Finding the right person online can be taxing. Trying to figure out if the other person knows how to hold a conversation, has half a brain, is being honest about their kinks, or if they are even really who they claim to be. It’s wild.
I’ve had a few amazing online dynamics and they all have the same thing in common, the sub wants a dynamic and is enthusiastic about it. She was sure that she wanted to give up some control, to be ordered around, humiliate herself, perform for me, and be trained. Along with the maturity of being able to hold an adult conversation and have real talks.
My kinks range from simple vanilla sexy outfits to the dark parts of the internet most people run away from when they find. Did you know that hot sauce can be put on your clit for a wonderful time? It’s a grand time.
I’m looking for a sub who wants that extreme. The red flags that most sane people will turn you down for.
I also want the obsession. My worship kink is stronger than I realized previously and I think I would like to lean into that more. I’m pretty successful, I have a decent size ego, and I like being able to take the lead. Enthusiastic desperation for attention and praise is a key aspect I look for in a sub.
I’m a bit of a nerd, or I used to be. D&D, video games, anime, fantasy, sci-fi, guitar, baking, whatever. I’m an obsessive learner and always diving into new things as well.
I’m 6ft tall, average/lean build, overall I’m often told I have the hot science teacher look. Which fits my personality as well.
I have a lot of dad energy and I enjoy that role. Decision making, scolding, praising, teaching, training. All of it. My ideal sub needs that. Daddy issues or not, that’s what I do.
The master-slave dynamic is really how I approach a dynamic. I like a sub that is just barely hanging on to reality and has some dependency on the relationship. It’s not healthy, but the power exchange is delicious.
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Easy scoring metric
Body type - Slim, petite, short, some curves, athletic, ex-athlete body (thick?). Probably under 140 lbs.
Must have Kinks - Exhibitionist (for me), orgasm control, masochist (physical and mental), anal, deepthroating, worship.
Age - ideally 28-35 range. While I’m open to age, younger or older, it’s the attitude and personality I look for.
Lifestyle - Live alone ideally. Have time for tasks and sessions. Job can be taxing or demanding, that’s life. But your free time belongs to me.
ADHD and Spectrum friendly.
Love a girl with trauma.
If you these don’t all match with you, but you’re extremely interested, then just message me and we can chat.
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Final warning - I am harsh, honest, and cruel. If you seem nice, then I will probably take a minute to get comfortable. I have to mask for the normal world so it’s not easy to flip the switch.
I have a nice side and a real side. If you think I’m too nice to you then you just don’t know me.
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I prefer subs that overshare. Spill as much as you want.
Include your body type, age, and something to grab my attention. Don’t be shy, you won’t scare me…. I’m looking for crazy.
If this is still up, then I’m still looking.