Recommendation for a first timer male stroker/massager .
I am a beginner who has never been involved in any sexual activities yet, and I am looking to explore a bit by purchasing my first male stroker/massager.
Because I am completely new to this, I have a few specific questions and would love some genuine advice from this community:
Size & Girth: I want something that is guaranteed to fit comfortably regardless of length and girth. I’ve seen open-ended, highly elastic silicone/TPE manual strokers (like the Tenga Spinner style)—do these actually expand comfortably for everyone?
Electric vs. Non-Electric: For a complete beginner, should I start with a manual stroker where I control everything, or is a wrapped vibrating/electric massager better? What are the pros and cons for a first-timer?
Indian Market & Budget: What are the best budget-friendly, high-quality brands easily available in India?
Privacy: Where is the safest place online to buy these with 100% discreet packaging so nobody at home knows what’s inside?
Please guide me on what type of toy and what type of lube I should pick up for a safe and good first experience. Thanks in advance!