r/smalldickproblems

this is mostly just a funny ironic post cuz ... it's honestly just so amusing how this whole thing works. so i was scrolling on twitter and seein comments from ladies talking about intimate matters. the short and sweet of it is that there was this lady who chimed in basically with having two different types of tweets that went something like this;

2022: men need to stop caring about dick size ....

2026: im in my size queen era ......

its just so funny how this all works. they want us to not care about not being big enough but then mask drops off and turns out lo and behold they are the reason why guys like us care about not bein big enough. now granted, the two tweets are four years apart so you know people minds can change. maybe she genuinely believed that horsesht four years ago and now doesn't. or maybe she was always a size queen so she wasn't being fully transparent before. nevertheless, i just feel like this little mini example here is just so telling about how this sort of thing actually works. any woman can tell you it doesn't matter as much as you think it does but also end up being the same kind of woman who A) uses having a small dick as some kind of insult just reflexively and B) personally prefers slightly above average when given the chance. i don't know, it's just something that i found sorta amusing. probably explains why i find especially female remarks about size mattering to be a mostly male concern to be so disingenuous.

It’s easy to find this online. But don’t see people making fun if people for this issue IRL. Maybe it’s not so widespread? IDK, trying to make sense of it all.

A lot of posts here are folks talking about how terrible they're experiences are, and how horrible they're lives are, and their dicks are like 4 inches +. I'm not even 3 inches. I don't want this be a dick measuring contest (lol), but it's really disheartening seeing so many people be so depressed while having more.

Currently have a girl, we've never had sex, and seeing the stuff here, I definitely don't want to, haha.

Today I found out I'll have to have surgery and stay in bed for at least 24 hours... so with a catheter. My biggest fear is the moment I'll have to tell the nurse about my problem and the difficulty, I imagine, of inserting the catheter.

Any experince here?

just wondering tbh

Saw a feminist thread celebrating a guy feeling demeaned and insecure about girls "print hunting" by pointing out if there's anything visible on their sweatpants in photos. They called it a win for feminism because guys are now getting a taste of their own medicine by being sexually harassed back for once.

But this is just another way to attack small guys because big dicks are going to put themselves out there and enjoy the attention anyway. All they're doing is promoting more sexual harassment by encouraging the big dick guys to engage in the behaviour.

Have any of you observed these types of posts? I noticed a pattern in relationship posts about small size guys.

It's always a woman who is asking for advice on the relationship/sex/women related sub because the guy she's seeing has a small penis and how she's disappointed by it. She's an innocent woman 😇 who's trying to make things work in her relationship. It always has these points

She has multiple bad experiences with small size guys (3 inches , it's always micro penis) because her exes are selfish, abusive and terrible in bed. She didn't have any issues with their sizes but it's the insecurity that made it more of an issue. Now she's skeptical about dating another small size guy (the guy she's seeing now).

The guy she's seeing now doesn't know he has a small penis and told her how he has a big/average size. Now, His lying is more of a deal breaker for her than his size now. His insecurity is more of an issue than his size, she has no issues with small size If he knows how to please her (she'll conveniently forget about the "disappointed by his size" part from her post)

She's looking for insights on what she has to do from other women.

After sometime, she'll make an edit in her post (more or less):

"HE'S AN INSECURE ASSHOLE, I'm glad I found out soon and I stopped seeing him. Thank you for your advice x"

I mean Idk how these women are finding multiple micro penis guys. Micro penis itself is very rare but these women are meeting multiple guys and all these guys just happen to be terrible men

Now, all the comments will eat this up and it's a free for all to body shaming. People will make jokes, stereotypes and talk shit about small size guys in the comments. If anyone points out how making such comments is body shaming, these people will hide behind the "I'm not making jokes about his size, I'm making jokes about his personality and insecurity" facade.

These posts are so obviously fake. Idk how people are still believe those posts. Maybe people see it as a chance to mask off their performative and virtue signalling persona, let their true colours out I guess

Has anyone observed this?

im a 21yo korean man with a 4inch D.

i know ppl say 'koreans have small dick so its okay' but its not

having small dick is treated as a crime here too.

boys make fun of it and girls dont treat small D guys as a man.

idk why having a small D is thought worse than a crime.

