u/HappyLilBugg

What is it with people? It’s like a constant cycle for me. I realize I have HS. I accept it. So when I start dating, I make it known. HEY. I have a high sex drive. I’m not a receiver, I’m a giver.

Three months in , I’m now going a week? Sometimes two? Sometimes LONGER. Without being touched. I’m by no means someone that NEEDS it everyday - I have toys and a hand for a reason. It seriously drives me insane that this is a constant in relationships. But once I communicate how I’m feeling, I get told I’m “too much”.

For a long time, I thought it was me. I thought “something” was off. But it’s not me.

Sorry. Just needed to vent.

I hate the stigma that comes around with hypersexuality but I understand it. I can’t be normal for the life of me. It is constant, feeling the need to orgasm is CONSTANT.

How do you deal with this in a professional setting? I work in healthcare in an office setting & as we all know, it’s hard being in this environment. I don’t want any perverts to message me about it 😂 I genuinely want advice or just to know someone relates!

Currently struggling with thoughts and ideas.
When it’s late at night and you’re trying not to give into your thoughts what do you do? I’ve tried distracting myself in every way.

Stems from childhood abuse. (Of course. My father was a pervert)