that you will be asked to produce. The fun for me is to take a hypothetical situation and collaborate with a partner and really flesh the idea out as much as we possibly can.

Kinks: Facefucking, anal, choking, spitting, anything you would find in the best porn from the 2000s.

Limits: Rape and anything illegal whatsoever.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 12 days ago

[M4M] A discussion about whores

We live in an era where this type of work is lauded or encouraged by many people in society. There has never been a time where it has been more socially acceptable.

On the other side of the spectrum, I am quite interested in the perspectives of strippers, full-fledged escorts, and porn stars. Rather than sit around and discuss how “hot” we find them, I am looking for another male who is interested in the mindset, psychology, and motivations of the women who choose that type of profession. I think that these people likely have incredibly complex personalities and psyches and it would be interesting to really delve into what makes them tick. I am rather bored by conversation that would involve “gooning” or just drooling over them. I want to have a conversation that really analyzes and explores who exactly these people are and the “why” of what they do. Is it purely economics? Is it an intersection of economics and the right type of psychological chemistry that makes a person more likely to engage in that type of behavior and work? What is life like for those who have worked in these industries and then left? I want to discuss the context in which these women pursue this kind of work, engage in this kind of work, and just about everything you can imagine related to who they are as people.

I think that it’s overall a probably a grim reality that many men like to ignore when they consume porn or think about these types of people. They assume that all of the women involved with this are just “horny” or “sluts” and like behaving that way. For me, I think it is likely more varied and complex than that. I think that the answers are likely out there and something that would be interesting for us to discuss and analyze as a tandem. Maybe you have experiences with going to strip clubs or engaging with escorts. Perhaps you are the type of person who likes to watch or read interviews with porn stars who are either active in the industry or have left it. I am approaching this from almost an academic standpoint and I expect you to really want to get into the weeds with me.

I look forward to receiving responses that will hopefully be well-written, engaging, and overall address the essence of what I am looking for without completely changing the subject. I am not remotely interested in your girlfriend or cucking, please do not message me about anything related to that. I am also a completely straight male and would prefer responses from likeminded individuals.

This post is strictly for conversation. I am not much of a roleplayer and prefer to have in-depth conversations about a topic, specifically with likeminded people. What I am looking for is very niche and specific. I am not expecting this to receive much response.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 13 days ago

[M4M] I want to have a conversation about women with another intellectual person

No offense to the many people who respond to my posts but I am really sick of “hi I like fuk” and similar.

I want to have an honest to god coherent conversation with another guy on here about women. Our preferences, our thoughts on them, how we feel about them in general.

I specifically want to have a long discussion about strippers, even if you have no personal experience with them.

If this sounds like your thing, let’s make it happen!

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 14 days ago

No offense to the many people who respond to my posts but I am really sick of “hi I like fuk” and similar.

I want to have an honest to god coherent conversation with another guy on here about women. Our preferences, our thoughts on them, how we feel about them in general.

I specifically want to have a long discussion about strippers, even if you have no personal experience with them.

If this sounds like your thing, let’s make it happen!

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 15 days ago

No offense to the many people who respond to my posts but I am really sick of “hi I like fuk” and similar.

I want to have an honest to god coherent conversation with another guy on here about women. Our preferences, our thoughts on them, how we feel about them in general.

I specifically want to have a long discussion about strippers, even if you have no personal experience with them.

If this sounds like your thing, let’s make it happen!

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 16 days ago

We live in an era where this type of work is lauded or encouraged by many people in society. There has never been a time where it has been more socially acceptable.

