31 [F4M] #Online Chilled out domme open to chatting with available, slim, nerdy submissives with exhibitionist tendencies
I’m using some of my free time to find good conversation and get to know slim, nerdy submissive types who are open to a long-term, online connection. Please make sure you read my post slowly and carefully before you message me though because doing so will save us all time.
I think there is an expectation for dominants to present a specific persona of themselves, but that's not for me. I'm just a regular woman who happens to be kinky. I'm fairly busy with my job and I try to maintain my social life, with some time made for the usual hobbies and interests. Physically, I have a normal/slim figure, brunette hair with hints of sandy blonde depending on the light. I think I balance connection, silliness, and intimacy, with dominance and assertiveness.
I have been dominant for a long time, so I know what I'm doing and who works with me. I want somebody who is reliable, dedicated, and consistent about more than just kink. I want to hear about your day and interests, I want you to actively want to talk to me, with enough time and capacity in your life to spend on me. If you're a really busy person too with a lot going on, our schedules probably won't align in the long-term.
I'm a verified user on femdompersonals for your reassurance and so I don't have to verify myself in every single conversation. I'm open to a lot of kinks and I've explored many previously; I have quite a big cum-fetish, so being an exhibitionist would be in your favour, as I take a lot of sexual pleasure in watching an obedient toy play and climax for me.
I like submissives to have autonomy in their actions, as I don't want or need to control every single aspect of your life. I enjoy taking into consideration your kinks and desires during play when politely communicated. I'm more of an affectionate or gentle dominant, and I really like giving praise when it's authentically earned. I like good boys, rather than brats.
Ideally, I'm imagining a light-hearted but sincere friends-with-benefits arrangement, where we're actually friends and at the same time as integrating d/s aspects. It's more than sexual gratification, and it's less than a husband. I'd like to feel the positive and energetic vibe between us, but without being so intense it burns out quickly.
You'll be -
- Below the age of 30
- Progressive and left-wing
- Slim or skinny body type
- Within a few hours of the UK timezone
- Comfortable sharing pictures and videos (including sfw selfies)
To reach out to me -
- Send me a unique, reasonably high effort message, without using AI
- Don't tell me about your kinks
- Tell me about you and what matters to you
- Include links to pictures of yourself
- Consider masturbating before you message me so you have a clear head
If you ignore these, or have a new account, or have any of your profile history hidden, I probably won't reply.
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