Our Femdom marriage runs on 3 simple rules
My husband introduced me to the idea of being his Dominant about 1.5 years ago, and I want to share our really simple dynamic that works well for us.
This isn't advice, it's barely an anecdote, so treat with a grain of salt.
Skipping all the parts about finding ourselves, experimenting with rules & expectations, burnout, and work/life/us balance, what we struggled with was overcomplicating things and what ended up working was just having a really simple set of rules:
- Listen to me
- Be proactive
- No "DIY"
They're the only rules we have, and this is what we've agreed on:
1. Listen to me
- If I tell you to do something, do it.
- If you disagree with something, voice it, but I always have the final say.
- No complaining.
2. Be proactive
- This goes for chores, dates, pampering, paying bills.
- Fix things before they become a problem.
3. No "DIY"
- Lock up when I'm out.
- Unlock when I'm home.
- No touching.
It might look or sound extreme for some, but from the outside, we look like a regular & boring couple and on the inside, we're very loving, affectionate, chill, and happy best friends!