Let me guess, I'm wrong as always, for loving what's being demonised.
It does feel like I'm the only one. When I accidentally end up in a relationship I feel safe enough and I mention that I love the fuller softer form and when I dare to mentioned that the greatest love one can show towards me is the will to be softer and so in the end I get the same results by me ending up being alone. So I'm at the point to never share what I like because it only proves that loving a softer shape is something to be demonised, especially since said individuals "defeating" said struggle by loosing significant weight years prior and me darling to mention that their past selves where what I'm looking for is just labeled as wrong.
So by learning from my mistakes I decided to never mention what I enjoy for in any future relationship to mention what calms my mind and soul because clearly I do not deserve such.