r/AdultBreastfeeding

My husband is a really sexual person and open to a lot of things, however we already know anr is not just a sexual thing.

I want nothing more for him to just latch onto me while we cuddle in bed watching a movie but I know it's a really strange/taboo interest and in so afraid there's no going back on this one if it weirds him out too much.

How can I test the waters before I come right out and ask explicity? (Yes, I know he's my husband and I should be able to talk to him about anything however it's still a great anxiety I have so I want to go about it my way: slowly and subtly.

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Hello, everyone! I have been pursuing lactation on and off for a few years with pumping, but finally decided to try dom. Unfortunately for me, I am one of the people who it gives heart palpitations (yes, even at just 10 mg). Obviously, I won't be pursuing it further- but I am so upset!

Not having really any pharmacological alternatives dissapoints me heavily as well. Thoughts or ideas for further pursuing lactation with meds?

How do you react to duct fluid? I’m worried my SO is going to get grossed out and I’m noticing I’m producing quite a bit every time.
Do we avoid nursing on that side until it turns to milk?
Have you been through this? Any advice you can share?

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Hey everyone,

I'm a transfem 6 months into medical transition, currently sitting around an A/B cup size. Honestly, I'm super happy with my development so far and love their current shape! I'd just like to give them a little extra boost.

My current HRT regimen is 6 mg weekly of injectable Estrogen. Progesterone isn't available where I live, but I recently found a reputable source for Domperidone (Dom).

I'm very interested in lactation and giving things a bit of a boost, so I'm considering giving Dom a test run. However, my main concern right now is timing: could starting Domperidone this early in my transition negatively impact or mess up long-term breast development down the line?

I'd appreciate any information, shared experiences, or advice on starting Dom for lactation at this stage of transition. Thanks in advance!

I just updated my previous post, but I ordered my Domperidone from InHouse Pharmacy on 8/1, and the tablets were delivered today!

I was wondering though because they come in blister tablets, is it okay to pop them out ahead of time? If I’m taking up to like 10-12 tablets a day eventually, I’m thinking it would be a lot more convenient to pop them out and put them in a pill container, right? I’m not sure if the exposure to air or light or anything messes with them, so I just wanted to ask around before I did it lol

I have read the wiki and I am all caught up on how much to take and how to increase the dosage slowly, take 4 doses a day, etc.

A big thanks to everyone in the community!! 😊

Life happens, my situation has changed and I'm giving my pump and 3.5 boxes of Dom away. Before you comment or message me here is the catch. I now live in the Boise area and am traveling back to Bellingham WA this weekend. If you are able to meet me in person then we can figure something out. I unfortunately don't have time to do mailing anything. May all your journeys be happy.

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Greetings my lac-tator tots. Just wanted to put out a quick reminder to keep advice and conversations on the sub, in the main feed, and not to talk to strangers unless you've followed our rules in messaging with them. We have Rule 1 in place to protect the community at large and no one should be DMing you without your permission in the comments. We are SO GRATEFUL to all of you who report your unwanted DMs, it's like you're part of the neighborhood watch.

It has come to our attention that a banned, non inducing individual u/Significant-Arm3714 has reached out without permission to community member(s) to offer his advice/take questions... We generally refer to folks like this as "Milk Wizards". They want to speak with you privately and share all their amazing insight and tricks to magically assist you in inducing, they know sooo much 😑. Yeah, okay buddy. While you all have free will and can do as you please, we encourage that you don't participate in off forum Milk Wizard dialogue. Often this is just a ploy from one of the local pervs to get you talking for their benefit or to share personal information with them.

Feel free to preemptively block this individual so they cannot reach out to you. If you have had someone DM you without permission, modmail us an Imgur upload screenshot or message myself or u/SqueakyLion2 directly with a screenshot and we will take it from there. You may also report anyone who DMs you to Reddit for harassment without ever accepting their message.

Thank you all and stay safe.

Has anyone tested positive? i’m wondering how much actually transfers. i know cbd only has 0.3% thc but would any of that even go into the milk? curious if anyone has any experience with this or anything similar.

I messaged in here a while ago and posted about my journey into starting to lactate and starting Dom which was a huge success. I was working on increasing my production, but also gained over 20lbs of unwanted weight which made me ramp down and stop. I'm still working off that weight now, but I really miss it and want to start again so... does anyone have tips on how to keep weight off or even lose weight while lactating? Additionally did you have trouble with weight gain or loss while lactating? TIA

I’m 7 weeks postpartum and have tried everything I know with no real improvement. Would it be possible for my husband to help me increase my supply? I would love to hear people’s success stories and maybe ideas of a schedule for consistency.

Hey, 20MTF here, not on hrt currently, people taking domperidone here; are they facing any kind of cardiac arrythmia or pounding sensation in heart ? What are your doses per day and what they are supposed to be ?
Google says don’t exceed 30mg but saw many even exceeding 120mg
What side effects did ya’all get?

Hello all!

I have recently noticed that after I pump, the centers of my nipples are white/pale. They are fairly sensitive against my bra and shirts. I read that it might be nipple vasospasms(?). Does this mean that I am pumping on too strong of a setting?

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My pregnant wife (24 weeks in, no lactating yet) and I have talked about her breastfeeding me, and she seemed pretty open to it.
But it’s quite theoretical at that point, she’s not lactating yet and her tits are still quite sensitive, so we haven’t “put it in practice” yet.

I guess I’ve done the hardest part having her consent and interest for Adult Breastfeeding, but since it’s a recent though huge kink (haven’t even thought about it for our first kid) I’d like to know if other people who have had that experience have tips to share to make it so nice for her she won’t want to stop.

How not to hurt her, keep her milk coming in for weeks, months, hell, even years; how to build a strong connection through ABF, etc.
Any tip of any kind welcome.

Since starting this attempt about 3 weeks ago, I’ve definitely seen quite a few changes! For context, I currently try to pump 3-4 times a day at the moment and use my tens unit 3-4 times a day as well. I am also taking supplements and I have my first order of dom on its way. As far as supplements go, I’m currently taking milk thistle, goats rue, moringa, and sunflower lecithin. I dont have a partner, but I am able to self suckle on occasion.

Changes I’ve experienced up until this point:

Mostly my nipples. The nipple itself has also gotten bigger on each breast, but the areolas are the same. But they are constantly hard. Like omg the second I take them out of my bra. And they’re super sensitive too! Not entirely in a good way anymore 😬. It is definitely driving me away from pumping more, but I would rather cut back on the pumping than cause permanent damage lol. I’ve also noticed a ton of Montgomery glands popping up. My nips do also seem like they’re a little bit darker than they were.

As far as the rest of the breast, I can definitely feel the lobules developing. If I dont have time to do a thorough massaging, my breasts feel a lot herder and firmer. I’m not taking measurements or anything, but they’re also a fair bit larger and fuller. I used to have some extra room in my bra, but not anymore. I’m probably gonna have to get a bigger one soon because I know it’s bad to have a bra that’s too tight. They felt heavier at first, but I’m not sure if that feeling went away or I just got used to it.

I’ve been able to self suckle a few times and I swear that I taste something salty, but I can’t tell if that’s coming from my nipple, or if my tongue is rubbing against a spot on my lip that I bit. I’m currently not getting any “urges” to pump or anything, but I have been a little less consistent than I was in the beginning because of the nipple sensitivity. I dont have any liquid yet, so I’m just planning on keeping up my currently routine until the dom that I ordered arrives.