On the other side of the spectrum, I am quite interested in the perspectives of strippers, full-fledged escorts, and porn stars. Rather than sit around and discuss how “hot” we find them, I am looking for another male who is interested in the mindset, psychology, and motivations of the women who choose that type of profession. I think that these people likely have incredibly complex personalities and psyches and it would be interesting to really delve into what makes them tick. I am rather bored by conversation that would involve “gooning” or just drooling over them. I want to have a conversation that really analyzes and explores who exactly these people are and the “why” of what they do. Is it purely economics? Is it an intersection of economics and the right type of psychological chemistry that makes a person more likely to engage in that type of behavior and work? What is life like for those who have worked in these industries and then left? I want to discuss the context in which these women pursue this kind of work, engage in this kind of work, and just about everything you can imagine related to who they are as people.

I think that it’s overall a probably a grim reality that many men like to ignore when they consume porn or think about these types of people. They assume that all of the women involved with this are just “horny” or “sluts” and like behaving that way. For me, I think it is likely more varied and complex than that. I think that the answers are likely out there and something that would be interesting for us to discuss and analyze as a tandem. Maybe you have experiences with going to strip clubs or engaging with escorts. Perhaps you are the type of person who likes to watch or read interviews with porn stars who are either active in the industry or have left it. I am approaching this from almost an academic standpoint and I expect you to really want to get into the weeds with me.

I look forward to receiving responses that will hopefully be well-written, engaging, and overall address the essence of what I am looking for without completely changing the subject. I am not remotely interested in your girlfriend or cucking, please do not message me about anything related to that. I am also a completely straight male and would prefer responses from likeminded individuals.

This post is strictly for conversation. I am not much of a roleplayer and prefer to have in-depth conversations about a topic, specifically with likeminded people. What I am looking for is very niche and specific. I am not expecting this to receive much response.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 16 days ago

No offense to the many people who respond to my posts but I am really sick of “hi I like fuk” and similar.

I want to have an honest to god coherent conversation with another guy on here about women. Our preferences, our thoughts on them, how we feel about them in general.

I specifically want to have a long discussion about strippers, even if you have no personal experience with them.

If this sounds like your thing, let’s make it happen!

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 16 days ago

No offense to the many people who respond to my posts but I am really sick of “hi I like fuk” and similar.

I want to have an honest to god coherent conversation with another guy on here about women. Our preferences, our thoughts on them, how we feel about them in general.

I specifically want to have a long discussion about strippers, even if you have no personal experience with them.

If this sounds like your thing, let’s make it happen!

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 17 days ago

Bonus points if you have an interest in psychology and can spell. I am NOT into cucking or other men, do not message me about that. I do \\\*\\\*not\\\*\\\* want to hear about your girlfriend or wife, at all.

I want to talk about women. I don’t really mean in like a “let’s goon together way”. I mean, let’s really talk about what we like about women. Whether it’s their makeup, hair, their figure, are you into blondes or brunettes? Quiet or the life of the party? College girls? Older women? Do you not really discriminate? There’s a large assortment of possibilities for talking points and I included many below.

I feel like this prompt can be a jumping off point for a much larger conversation. I am a completely straight male and I am sure there are plenty more like me out there that just want a nice and neutral environment where we can get up on our soapbox and talk about our biggest interest. I am not looking to do anything that isn’t completely straight and I figured I’d include that as a disclaimer.

I’ve included a few potential starting points for conversation:

\*Blondes or brunettes? Maybe you prefer redheads? For me the choice is easy, it’s always blondes. But I’d love to hear what your preference is! Do you prefer natural hair color or someone who regularly maintains and gets their hair done?\*

\*Tits or ass? Look, we know it’s both. We know it depends. But if you absolutely had to pick, which one are you going with? How do you feel about breast implants?\*

\*College girls? MILFs? Somewhere in between? This is an important one for us to discuss and unravel. I think that there are merits to both.\*

\*Favorite models, porn stars, etc? Are you a legitimate fan of any of them are do you merely enjoy them for the content that they produce?\*

I am also interested in discussing women in pornography, escorts, and other topics similar or adjacent to those type of women in general. I think that that’s a deeper conversation that can go a lot of different directions.

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u/Gloomy-Owl2257 — 17 days ago