u/HappyLuxurryDom

I would like to take this time to remind all the lovely doms and subs and everyone in between that It's is important to love yourself and to take mental breaks and check in on yourself. It can become very easy as a dom to depend on happiness derived from subs and a subs can also become dependent on happiness from their dom. I don't think there is anything wrong with that, in fact I quite like it a lot as an owner and dom. I love feeling craved and making people happy.
It is important to have a balance though and always love yourself. Friends, dynamics and even loved ones come and go, but you will always have yourself as long as you live. Love yourself 🫂❤️. I'm sitting on a beach in Bora Bora on a solo vacation and taking this time to reset and be happy with myself and all the beautiful things life can offer. Please take some time to compliment yourself and be happy for what you have in life ❤️. Love yourself and be the best version of yourself so the ones you love, they get the best version of you also.

My sweet little sub u/angelxx_baby asked me a great question. How is it best to tease a sub? Thank you for being a great sub and I love your question ❤️! As always with these, this is just my opinion and how I have had success. Every dom and sub is different, and that's totally okay ❤️. All these kinks are with done with consenting subs, If your sub doesn't play with these kinks please do not try this without talking with them.

1. Play into their kinks, use their kinks against them. One of the best ways to tease a sub is to get them needy and wanting something they crave. This could be anything. I like to make my subs earn their collar or earn photos or voice notes from me. I will sometimes tease them saying "oh that's too bad I was going to give you your collar , or I was going to give you a voice note today" but now I'm not so sure. This is a great way to get your sub locked in on you and tease them with something they want. Watch them melt in your hands after trying to earn what you are teasing them with.

2. Verbally tease them while they are doing tasks. One of the most effective ways to tease a sub is when you have them in subspace. I absolutely love when I'm having my subs play with a toy or playing with themselves for me and I verbally tease them. This can be done with humiliation, degrading, taunting them, or many other kinks. Some things I like to do are add in some CNC. After telling a sub to behave, or don't talk back or stop thinking, I like to give them a task. "Now be a good girl for me and spank your ass 10x each cheek, count them off for me". Then as they start doing them halfway through I like to tease and gaslight them and say "keep going that's 5 you owe me 10 more I said 15 spanks". I have set up a lose lose for her. She either accepts my word and takes the extra spanks or she corrects me and says no you said 10, but by doing that she has talked back and tried to think, which she was not permitted to do so she gets punished with more spanks 😈. it's fun and shows your mental dominance over them while teasing your power over them ❤️

I am very sad that I currently don't have an England or even a UK sub 😢. Some of my best dynamics ever have been with girls from the UK. I love making bets with my subs and my soccer team Mexico is playing England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿, I would love to make a fun bet with a sub from England or the UK! DMs open if interested! ❤️

I don't want to have sex; I want to fuck you. I want to conquer your body and mind, I want to have dominion over everything that makes you the person you are. I want to walk through the front door and drop my work stuff on the floor. I want you to approach me and take my jacket off. You start to undo my tie as I take my cufflinks out and remove my dress shirt. I want to lock eyes with you, me looking down at you; I want to tell you in a stern tone, "On your knees, now." You hear my tone, you know better than to disobey, and you eagerly drop to both knees and look up at me. I smile and say, "Such a good girl." The shoes — take them off now. I place one in your lap as you quickly move to untie my shoe. After both shoes are taken off, I make you take my Tom Ford belt off that matches the shoes, and this is done with your mouth only as your hands are behind your back. Finally, when this is done, I demand that you stand up. I pick you up, one ass cheek in each hand; our eyes meet. I walk you to the master bedroom as we lock lips and passionately kiss. I open the door with one hand while holding your body with the other, pulling you into me to keep you up with one arm . I drop you onto the bed; your momentum carries you onto your back. I demand that you remove all your clothes, then lay on your back and don't move. You quiver with anticipation but obey. You watch as I remove my slacks and my boxers. I don't talk — I don't need to do anything but climb on top and take what's mine. I place one hand on your throat as my body presses against yours. I kiss your neck seductively and I work my way up your neck to your ear. I suck on your earlobe, seducing you further as I whisper into your ear. You beg me, "Please, David, oh my God, fuck me please, I need it, oh my God." I take my cock and slide it into you. Your eyes shoot fully open and your hand covers your mouth as you say Ina shocked tone , "Oh my God, gentle, gentle," as I work my way in. The stretching pain turns to pleasure quickly. Your mind is gone and flushed with ecstasy. Your thoughts are gone, your body control is gone. As I fuck you, pinning you down into the mattress, your arms squeeze me. Your hands grab my biceps. Your claws dig into my back as you scratch up and down while holding on to me in pleasure. Your legs shake violently, up and down, side to side, as you involuntarily tremble with pleasure. Your toes begin to curl as you scream in pleasure. I move my chest off of you and continue to fuck you, but my eyes remain locked on yours. "Say my name, scream my name, or I'll stop fucking you." You don't think, you don't hesitate — you scream my name. I respond, "Such a good girl, louder, let it out, cum for your master and scream my name; I want the neighbors to know my name." Any ounce of strength you had disappears as you oblige and scream my name as you cum on my cock. We climax at the same time as I shoot my load inside you.

I collapse into you after we finish. I kiss you on the lips and roll you onto your side. I cuddle you and ask, "Can I give you some aftercare?" ❤️🫂

The other night I was on the phone with one of my long term subs. I told her she was to sleep in her collar that night. She enjoys being collared but prefers to not sleep in her collar (not a limit, just something I don't make her do regularly as she doesn't find it as comfortable as no collar). She informed me that should couldn't sleep in my collar that night because she was feeling sick and was afraid of throwing up.
Very fair point. My little girl is sick 🤧 so I sent her to bed 🤭❤️. Obviously if she is too sick to wear my collar then she needs sleep and rest. I could hear the regret in her voice when I find her she was being sent to bed, she wanted to protest and change her mind but she didn't. I ended the phone call shortly after and sent her to bed. I could tell she wanted to talk back badly as I don't normally give her a bed time. She wanted to say no I'm okay I can stay awake, she wanted to say no no I'll wear the collar. She wisely avoided the trap 🪤 knowing any answer other than "yes Daddy" was a path of failure. Talking back or admitting she can wear my collar or going to bed way before she normally does. A lose lose lose situation for her and a win win win situation for me. I must admit it made me very happy to see my obedience training taking over her mind and dictating her actions. Like a good girl should ❤️