r/fatadmirertalk

Don't get me wrong, I'm very confident and happy with the way I look because being fat comes with certain perks but I can't help but wonder how differently I would get treated or approached if I wasn't fat. I haven't dated anyone in 4 years, I'm only 21 but it just seems as if people around me only like thin girls. I have never been approached before, never even went on an actual date yk it's embarrassing to even tell my friends that because they know why that happens, not that I'm dying yo gey picked or anything but yk some days are hard.

Anyways that was my rant guys, I'm pretty sure I'll feel confident tmr but rn I'll drown in my misery. Goodnight.

Feels so damn shallow but my partner wants to lose weight. I of course 100 percent support her and want to be there to support her in her goals. However I can't lie, this change makes me a bit sad, haha.

How much of a requirement for you is it? Have you found ways to still make it work despite?

Today I first started my externship for clinicals (I’m a student who is in an MA program for college) and one of the MAs I instantly fell in love. Her personality is so captivating. Then I noticed that she was a heavier gal and I fell in love even more. She carries her weight so good and she is a fan of the Scream movies!! (Love those movies). I’m too scared to ask her if I could take her out and get to know her. Idk how to approach her but also her mom I believe works there too. I’m scared :c I should learn to be more confident in myself. One struggle I have with is admitting to myself that I love big girls and I care too much about what others might think of me. I also get very nervous when I was around her. I’ve never asked a girl out before also /:

Hi, I'm 44m and I have always adored bigger beautiful women. I think that being curvaceous, plump, voluptuous, full figured, plus size, bbw, ssbbw, fat, however you want to frame it, is simply beautiful. In my mind bigger is better. I feel women should be soft, curvy and womanly.

I find it interesting also how different people carry their weight differently from each other. Which I think is also where attraction to bigger women comes from. It might be someone who is bustier, or has a big belly, or bigger hips and bum. It's exciting and intriguing, seeing how fat shapes and defines a figure. Making everyone's body unique and special.

I would love to chat and get to know more people here. Please comment and share your thoughts and please DM me to chat more. I hope to get to know more people here. Thanks.

Not sure if this is the place to say it but I love surfing diving, gym rat and I love chilling too 🥰 open to anything with anyone I don’t discriminate against anyone of any colour shape or size. Not saying I’m here to fetishise anything I just haven’t dated in a while and this is my preference yk bigger woman. Now i am at a place in my life where id like to financially provide and be with someone

As of a few weeks ago, I (27M) have been dating a lovely woman (29M). We met on hinge and have been on 5 or 6 dates at this point. The two of us gel together incredibly and just really seem to be on the same wavelength on a lot of big stuff. We’re fairly serious about each other and we are getting to the stage of meeting the people in each other’s lives. These introductions have gone a little rocky sometimes, and I think it has to do with her weight.

The thing is, she’s different than women I’ve dated before because she’s quite large: in a recent conversation, it came up that she is currently around 356 lbs, and it really shows on her (her Hinge says she’s 5’2”). At first when I met her I was really caught off guard and surprised since she didn’t look like her profile pics and was much bigger than who I’d dated in the past, but we connected so well that we completely fell for each other.

Her weight doesn’t bother me, it’s how people react to her that does. When she introduces her friends to me, they are always so nice to me. But at this point I’ve introduced her to some close friends, a couple coworkers, and my parents, and it always goes something like this. They’ll be very polite to her but will not talk to her or ask her anything beyond just greeting her. And they’ll look her over from head to toe and do a weird stare that she definitely picks up on and feels uncomfortable because of. Every introduction has been this awkward thing and we both dread it now. The worst were my parents, they stared at her and made some awkward conversation with us over dinner, and then really grilled us on how we met and what we see in each other like it was on a quiz or something. And after dinner, they kept insisting we go on a walk, and I think intentionally kept going way past a comfortable distance for my date to see her struggle and get sweaty and flustered.

On these occasions, I’m not sure how best to support my date. I think there’s an obvious elephant in the room, but no one is explicitly rude to her so I don’t want to draw attention to it by calling someone out and embarrass her more, but I also don’t want to minimize this silent judgement like it’s nothing because it definitely affects both of us to the point that we dread these kinds of first meeting interactions.

Hey everyone! Latina BBW chiming in here. I know that we share a lot on here about different dating apps that are there for us, which is why I wanted to share that the Bustr app is the worse one I’ve ever tried.

There is an ALARMING amount of scammers on there. It’s bad bad bad. I’ve been on others (I’ve had success on WooPlus, but wanted to try something different) and I’ve never been so unimpressed with a dating app.

I would avoid Bustr at all costs! Just in the last 24 hours, I’ve had three guys try to present themselves to me as someone else (I have my own ways to verify).

Stay safe out there!

so I(M 🇲🇽 32,5’10/166lbs) have come to the resolve that feederism is destructive… in light of being better I have decided that I wanna meet and date girls already 500-800lbs in size and give them the best experience, and just be genuine and sweet, the issue… where do I meet girls who are that size who aren’t into feedism or using it as a way to get income? 😓 my noble intentions have met a road block it seems