Currently I’m 280 pounds and have a 4.5” dick and I would love if I lost 90 blinds, became 190 and could have a 6.5” Inch dick but even a 5.5” would be fine as well
Y'all should try this at least once. All you need is some scented candles and massage oil to set up the environment
I focused completely on my partner. It was all about her and her pleasure. I don't really like being focused and center of attention, but you can go with whatever dynamic works for both of you.
Both of you should clean up yourselves up first and be naked. Then start with giving a massage with the oil to your partner. I watched a few videos beforehand and just let my partner guide me on what kind of "touch" she liked. It was super intimate, with lots of skin-to-skin contact. Focus on clit (highly recommended)
Make your partner finish first, then move on to PIV and help her finish one more time before you do. Or honestly, just do whatever feels good for both of you.
It was one of the best sexual experiences I've had, and I'll definitely save it for special occasions from now on.
I'm 28 and gay with a 4 inch dick and I feel so inferior to the guys I see on hookup apps. I'm a bit fit and guys expect me to be a top or vers, but I don't pack the goods to be able to do it. I know I'll probably never top with a dick this small. I've only ever had sex twice a year ago, and it was because my face is so ugly it repels people then when I send them a dick pick I get blocked. It's one or the other that's a deal breaker over and over and I've been trying to get hookups for years.
The only thing I have going for me is my fitness, the thing I have the most control over, and it's not like I'm a body builder I just have some lean mass. I'm thankful that I can get physical intimacy not dependent solely on my dick size, but even then lots of guys want bottoms with big dicks too. I think I'm in the 5th percentile at this size and I feel so cursed and I have other problems too... It's so depressing and I'm just stuck with it.
Saw today on TikTok these guys carrying confederate flags to celebrate Independence Day here in America. (Before I continue I do not support what these men stand for!!!)
All the comments were the “🤏” or a variant like an image of a woman doing it. It just pisses me off that a lot of people assume that bad men must have a small dick.
Warning: English is not my native language.
When I was in high school (around 15), I went on a trip with my classmates. I was still in the closet as gay, but one night the conversation turned to girls, sex, and masturbation, and I felt the urge to jerk off. I went to the bathroom to "pee"—though I actually went to masturbate—and somehow, it seems they saw me doing it. The next day, they were making comments and jokes about small penises and the shape of mine (it curves quite a bit upward, against my abdomen); they didn't explicitly say it was about me, but it was obvious they were mocking me.
Since then, I haven't measured my penis—just in case it turned out to be small. I know it has changed, and plenty of guys have told me it’s a good size—even big—and that they like the shape, but I prefer not to know the exact size, just in case it disappoints me.
I know size doesn't matter, but when I'm hooking up with someone and they ask how big it is, I prefer to tell the truth and say I haven't measured it.
im 20, 6ft3, 205lbs. mine is 4,3 x 4,5 in and i highly doubt that a woman will be happy with this. it's really tough for me but i try my best to avoid women to spare us both of the disappointment.
(Obviously this offer does not apply if you're already Black).
In order to have a bigger penis, you will appear to be a reasonably attractive Black male to everyone for the rest of your life. Even to people who already know you.
But-but-but not all black guys have a BBC? That fact has nothing to do with the offer.
You will gain as big a penis as you want, 100% guaranteed, if you become a black guy for the rest of your life.
Would you do it?
people who say this are 95% of the time people who have the privilege to never worry about falling short, or dont have a penis. This also applies to other things like height with tall people
It pisses me off so much that people put us down and insinuate we're unlucky or sometimes even imply that we're inherently worse than someone bigger, then tell us that if we feel bad about it it's Our fault and that being insecure makes you even more of a laughing stock. Basically trying to avoid accountability
The worst part is, they're right. obviously someone who's able to be stoic in the face of ridicule is more respectable than someone who isn't, but this already puts more pressure on us that we need to spend effort to achieve Greatness of mind and do crazy self-improvement. and even then they'll make fun of us for improving ourselves and say that we're just compensating
This "advice" is something I personally get. i told my friend about my small size and that I'm insecure about it but he said "being sad about being small is sadder than being small" and of course he'd say that because his is 6 inches. i also see it online in conversations that aren't related to me.
It's like cutting an animal's tail then blaming the animal for being hurt
Surfing big dick problems and it’s just everyone having had crazy sexual experiences and being worshipped by girls over and over.
Here is just dread and despair.
Nature works this way.
It really is just survival of the fittest and a gene pool which we don’t take a part of.
Biology class taught us this already.
Just never thought I’d be outside the gene pool.
Hi all, just want to vent a bit because 2 things I did today. First I found there's a subreddit called big dick problems, and I went to check what they were talking, and saw few post of them recognizing it as a blessing, I a was like wow so even in a problems subreddit they say that.
I know it's true, still I felt a bit weird.
Also I went to a public pool where people go on summer to enjoy, and seeing everyone in swimming clothes was so sad for me, constantly reminding how the guys are packing and I'm just there trying to not get caught with nothing.
And the girls of course, very pretty but a reminder of what I'm not going to get, and actually I don't think I even want it anymore.
