u/MilkyTwilightNeeds

Greetings my lac-tator tots. Just wanted to put out a quick reminder to keep advice and conversations on the sub, in the main feed, and not to talk to strangers unless you've followed our rules in messaging with them. We have Rule 1 in place to protect the community at large and no one should be DMing you without your permission in the comments. We are SO GRATEFUL to all of you who report your unwanted DMs, it's like you're part of the neighborhood watch.

It has come to our attention that a banned, non inducing individual u/Significant-Arm3714 has reached out without permission to community member(s) to offer his advice/take questions... We generally refer to folks like this as "Milk Wizards". They want to speak with you privately and share all their amazing insight and tricks to magically assist you in inducing, they know sooo much 😑. Yeah, okay buddy. While you all have free will and can do as you please, we encourage that you don't participate in off forum Milk Wizard dialogue. Often this is just a ploy from one of the local pervs to get you talking for their benefit or to share personal information with them.

Feel free to preemptively block this individual so they cannot reach out to you. If you have had someone DM you without permission, modmail us an Imgur upload screenshot or message myself or u/SqueakyLion2 directly with a screenshot and we will take it from there. You may also report anyone who DMs you to Reddit for harassment without ever accepting their message.

Thank you all and stay safe.

Morning all! I have posted before about all my nursing bras, tees, and dresses but I am on the hunt for something I haven't found yet and I hope you may be able to help. I am looking for nursing dresses that unclip like nursing bras, so in theory they would have more of an adjustable bra strap look than a true tank appearance. I have found the tank tops like this for nursing, but I really want the dresses. Has anyone stumbled on anything like this? I know they exist because Milkman and I saw them in a video and I immediately knew I needed them in my wardrobe. I love my nursing dresses but those would be so great for fall with sweaters. I'm a basic bitch and love my fall sweaters.

If anyone needs recs or wants me to link my posts about my previous finds let me know and I will after work!

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Hello to the magic mouthed militia!

u/CurvyJap just put up a post wanting some discussion regarding whether or not sucklers prefer dry or milky suckling and asked if anyone had done a poll... So I thought since it has been quite a while since I'd done a poll, it was a good time to put one up. Head over to their post if you feel like leaving some input in the comments, but take a moment to vote anonymously here if you don't mind. I like giving the silent parties here a voice in polls.

No matter the results of the poll, remember everyone has their own special connection with their suckler(s) and develops their ANR in their own way. Milky or dry you aren't defined by if you produce or not. Happy suckling!

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Not to sound like an old woman here, but maybe you lovely folks have some tips for me 😅 ...I feel 27 most days but my 43 year old body doesn't always agree. (I swear I'm 43 and not a bot lol)

I have a delicious 6'4"ish man that for over 16 years has made me wanna climb him like a tree cause he's pure sex on legs, and pegging is only making that more intense. Thing is, until we entered the amazing world of pegging our 12" height difference was never anything but sexy. While we are finding fun ways to overcome that during pegging, I am struggling with an SI joint (sacroiliac) injury that I earned training for a Spartan race some years back. I notice I tend to aggravate it if I'm on my toes thrusting too long or if I'm in a wonky position as I'm just learning to wield cock the last few years (I have a new respect for what you men do! 😮‍💨). While we don't peg nearly as often as either of us would like, I'd love to find ways to build more stamina in my hips so I can really be the in control Mommy he deserves and I fantasize about being. I'm hoping more stamina/strength may insulate or at least take some stress off the SI joint itself. I'd rather not just peg in positions that prevent my hips from needing to do the work. I want to be active and involved, I want to "hit it" from all the angles 🤭 and give him the same pleasure he's provided me with for years. I just need my stupid right hip to cooperate.

I have made sure to invest in an array of toys of different lengths and have a variety of harnesses to place them differently so I will be able to experiment to see if that allows me to place my hips in better positions. However, I keep coming back to the thought that I need to focus on some sort of exercise or stretching to strengthen that area of my body. I'm not in super shape and never will be, I'm a beautiful fluffy biscuit and he loves me that way 🥰. My life doesn't lend itself to time for the gym, I work about 50+ hours a week, and work has me on the road a lot which is terrible for my hips. But I am more than willing to put in work at home!!

Has anyone run into SI issues affecting them when it comes to thrusting? Any tips you can think of worth passing along? Thanks in advance ☺️

*Fair warning I began writing this in early June, but being a mom to a teen and working lots of hours as a Project Manager I am finally making time to finish this near the end of July, so sorry all!*

Hello my dearest Lactator-tots!! I cannot explain how much I miss writing up posts about gear or random findings to discuss with all of you and chatting in the comments, my new job is taking up a lot of time but I am still here and am excited to tell you when I do try something new!

I finally tried out my Pumpables Liquid Cups I was so excited to get, and I am thrilled to say they did not disappoint one bit! I have been a die hard Liquid Kit user with my Baby Buddha if I wasn't using my Lacevo wearable, so I was thrilled to see the cups on the Pumpables website for a more discreet pumping option at home when I don't want to use the Lacevo (save battery for the next day or too tired to wait to charge). I am still hiding my induction from a smart teenager and prefer to keep things under wraps as much as possible, and the LK's sticking out of a nursing bra are pretty obvious under a PJ shirt if I were to be barged in on 😅.

I have had struggles getting much of a letdown on the right with some equipment and rarely ever got a letdown on the left if I did not use one of the two pump/flange options above. Traditional flanges just have not done it for me in the past (hard flanges, spectra style, general flange styles w/o compression). The original LK's and their massaging action have given me the most reliable pumping results over the last couple of years, they most closely resemble Milkman's suckle, plus they just LAST and are high quality products. This meant I was hoping to have a good result right out of the box with the LK Cups too....which can be a foolish hope! I know boobs tend to take time to adjust to changes in flanges and suction can change a bit when you move to cups from a standard breast shield. IBCLC Jessica flat out says wearables can take weeks to adjust to so I was not sure how I would adapt to these.

I am pleased to say that my very first use I actually pumped double what I typically pump in one go 😏! Even my left breast let down the way it does in a traditional LK. This was a big surprise for me and really motivational as I have struggled with my supply slipping as I have been so busy with work and my lack of stimulation regularity. The cups did not leak or move around once placed, the silicone washed well, the cups were easy to place in my Momcozy mesh bra and I did not need to pull out my larger bra (designed for wearables that offers extra space). The cups also came apart and washed easily, putting them back together wasn't any more tricky than any other wearable cup.

Overall these were possibly the best fit of all the cups I have tried! Like the Baby Buddha cups, the tubing comes from the top but the tubing is so much more secure and I really didn't feel there was a worry of loss of suction due to their connector. I know I am a bit biased as they are automatically a Pumpables product and I love that I was able to just order them in my size.

If anyone is considering these I would look into the video from Jessica at Genuine Lactation (linked in my previous post which is linked up top!) and just ensure you like the idea of the way the Pumpables work. I would *love* to answer any questions that I can, and keep in mind you can always reach out to their customer service team. These cups work with so many styles of pumps! I only knew these were back in stock in my size because their team reached out to me to let me know after I had asked when they would be available many weeks ago! I have always had great help from their customer service team. If anyone else has used them, and I know you are out there, feel free to leave a general opinion in the comments.