r/smalldickproblems

I know I’m smaller than most other guys, and I don’t really think about it that much in my day-to-day life. But when I see another guys dick and it’s a lot bigger than mine, it sort of colors how I feel around them.

I know I shouldn’t let it bother me that much, but I do feel like less of a man. I don’t use public showers or anything, so it’s not like other people are seeing mine, but I’ll see other guys at the gym and if it’s someone I know a bit I can’t help but feel a bit inferior to them.

The main example that comes to mind is when I was a teenager and I accidentally saw my step dad peeing, and it turned out he was extremely well endowed. We didn’t really like each other much, so finding that out was so much bigger bummed me out, even though I know I shouldn’t really care.

Does anyone else have feelings of inferiority like this?

This happened when i was a teenager and I had to do a surgery on my penis cause mt foreskin was genetically too tight. I didnt want to do awake cause I was already in so much pain. I remember my mother was there for me when i fell asleep in surgery and woke up a day later? I think. She told me the nurses was laughing at me how small my penis was. A teenager mind you. Grown ass adults laughing at my small penis. I still have it. Its one of the main reasons why i hate myself and that made me felt fucking worse ever since. This happened in 2018. I wish i knew who they were so i can tell them how i felt about them making mean comments about me while i was asleep.

I'm fit and tall so that makes it even more embarassing and dreadful... But my flaccid penis is essentially non existing, it retracts entirely leaving almost nothing out.

That means that I have to seat on the toilet to pee and avoid at all costs urinals or at least make sure no one else is around.

It's so f. wrong, unfair... And the worst is that I might need to rub it a little just to uncover the glans and pee better.

For reference my erect size is 3.5 x 3.8 or 9 x 9.5 cm BP, which is essentially a micro, got my official diagnosis years ago.

The worst part of all is that there's literally nothing one can do.

For reference I've been speaking to this older woman, im 25 and shes 47. We've been hitting it off for awhile now, more then likely going to do the deed soon. I'm a obese man with a small penis 2-2.5 inches nbp 4 bp (3.5 girth) also a virgin. Do you guys have any tips on how to proceed with this and do I have anything to worry about with such a big age gap. Genuinely confused sorry.

One of the most annoying problems that I have is finding underwear that actually supports me. Seriously. Men’s briefs are apparently designed under the assumption that every guy is carrying around a goddamn fire hose, because almost every pair I try ends up feeling loose, empty, and unsupported in the crotch.

I’m not even talking about insecurity here, it’s literally a comfort issue. I’m small enough that regular men’s briefs don’t hold me in place properly, and I constantly have to adjust because there’s just too much extra room in the pouch.

I actually mentioned this to my PA during a checkup because I was tired of dealing with it. She asked if my waistband size was otherwise correct, and when I said yes, she suggested trying boys’ XL briefs since the crotch area is proportioned smaller.

I was reluctant because frankly it was embarrassing, but I finally bought some. And, she was right. The smaller pouch actually supports me way better than men’s briefs ever have. No extra empty fabric, no constant adjusting, everything stays in place.

Still kind of sucks that this is even something I have to think about though. Anybody else run into this problem or found any brands or styles that work better for smaller anatomy?

Hello fellow worthless men always remember where we stand in society as small dick men. We are not wanted we are not desirable. No women will ever lust after us and don’t be naive. If you find a unicorn always remember you were not her first choice you will always be the smallest she’s ever been with and she more than likely will cheat. So the best thing in my opinion for us to do is to avoid and ignore women. Don’t catch feelings don’t be friends just be completely detached from them it’s easier that way

I am here to tell you that there are many. I am smaller than most of you guys and have had tons of action.. Do I wish I was bigger? Yes but check out my other posts here on reddit and see that you can achieve.. I love my cock... Its given me so much fun.. And let me tell you for sure.. most guys are not hung like you think.. go get some!!!!!!

I was thinking what reward we will get for enduring such a heavy burden put upon us?

Hello to you my guys, I don't know if this post will get approval. But I need some help. If you guys know a place where small penis heterosexual guys like me can post pics please do tell me

I’m a big dude 364 lbs to be exact I have a small dick 3.5 inches hard when I don’t push the fat down on my pelvis with the fat pushed down it’s about 4 maybe 4.5 on a good day but I’m gonna be with a big girl this weekend and she’s also 300 and I just need advice for the best possible positions to use when I’m with her I’ve always struggled with sex being as big as I am and don’t know how I will manage with both of us being bigger I want to give her a great time and make her feel good I know forplay is king and will be doing a lot of that but do you guys have any suggestions for the best positions we could do to make the most out of it thank you in advance

Fellow travelers! Im well aware that size DOES matter, even tho women says it doesnt (it only applies if you are >5.5 NBP). Anyhow, i ran into this articale and found it a bit intresting. The conclusions were that smaller guys is better and many women view big size as something bad - contradicting our shared view of the current dating market.

I would agree with other parts, such as we put too much emphasis on size, perhaps more than girls (?). Anyhow, this article could be seen as cope but i still think there is some wisdom to be gained.

It’s a short read, give it a go.