That's it, that's me venting, no need for support word or something like that, just feel better sharing.
I (29m) have been talking to a girl on a dating app for weeks now and am very much into her. It seems mutual because she has talked about our future on several occasions and we have a date planned for next weekend. The catch is that even though I am 29 and conventionally attractive I’ve never been in a real relationship and am so fucking nervous. She seems like the “one.” We agree on most issues religiously, politically and philosophically. The issue is that I am not well endowed at all. I actually have a very thin penis and am incredibly ashamed of it. I’ve even been suicidal in the past because of it. I’ve had several women in the past be interested in being fwb but it’s never lasted more than even two weeks because of it. To be more detailed, I literally cannot stretch a vagina. Even I don’t feel anything, partly because I had a major porn addiction for several years and gave myself death grip and have never fully healed. I’m absolutely terrified that she’s going to leave me right after we have sex for the first time. I guess I am posting here partially to vent because this is incredibly painful for me and I would like some advice on how can I please someone even with a pencil dick. If she does end up leaving me for it I honestly might kill myself.
I would give up all physical pleasure / sensation to be a bigger size. To be adequate enough to get in a relationship. 34 years old never even had a hug. It's reallllllly getting unbearable at this point.
I don't give a shit about my pleasure at all. I just want a woman who would actually desire me and not resent/cheat on me because I'm not enough.
And it ruins my day. I wish I could just be a neet. Why should I go to work and pay taxes when I'll never have anything I want out of this life? No romantic prospects, no children, no touch. NOTHING. It should be labeled a disability.
Other people have things to live for. I have nothing.
Also if it's not my first thought, it won't be long before I hear a joke from a coworker, something on social media, or a song with lyrics about it to remind me I'm useless.
Tl;dr - please exercise caution and good sense when interacting with other users. This sub is a target rich environment for scammers and degens.
Now that we have a bot pushing the SPH/Cuck fetishists off the sub, they're likely going to be doing more DM'ing to keep their spank banks topped off. Two users were banned already today for SPH who were upset because the people in this sub were generous in responding to their DM's and chatting with them.
By all means, please support each other and be compassionate but please also always keep in the back of your mind that there is a steady stream of people in and out of here looking to take advantage of our vulnerabilities and either scam us or use our struggles to get themselves off. We try hard to keep bad actors out of here but we're never going to be 100% successful.
Does anyone else do this to themselves? Like I don't get attention from women at all (multiple reasons, though I suspect my lack of fitness is a major one) - but whenever I feel like someone might be interested in me in a romantic/sexual way, I just self sabotage that route by convincing myself that they will absolutely hate my small penis and I won't be able to satisfy them at all.
I am sure not all women think like that and there must be some who might like small penises but this tendency to self sabotage just doesn't let me give a chance to myself or someone else, I'm too convinced of my own inadequacy. Anyone relate?
We’ve complained and felt sorry for each other enough. What are your tips on how to respond to women (or people in general) who put you down because you have a small dick? What are the best responses that have the most impact? And don’t give me that “just walk away” stuff. If I get rejected because of that, I’ve got nothing left to lose with that person anyway. I want to shame her and make her realize how backward her way of thinking is.
I have a hypothesis that I haven't seen discussed much, and I'm curious whether there's any research on it.
Many surveys suggest that women tend to estimate the average penis size as being larger than it actually is. A common explanation is exposure to pornography, but I wonder if there's another factor that could contribute.
My idea is based on selection bias.
Men with very small penises or micropenises are, on average, more likely to experience body image issues and lower sexual confidence. If that's true, they may have fewer sexual partners over their lifetime.
On the other hand, men with larger-than-average penises often report feeling more confident about their bodies. Greater confidence could lead to more frequent sexual activity and a higher number of partners.
If both assumptions are even partially true, then the pool of men women are exposed to sexually would not be representative of the overall male population. Women wouldn't be sampling the true distribution - they would be sampling a distribution weighted toward men who have more sexual partners.
In other words, even if the biological average is around 5–5.5 inches erect, the experienced average from a woman's perspective could be somewhat higher simply because men with above-average confidence are overrepresented among sexually active partners.
This wouldn't require women to consciously exaggerate or remember incorrectly - it would just be a consequence of sampling bias.
Does anyone know of research that has tested this idea, or are there obvious flaws in the reasoning that I'm missing?
Fuck I can't be short and also have a small dick. WHY???? I look like i'm in middle school and I have the penis to match. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. WHY?????? WHY??? THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT THIS?? I WILL BE UNDESIRABLE FOREVER??? Having a small dick is so emasculating. "I can't feel it" OH MY GOD?? MY PENIS IS EQUIVALENT TO AIR???
I'll start. I'm a born and raised New Yorker of Ecuadorian descent. Now apparently the average size for Ecuadorian men is around 7 inches but I'm unfortunately stuck at 4 inches
Chico de 19 años, me acompleja el tamaño de mi pene, me gustaria hablarlo con alguien y compartir consejos, estoy buscando trabajar en eso. Me parece comodo hablar con chicos de mi edad o similar.