r/AdultBreastfeeding

Discreet pumps

So silly me decided to start inducing in earnest during summer break when my kids are home. I need recommendations for the most discreet wearable pump that exists. Preferably quiet and low profile because my boobs are big enough as it is. TIA!

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u/Beautiful-Blues2881 — 17 hours ago

The Daily Pump

Welcome to the Daily Pump. Have something on your mind but not enough to make a post? What kind of day did you have? You've had small victories, you're proud of what you did? You should be! Have a seat and let's chat together a bit about it while we reach our pump goals.

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Hey, what's your goal for today?

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u/AutoModerator — 1 day ago

Heavy tits no milk yet! Help!

I have been pumping every 2 hours. I have had a bunch of changes to my nipples, areola, and tits overall. Everything is getting heavy and larger and more uncomfortable. I need relief, but I am just sitting here waiting for milk to come in so I can be drained. Is there anything else I can do to get some relief from the fullness I am feeling?

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u/littleone1977 — 1 day ago

My journey to discover my personal sustainable hyperlactation limit

Hi everyone, hope your day is wonderful! I recently connected with two close male friends who are willing to help me find my natural, sustainable peak lactation level... not like short term hormonal spikes but more like steady, consistent demand over time as an ABF lifestyle.

Right now, my own close friends are still in Italy so... until they return, these new partners will be helping me gradually ramp up my production. My goal is definitely not to push my body to an unsafe limit for a few weeks but rather to find the maximum long term sustainable output... the level where my body can stay for years.

Just so you know, I've already been doing ANR for two years. So at the start of this journey with 6 sessions, I'm already comfortably producing 67+ oz (around 2+ liters) daily.

I want to mention a little bit about my plan to ramp up. We'll start with 6 tandem nursing sessions, each session completely emptying me to encourage my body to produce more. Each following week, we will add 2 extra sessions going up to 8, and then 10 sessions per day. If everything goes as expected, I should reach my peak daily production within 3 to 6 weeks (At least that's what my doctor predicts at this point...)

I cannot say much beyond that yet. First, I need to reach my sustainable peak and then I will find out how long I can maintain it through experience.

If my journey interests you, I can share major updates in the coming weeks whenever something significant happens. I just wanted to share something I've always dreamed of and been curious to figure out.

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u/AriaMariaFP2 — 2 days ago

Transfem NB clear drops with nipple corrector, good sign or bad news?

Hi! First of all, here’s my situation: I’m a transfem NB person. I’ve been on estrogen for several months, which has given me breast growth, but I’m currently not taking estrogen anymore. I want to induce lactation, but since I didn’t have a breast pump yet, I’ve been using a nipple corrector/puller for about 10 days (around 4 sessions a day) to prepare my nipples and breasts.
Today, while pumping one of my breasts, I got a fair amount of transparent fluid with a watery texture (but not actual water). I’m wondering if this is a positive sign or if I’m doing too many sessions. I use it at level 4 out of 12 in recovery mode, and I’m worried it might not be progress but rather damage or over-stimulation. I haven’t taken any medications. Any help or advice is very welcome!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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u/acerbiteee — 2 days ago

The Daily Pump

Welcome to the Daily Pump. Have something on your mind but not enough to make a post? What kind of day did you have? You've had small victories, you're proud of what you did? You should be! Have a seat and let's chat together a bit about it while we reach our pump goals.

Say something when you hook up and come back at your next session, maybe someone will chip-in a thought?

Hey, what's your goal for today?

Note: The Daily Pump will auto post every day for us to get together in between posts to talk with one another.

This space is exclusively reserved for those in the process of inducing. We will not permit updates or vents from sucklers, dreamers, well-wishers, or distant relations.

\-*Your loving moderation team.*

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u/AutoModerator — 2 days ago

Starting Inducing, so pumped!! (Pun intended)

Hi! This is my first post… but I have been super interested in ABF/ANR as well as inducing lactation without pregnancy. I’ve looked through everyone’s posts, the wiki (about 5 million times), read product reviews, watched instruction videos and absorbed all the information I could find and finally I started my lactation inducing journey. (This subreddit specifically has been SO helpful and informative.) I had the conversation with my boyfriend and told him that this is something I really want to do and asked if he would like to be involved. He is a little unsure right now but he does not complain about me not wearing a shirt all day 🤣 I just started inducing 2 days ago after being very interested in it for a LONG time. I’m 30, I’ve never been pregnant and have not really wanted to be but have wanted to be able to produce milk and have a partner interested in ABF/ANR. I was nervous because I have flatter nipples and wasn’t sure what to expect, more of that below.

