Asked my gf of 2 years on her past. She was honest at least but I’m a bit shook since
We both never openly discussed about our past, we kind of kept it aside because it wasn’t something we were comfortable with. By this point of our relationship, we both met our families and have gotten quite serious about each other.
I always knew she was quite extroverted and still is, I assumed it’s not very low but kept those thoughts aside.
We finally spoke about it and she was honest - at least from what I can tell. I know she’s honest because she said things that she knows might turn me away or disgust me.
She’s 23 now, we met when she was 21, I was 24. We fucked on the 3rd date which made the sex so meaningful and exciting. However, I realised I was one of the few guys who didn’t fuck her on the first date, most guys she went out with - she either went over to their place or just met and fucked in public.
She had a taste for older men and loved how they treated her much better than guys her age and they fucked her meaninglessly (her words) which I asked what that means, and she said they were more fun in bed and there was no string attached, they had creative fetishes and were able to guide her properly into doing certain things. She was and is open to unique sexual fetishes, though now I know she’s done a lot already.
Up until she met me, she was on her roster with 10 guys or so. After we started going out, she stopped doing raw with other guys except with this guy who was dating her friend but always fucked my girlfriend whenever they had a chance. She fucked him raw because she knew he stayed clean and had a good pull out game.
I was so fucking shook by this point, I thought she was a bit more conservative. 10 body count is what I imagined but from her stories, her body count is closer to 30, she doesn’t remember all the guys.
She said she’s sucked more guys than she fucked, a number closer to her blowjob count is 60-70 guys, especially party nights where she easily sucked off 3-4 guys and ended the night having sex with one, though some benders she fucked 5-6 guys over 2 days, sometimes she had no count but just counted all the guys in the room since she’s sure all fucked her when she was blowing someone else.
She was and still gets invited to house parties (more like sex parties) by older guys, I saw a few and always found those invites odd until now. Those invites they’d specially mention how many guys are coming compared to girls, and for some reason they emphasised more on the number of guys which were always 2x more. So for every 3 girls, there were 6 guys. She said these guys leaned more towards gangbangs and orgies with more guys.
Which never made sense, but I figured now. She told me she’s been to 2 of these parties. She said rather openly that she’d be naked in the middle of the room by an hour after reaching. Everyone would be naked within an hour, lights dimmed down and it’s just a bunch of guys with their dicks on her face and random guys going in and out of her pussy and ass. She never knew know all the guys names.
She spent most of her uni days either studying or going out with guys. Sem breaks were her slutting days, she is very open about that. She said when it came to studying she was proper, her grades speak for her. And when it came to guys, she was clearly very proper too, though not all guys are counted for.
She said she wants to be very transparent and honest, and let me still decide if I want to pursue this. At that point, I assured her I still love her and nothing can change that, though this was to hear her whole story but also I do still love her as much, just that it does bother me a little to know or imagine the number of guys that got to see her naked and fuck her.
Her body count is beyond counting atp, she’s not even sure on a number to give for the guys she sucked so I’ll just take her as she is and not see her past.