u/Objective_Rip_7375

I’m 50 and 113kg. My gorgeous wife is 47 and 100ish kg. She has a fantastic bust, beautiful round tummy, nice chunky butt and in between her legs is my paradise.
I have tried to make her feel hot and sexy for years. We have been together for 29 years. To me there is no one hotter than her.
I bought lingerie, correct size. Told to return it which I did. I tell her how she makes me feel, I’d happily be intimate with her multiple times a day.
This woman just scoffs at me and gets upset. She is in perimenopause which doesn’t help.
What am I doing wrong? What does she not hear what I’m saying and believe it?
Plus size ladies, I’d love some insight.