Techniques and supplies: I started with the marmet technique and will still do that throughout the day. No dom for me. Yesterday I got the spectra S1, extra flange inserts and measuring kit, Legendairy Milk’s liquid gold supplement and lanolin cream.

Pumping sessions: With the spectra S1, I’ve been pumping around every 2-3 hours (I work from home so super ideal for starting this process but I’m a nurse so sometimes it’s hard to break away a bit). I was doing 5-7 minutes/session and then today I’ll do 10-12 minutes/session and try to stick closer to the 2 hours increments. I was pumping one breast at a time and started at suction/vacuum level 2 and would increase the 3 halfway through. Today I did both breasts at the same time (after some maneuvering and double checking flange sizes) and ended up on suction level 8. I do prefer both at the same time but I feel the suction level has to be higher to compensate for both valves being open instead of the 1. So far I’ve been staying pretty much on the first cycle (38) and increased to the second cycle (42) for my first pump this morning. No bacon mode yet.

Things I’ve noticed since starting (in the 3 short days I’ve been doing this, so these may or may not be attributed to inducing): 1) starting this process has made me actually like my body and my breasts after struggling with self image for most of my life. I was not expecting the (very welcomed) increase in self image and this may seem shallow but my tits are… well, they’re the tits lol. 2) I am wanting to be healthier as in I am watching what I am putting into my body (meals, snacks, drinks, etc.) I am fixing my hair and my make up and not staying in pajamas all day. I have a freaking skin care regimen now??? And my skin looks great lol 3) this could be my imagination but my breasts are feeling heavier and my nipples are not flat anymore!! They’re actually super cute now and I love them!! 4) my libido, that was previously like non existent, is through the roof. 5) my mood has significantly improved. I am so happy and relaxed (except when driving because road rage, lol). 6) I am sleeping better and staying asleep. I feel more well rested in the morning, too

With all that being said, thank you all so much for your information and links and sharing your experiences!! One question I do have, does anyone have any recommendations for a bra I can wear during pumping to keep in the place so I can be hands free and still keep working?

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u/mamisorgan — 3 days ago

Domperidone and Bipolar

I’m interested in inducing lactation and am just learning. It looks like Domperidone is a good way to go.

But, have Bipolar 1 (manic only) and have been stable and sane for 10 years. I can’t do anything that would jeopardize that stability. My life depends on it.

Does anyone know if Domperidone could have a negative effect on my mental health? Yes, I do plan to ask my doctor, but I’m not expecting him to know. That’s going to be an embarrassing conversation. To talk about one of my kinks. Lol.

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u/number9dream9 — 2 days ago

The Daily Pump

Welcome to the Daily Pump. Have something on your mind but not enough to make a post? What kind of day did you have? You've had small victories, you're proud of what you did? You should be! Have a seat and let's chat together a bit about it while we reach our pump goals.

Say something when you hook up and come back at your next session, maybe someone will chip-in a thought?

Hey, what's your goal for today?

Note: The Daily Pump will auto post every day for us to get together in between posts to talk with one another.

This space is exclusively reserved for those in the process of inducing. We will not permit updates or vents from sucklers, dreamers, well-wishers, or distant relations.

\-*Your loving moderation team.*

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u/AutoModerator — 3 days ago

Feral to lactating

Hello, I recently have had a change in libido and am absolutely feral. My hands want to touch my myself all the time. Well now I have duct fluid leaking and have found myself looking into ANR. I am currently separated. What does everyone do with leftover milk?

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u/Right-Basket-6875 — 4 days ago

Excited

I’m so excited I just had to post somewhere because I can’t tell my partner since I’m inducing as a surprise. (Which I’m kind of nervous about too lol) but anyway the last two or so pumps today my breasts felt so tight especially my right one to the point that it felt like something NEEDED to come out but nothing did. Well after my last pump, my nipples were definitely wet! I’ve been noticing how much fuller they’ve been and have had other symptoms but was starting to be discouraged a bit but I definitely had wet nipples today!!!