It makes me feel like im not even a man.

even if i hit the gym, cuz of my D i wont be able to be the real masculine man i wanna be.

I really want to double my size.

Small Dick is the worst thing can ever happen to men. it doesnt matter where u live.

I really want to have a big dick sooo bad.

At 35 years old, I have never been married. It is not because I am incapable, nor because I haven't tried. It is because I have reached a firm conviction that facing a harsh truth is far kinder than living behind comfortable lies.

All our lives, we hear the classic reassurances: "Size doesn't matter; it’s the personality that counts; love is all that matters." I say this plainly and from experience: that is an illusion. It is a comforting lie told to make us feel better, but the reality behind closed doors tells a very different story. The quiet complaints, and the marriages I have seen collapse due to physical dissatisfaction, all prove that anatomy plays a significant role. Denying this is the true deception.

I have researched every supposed solution—techniques, devices, and online gimmicks. It is all predatory commercialism. None of it alters anatomical reality, nor does it change the truth.

I do not speak from a vacuum. I have faced painful bullying from those closest to me long before strangers. I carried that pain in silence. I have watched marriages end in divorce and deep emotional fractures simply because a woman was unsatisfied and could no longer live with that void.

That is why I decided to stop. My decision to completely step away from marriage is neither weakness nor escape. I refuse to wrong an innocent woman who enters a marriage in good faith, only to end up disappointed regarding a fundamental right. I refuse to place myself in a position of daily anxiety, self-doubt, and judgment.

Stepping away is the most honorable and merciful path. It preserves my dignity, protects my mental peace, and spares an innocent person from a relationship doomed to frustration from day one. At 35, this is my decision, and I stand by it with absolute conviction.

I'm 24 virgin. I'm scared because of my size. It is 4'6 height and width is around 4.1. i don't know anything about sex I'm late boomer.

what position to do. What really helps. Does size like this have a sexual life? Is it just going to be me mastrubating?

It really affect my confidence a lot. It's hard to talk with women since I was bullied in highschool shame is biggest trauma to me. If one day I get a gf she shames me for it. It will be worst. What are things i should accept and what things will help me?

Not pity, not fetish, not "it doesn't hurt", not femdom, not "size doesn't matter".

Genuinely being turned on by the sight, "print", thought of a small one the same way they get wet for a big one.

Let’s say 5-6 BPL and 4.5-5 inch girth. Would you be content and pursue relationships?

Saw a bumper sticker that said that on my way to work this morning. Can’t even drive to work without feeling like I’m being mocked.

It's obvious they're just looking for lonely depressed guys to bait into jerking off to them so they can exploit our misery for their profit. I don't have anything against women who use OF for money, everyone has to make a living and times are tough, but this subreddit is a safe space and they really should find other subreddits to advertise on - there are plenty for them to use.

I tried explaining this to the woman who posted here today and she just pivoted right back to advertising for it. It's obvious they don't care about us except as a means to boost their accounts, and they should do it elsewhere on reddit. They won't leave us alone unless we ban them, though. So let's make it a rule: women who have OF advertisements/links on their profiles should have their posts removed and then be banned. It's just making rule 10 less ambiguous anyways.

I am a 25 year old male from India. And I want to post today about one thing that I have got. Which is related to my sexuality, I have micropenis. Which medically simply means having a cock smaller than 4 inches when erect. To be specific my size is around 3 inches when erect. Now I want the other women and men that what they have to say about it

If I describe further, I ain’t doing good in life. Like I am not depressed or anything wrong in that sense. The micropenis in my case was caused by hypospadias in which the opening of the penis is present below the penis. It got fixed by surgeries. Well in totality some disruptions were cause by my surgeries, some silly academic decisions of my parents and then some mistake was mine also. I guess I am in quite deep issue. If I have to summarise I am 25 unemployed but educated and smart. I have got micropenis which is unfixable. I am working on myself to improve in the aspects possible tho

Well, I am posting this just to know the views of men and women what they have to say about it. If women have been with such partners and men who have micropenis. Maybe even likewise men can share stuff with me. I guess I am in quite big problem. I ain’t toxic tho. Maybe needless to mention, I am a big fan of philosophies so I actually do not feel insecure or curse women. I am still virgin and don’t care if I have to be for long. I guess it is dumb to judge anyone cuz everyone have got their preferences. So, comment or DM me. Let us see what I get to learn. What tips, precautions, good and bad experiences, advices etc I get to listen from all you. Thanks!

