u/Hopechaselock49

Y'all should try this at least once. All you need is some scented candles and massage oil to set up the environment

I focused completely on my partner. It was all about her and her pleasure. I don't really like being focused and center of attention, but you can go with whatever dynamic works for both of you.

Both of you should clean up yourselves up first and be naked. Then start with giving a massage with the oil to your partner. I watched a few videos beforehand and just let my partner guide me on what kind of "touch" she liked. It was super intimate, with lots of skin-to-skin contact. Focus on clit (highly recommended)

Make your partner finish first, then move on to PIV and help her finish one more time before you do. Or honestly, just do whatever feels good for both of you.

It was one of the best sexual experiences I've had, and I'll definitely save it for special occasions from now on.

I'm rewatching The Office series, and I just noticed something.

Pam talks about how Michael has a small penis during the roast, but I don’t think it’s true. She’s probably just saying it for the sake of the roast.

Let’s look at Michael’s dating history in the show: Jan, Pam’s mother, and Holly. All of them are hot and don’t have to “settle” for a guy with a small dick. They could easily find someone else. There’s also a slight mention of Jan and Michael’s sex life and how great it is when they’re on vacation. I think it's Season 3, Episode 12 and again it was mentioned in Season 4, Episode 13.

Yes, I know this is a pointless observation, but that’s what I noticed during my Office rewatch, guys.

Edit: why does all my posts get downvoted to oblivion initially and slowly picks up? All my posts have a 50-60% upvotes ratio. It's weird

A quick reminder because I've been seeing delusional guys way to much for a while. Yes you can have whatever preferences you want but you've to mentally strong to withhold those standards because your preferences are basically finding a unicorn.

I'm talking about the preference of finding a woman who has a small penis preference or doesn't see a small penis as a negative trait. At best you can easily find a woman who can overlook your size If you check her other boxes or good at other things but finding a woman who's into a small penis for its size like women has it for big size or average sizes? I'm sorry but those women are very rare and that's just reality.

Your average woman isn't fond of small size. Like I said they may overlook If you're good at other things or overall good "package" for a relationship.

I'm not trying to be negative or put your hopes down btw. I'm just being real with you here. I can totally understand your perspective and I'd love to be with someone who loves small penis for its size or don't see it as an issue at all but sometimes things won't work out way. It's what it is. Acceptance is the first step towards this issue. Be free from women's expectations and what they like, you're good to go.

A comment I've read in reddit a while back. I want to share it with you guys:

"With regards to "dating", women, etc, I'm reminded of this scene from the movie Whatever (an adaptation of the novel Whatever by Michel Houellebecq - it's a great read).

There's a specific series of lines from it that come to mind:

> You'll never be a girl's erotic dream. Get over it. It's not for you.

The sooner you internalize this, the sooner you'll be able to move on. It'll take some time, but you'll stop caring as you age and your libido and hormones slow down. The most important part of this battle is mental. You have to learn to accept that women do not want you the way they want tall men, and try to do it without sugarcoating it for yourself or telling yourself you'll eventually meet "the one" or whatever. Exposure therapy. After a while, the thoughts won't hurt you anymore.

With regards to life in general? Live for yourself. All relationships in life are transactional, especially when you don't have beauty or height privilege. Focus on yourself first, never mind the rest. Cut people out of your life if they disrespect you based on your height. Find a hobby, preferably one you can enjoy on your own. Enjoy the small victories in life."