u/Plinkplinks

people who say this are 95% of the time people who have the privilege to never worry about falling short, or dont have a penis. This also applies to other things like height with tall people

It pisses me off so much that people put us down and insinuate we're unlucky or sometimes even imply that we're inherently worse than someone bigger, then tell us that if we feel bad about it it's Our fault and that being insecure makes you even more of a laughing stock. Basically trying to avoid accountability

The worst part is, they're right. obviously someone who's able to be stoic in the face of ridicule is more respectable than someone who isn't, but this already puts more pressure on us that we need to spend effort to achieve Greatness of mind and do crazy self-improvement. and even then they'll make fun of us for improving ourselves and say that we're just compensating

This "advice" is something I personally get. i told my friend about my small size and that I'm insecure about it but he said "being sad about being small is sadder than being small" and of course he'd say that because his is 6 inches. i also see it online in conversations that aren't related to me.

It's like cutting an animal's tail then blaming the animal for being hurt

Honestly, fuck the world. I'm proud of my small penis and I'm done submitting to all the people who insult or make fun of small dicks or implies being small is a bad thing.

I'm not less of a man cuz of my small dick. People believe what they're taught to believe and what they want to believe regardless of whether or not it's true. entire mythologies and superstitions have affected societies for decades and people genuinely believed in them but at the end of the day they're just delusions and socially-conditioned beliefs and i would rather not let the opinion of a delusional individual affect my worth. a guy with a big dick is no better or worse than me.

I am capable of satisfying a partner just as much as a guy with a big dick. Yes i know more length means more sensory nerves touched and therefore more pleasure But you can't depend only on having a big size for pleasure. Only the shallowest would care about just size and nothing else

fuck whatever happened that gave people this idea that small dicks are objectively and always worse. whether it's porn or the internet or how talking about sex has become more open or whatever I don't care. but things didn't use to be this way. the ancient greeks appreciated small dicks more than big ones which shows the "learned" factor to this whole deal

i know i will be called delusional but i am done feeling bad about myself. I'm going to own it and if i encounter someone who makes fun of me or rejects me for my dick size i will stand my ground and be confident instead of agreeing with them like a loser and giving them more power. I have a small dick and I'm proud of that and anyone who tries making me feel bad about it isn't worth even a little bit of my time

this is just a rant. penis size is not even about sex, people just casually consider having a bigger penis as a sign of status regardless of how much it will impact sex. even if you just look it up on google small penises are associated with humiliation and "enforced" self love, confidence tips, and fetishes that have to do with inferiority. it's like having a small penis isn't just one natural variation but something that reduces your "value"

the worst thing is that we're not even allowed to be insecure. the world casually makes fun of us all the time and considers us inferior and then doesn't even allow us to feel bad about it because guess what? it's unattractive to be insecure and it's your fault that you don't have enough "self confidence" essentially blaming the victim.

even your friends aren't a safe space they will make fun of you for it and that's speaking from experience. i know it's usually just a joke but not all jokes are meaningless or random. the joke definitely stems from something, essentially they're laughing about your "weakness." im the smallest one in my friend group (just barely 4 inches at max)

i just wish it was a normal thing that people don't use as an insult at least but even that is enough to make you "sensitive"