Hey Y’all,

Sorry if this breaks any rules but I originally posted this,

https://www.reddit.com/r/smalldickproblems/s/2gGwAUdLXm

Tl;dr - Was in touch with a cute girl for a couple years, didnt take it too seriously as we were in separate countries, and I didnt do my usual thing of pushing girls away. She came down, and was hinting so much at sex. We had a phone call where she made some comments along the lines of she wishes there was a way for girls to know what they are getting in to penis wise, and some comments about size. I freaked out. Posted here and took the consensus and just sent a long message to ditch her.

Fast forward - She didnt reply for a few days. She then replied when she was drunk and said how much she really liked me and how hurt she was. Crazily enough we were at the same beach club at the time. We met; she cried, she begged me to tell her why and if it was something she did. I told her no, and to just enjoy today.

But there is a part of me that really really really likes this girl. So I met her today. After a few hours of talking she kept trying to guess what happened and why I was acting weird. She then said, fine if it embarrasses you so much I don’t want to put you in that position, and we can just move on and be friends. I didn’t want that. So i told her. She listened, and she said okay well thats fine im not a size queen, and I wasn’t expecting a monster schlong. She started asking a lot of questions, she kissed me and hugged me.

One question she asked me is, Am I able to have Sex. I looked at her, and I said idk, yes. Which was a lie. Idk why i did it.

She told me that look honestly she hasn’t been in a situation like this before, and she said the only logical thing for us to do now is have sex.

To be honest guys, Right now I don’t think I can have sex. That said I feel if I lose some weight, I could probably be around 4 to 4.5 inches erect. I haven’t really measured in a while after i put on weight.

I have really fallen for this girl, and I feel that I want to try to change for her. But I don’t think I can get intimate with her now and ruin it. I also have phimosis which I need to deal with. I neglected myself for so long over this.

Am I crazy to think I can talk with her and ask if she is willing to give me some time? What would you guys do in my situation.

I'm asking cause my friend has a small dick and is a bit insecure about it, but to me its perfect because it reaches the G spot. How is for you guys?

It so difficult to even get girls to begins with, and having a tiny one kills confidence and leads to isolation forget girls i can't live day to day life due to const depression and anxiety due to size it's like living in hell living alone ,i worry about future and possibly staying single and unmarried forever

I can’t think of anywhere else I can go for honest advice about this. In the past couple months I’ve had a casual hook up thing going for me but the downside is that she’s really into being in charge and dishing out SPH.
I’ve never been into getting humiliated about my dick size but it’s a huge kink for her and she keeps teasing me about it.

I’m about 4.5” hard and she knows I’m embarrassed by this stuff but she says that’s part of what makes it hot for her. The sex is genuinely good and I play along with it but it’s all a bit emasculating for me.

I’ve been constantly struggling with whether I end the relationship and keep my pride, or just put up with it to keep the no strings attached sex.
On the one hand I genuinely find her really hot and I’m getting regular, casual sex for the first time since uni. I’m a 24yo guy and obviously it’s a struggle going long periods without getting laid.
On the other hand if I had the choice I’d rather be the dominant one in the bedroom and the whole situation feels like I’m being used. Having a small dick isn’t something I want to be reminded of constantly and it really bruises my ego.

I really want to hear what other small dick guys think about this and what you’d do in my position. Not exactly something I can ask for people’s opinions on IRL.

I'm wondering who made up that term and where it came from. I had a woman thru Reddit chat or dm said to me that a small penis is a dicklet. Shit made me hella annoyed and pissed off. I'm glad to learn that theres women out there who don't just body shame men. I was made fun of for my penis size from my older siblings and those back in high school. My older brother said my penis was a size a bullet. Its just such a prob that majority of men who are endowed makes fun of us men who are on the smaller end and even average. It just fucking sucks some toxic fucks gotta make fun of someone for their body part. I wish there was a small penis movement and that we can end this hate once and for all. Sorry for the long paragraph. Just want to share my thoughts.