u/HelPav

Ma femme, enceinte de 24 semaines (pas encore de lactation), et moi avons parlé de l'allaitement maternel, et elle semblait plutôt ouverte à cette idée.

Mais pour l'instant, c'est encore assez théorique : elle n'a pas encore de lait et ses seins sont encore très sensibles, donc nous n'avons pas encore franchi le pas.

J'imagine que le plus dur est fait : obtenir son consentement et son intérêt pour l'allaitement maternel. Mais comme c'est une pratique assez récente (on n'y avait même pas pensé pour notre premier enfant), j'aimerais savoir si d'autres personnes ayant vécu cette expérience ont des conseils à partager pour que ce soit tellement agréable qu'elle ne veuille plus s'arrêter.

Comment ne pas lui faire mal, comment maintenir la montée de lait pendant des semaines, des mois, voire des années ; comment créer un lien fort grâce à l'allaitement maternel, etc.

Tous les conseils sont les bienvenus.

My pregnant wife (24 weeks in, no lactating yet) and I have talked about her breastfeeding me, and she seemed pretty open to it.
But it’s quite theoretical at that point, she’s not lactating yet and her tits are still quite sensitive, so we haven’t “put it in practice” yet.

I guess I’ve done the hardest part having her consent and interest for Adult Breastfeeding, but since it’s a recent though huge kink (haven’t even thought about it for our first kid) I’d like to know if other people who have had that experience have tips to share to make it so nice for her she won’t want to stop.

How not to hurt her, keep her milk coming in for weeks, months, hell, even years; how to build a strong connection through ABF, etc.
Any tip of any kind welcome.

(Originally published on r/AdultBreastfeeding)

My pregnant wife (24 weeks in, no lactating yet) and I have talked about her breastfeeding me, and she seemed pretty open to it.
But it’s quite theoretical at that point, she’s not lactating yet and her tits are still quite sensitive, so we haven’t “put it in practice” yet.

I guess I’ve done the hardest part having her consent and interest for Adult Breastfeeding, but since it’s a recent though huge kink (haven’t even thought about it for our first kid) I’d like to know if other people who have had that experience have tips to share to make it so nice for her she won’t want to stop.

How not to hurt her, keep her milk coming in for weeks, months, hell, even years; how to build a strong connection through ABF, etc.
Any tip of any kind welcome.

My pregnant wife (24 weeks in, no lactating yet) and I have talked about her breastfeeding me, and she seemed pretty open to it.
But it’s quite theoretical at that point, she’s not lactating yet and her tits are still quite sensitive, so we haven’t “put it in practice” yet.

I guess I’ve done the hardest part having her consent and interest for Adult Breastfeeding, but since it’s a recent though huge kink (haven’t even thought about it for our first kid) I’d like to know if other people who have had that experience have tips to share to make it so nice for her she won’t want to stop.

How not to hurt her, keep her milk coming in for weeks, months, hell, even years; how to build a strong connection through ABF, etc.
Any tip of any kind welcome.