Any thought?

https://www.playboy.com/read/sex-relationships/real-women-describe-the-perfect-penis

South East Asia here with a stereotypical dik Never been in a relationship and will never be because of my private part related anxiety and other personal issues but I too have sexual desires too. So when I get rejected even from sexting after they asked for my dik pic my confidence went really downhill Lol Any of you guys dealing problems similar with me? Please comment your experiences down below. I wanna feel connected to some brothers😄

Be for real guys. There are posts here saying 6x5 is dead average or that 6 inches BP is small.

Are we deadass guys? Everyone would like a bigger dick, does that mean that having an average or above average dick is the same as being small?

This is a community for people with SMALL penises. Half the population, 50% of the men you interact with every day, have penises below average, and guys in this sub think the guys in the 75th percentile are in the same boat as the 25th percentile. It’s like a middle class American citizen thinking they’re in the same boat as the guy in an an Indian slum, posting on r/poverty because they’re not a milloinaire

”But women see it as average!” Just shut up. Do you not see the power that you’re giving to these idiots by letting delusion and lack of touch with reality affect your mood. Yes, women have a fantastical perspective of male penis size. So you’re gonna mope over a group of people’s debased and unrealistic worldview and complain because you don’t fit said unrealistic and debased worldview.

Come on guys, it’s ridiculous. Genuinenly. If you’re below average, you have every right to complain. If you’re 6 inches, please stfu. You can still want a bigger dick without acting like having an above average member is a death sentence to your sex life. Like I said, if you’re 4 inches, go ahead and say that, if you’re 6, you’re just whiny bitch

I actually don't have as small a penis as i thought, it's just kinda average but very manageable, if i had 1 or 2 extra centimeters i'd actually be really happy with it, is there a way to get a little extra length?

Im 33M kissless 114 kilos 171 cm and have a 12-13 cm dick sometimes I think killing myself will be better but I'm stopping myself because of what it will do to my family how am I supposed to live with the fact that I'll never know the feeling of true love or experience sex without the urge to kill myself?

Do you guys with similar issues have any helpful tips on how to cope?

I’ve seen a lot of discussion in dick-related subs relates to bp vs nbp.

I understand the mindset of not counting bone pressed, but it’s seriously not the point.

Bone pressed is not about coping by asding length, it’s about standardization. How is there going to be any worthwhile about penis size if people can’t agree on how to actually measure.

Like ffs, someone will post that the average length is 5.7 bp, and then in the next post some guy will post that it’s over for him because he’s 5.2, but only NBP because Bone pressed is cope.

Like imagine if a height study took a bunch of men’s height the minute they got out of bed, so some guy decides to meausrement his height and get 5’9”, but he did it after working out and being awake for 12 hours because ”morning height is cope”

It’s actually ridiculously r-worded. Bone pressed or nothing. sick of idiots here saying it’s over for them because they actively measured using a method that produces a smaller measurement than actual studies

A quick reminder because I've been seeing delusional guys way to much for a while. Yes you can have whatever preferences you want but you've to mentally strong to withhold those standards because your preferences are basically finding a unicorn.

I'm talking about the preference of finding a woman who has a small penis preference or doesn't see a small penis as a negative trait. At best you can easily find a woman who can overlook your size If you check her other boxes or good at other things but finding a woman who's into a small penis for its size like women has it for big size or average sizes? I'm sorry but those women are very rare and that's just reality.

Your average woman isn't fond of small size. Like I said they may overlook If you're good at other things or overall good "package" for a relationship.

I'm not trying to be negative or put your hopes down btw. I'm just being real with you here. I can totally understand your perspective and I'd love to be with someone who loves small penis for its size or don't see it as an issue at all but sometimes things won't work out way. It's what it is. Acceptance is the first step towards this issue. Be free from women's expectations and what they like, you're good to go.

A comment I've read in reddit a while back. I want to share it with you guys:

"With regards to "dating", women, etc, I'm reminded of this scene from the movie Whatever (an adaptation of the novel Whatever by Michel Houellebecq - it's a great read).

There's a specific series of lines from it that come to mind:

> You'll never be a girl's erotic dream. Get over it. It's not for you.

The sooner you internalize this, the sooner you'll be able to move on. It'll take some time, but you'll stop caring as you age and your libido and hormones slow down. The most important part of this battle is mental. You have to learn to accept that women do not want you the way they want tall men, and try to do it without sugarcoating it for yourself or telling yourself you'll eventually meet "the one" or whatever. Exposure therapy. After a while, the thoughts won't hurt you anymore.

With regards to life in general? Live for yourself. All relationships in life are transactional, especially when you don't have beauty or height privilege. Focus on yourself first, never mind the rest. Cut people out of your life if they disrespect you based on your height. Find a hobby, preferably one you can enjoy on your own. Enjoy the small victories in life."

Is to have great sex. Be the cure that you need to overcome the insecurity. Think it into reality. Think, see, act, grow.

Anyone else hate seeing posts online of people crying about how they have a small dick and then idk they end up being like... 6x4.5. Or 5x5, or something. Or they are 4 inches but 5.5 girth. I would do evil things to get any of those penises, and they dare cry about their cards. There's also complete retards out there who have 7 inchers that are jelqing rn for no reason.

There's a guy out there who's been obese all his life and he has a bigger dick than me. There's a guy out there that did heroin all throughout puberty and his dick is bigger than mine. Wtf did I do, God? To curse me with a child's dick, and a child's body?