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u/MilkyMoo0069 — 4 days ago

The Daily Pump

Welcome to the Daily Pump. Have something on your mind but not enough to make a post? What kind of day did you have? You've had small victories, you're proud of what you did? You should be! Have a seat and let's chat together a bit about it while we reach our pump goals.

Say something when you hook up and come back at your next session, maybe someone will chip-in a thought?

Hey, what's your goal for today?

Note: The Daily Pump will auto post every day for us to get together in between posts to talk with one another.

This space is exclusively reserved for those in the process of inducing. We will not permit updates or vents from sucklers, dreamers, well-wishers, or distant relations.

\-*Your loving moderation team.*

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u/AutoModerator — 4 days ago

i just started lactating yesterday 34F

and I don’t think my pathetic underwear drawer is up for the task. 😭 literally five sports bras to which they comfortably and the others barely fit before I get pregnant! How do you guys deal with the sharp pains and leakage?

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u/Milf_GFE_creator — 5 days ago

When to switch from tens to pumps

Ive been inducing without any meds, Ive taken birth control in the past so i had tissue growth. I am on T but when I did hormone levels my estrogen was still higher than what a “man” should have. Since i have been using my tens unit every 2-3 hours the past week to week and a half. I am seeing and feeling changes, but was unsure when to pump. Should I wait until Im getting milk while using a tens? I have goats rue coming in the mail to start taking to build tissue more.

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u/Jhazphurr — 5 days ago

New and Curious

Questions at the end but I sorta stumbled into this one...so my(30m) partner (30f) recently started taking progesterone due to medical reasons. After a few days we were having sex and when I was playing with her and gave them a squeeze I noticed something creamy come out both sides. Super hot and I loved it and she was quite curious. Fast forward about 2 weeks and we've found this board, done the reading and both talked about it and was ok committing to the schedule as seemingly the hard part hard jump started itself...after almost 2 weeks of consistent sessions she's started noticing an uptake in amount of fluid and size increase amongst most of the other things this thread has pointed out. As well as the intimacy and feelings are just out of control, I guess like some others say its hormones and what not. My questions are mostly for any of the ladies, how has this impacted yalls relationship, what are things you wish/ want you man to do? Is there any advice you could give to both of us as we start our journey? Also what do you girls do for yalls man that they really love?

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u/Anon32159 — 5 days ago

Nipple piercing friendly pumps

Hey guys,

The husband and I were recently looking into me starting to produce again. I have pierced nipples and previous pumps were hard to manage with the piercings.

1.) has anyone successfully started producing with nipple rings?

2.) what pumps do you find to be the best? (Bonus points if they are wireless)

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u/Emotional-Fold52 — 6 days ago

Breast lump, drying up etc

I had a breast screen a week ago and it's come up with a lump which may or may not be cancerous.

They want to do another scan and ultrasound but I need to be dry for two weeks prior to the ultrasound. They are talking biopsy too.

My question is how do I crash land my lactating and preserve everything for after the scan / biopsy etc in case I can restart if everything turns out fine...

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u/lite_milk_1 — 6 days ago

Are all-in-one wearables like Momcozy good, or do I need to invest in a hospital-grade one?

I'm in the hucow community, and I'm looking to buy a breast pump for my partner. I've been eyeing wearables like the Momcozy S12 Pro and NCVI Double Breast Pump for the price and also convenience for her. However, I can't seem to find any good info on how effective they are for inducing and especially building supply.

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u/Minute-House484 — 6 days ago

How do you find a person

Hello. This is my first time posting on reddit but I have a question. How do you find such people who have this fascination? I am a F(20) and have had one partner interested in it but only for a short time. How ans where would you find people and or a person to be interested in doing such a thing?

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u/whytheskysage — 8 days ago

The Daily Pump

Welcome to the Daily Pump. Have something on your mind but not enough to make a post? What kind of day did you have? You've had small victories, you're proud of what you did? You should be! Have a seat and let's chat together a bit about it while we reach our pump goals.

Say something when you hook up and come back at your next session, maybe someone will chip-in a thought?

Hey, what's your goal for today?

Note: The Daily Pump will auto post every day for us to get together in between posts to talk with one another.

This space is exclusively reserved for those in the process of inducing. We will not permit updates or vents from sucklers, dreamers, well-wishers, or distant relations.

\-*Your loving moderation team.*

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u/AutoModerator — 5 days ago