u/Humble_Sympathy_4605

Tag isn't really suitable but close enough.

For context, been with my AP nearly as long as I've been dating and married to my wife. Mostly was online but we'd meet infrequently and the sex was so good- very kinky and very submissive, and so different to the sex with my wife.

She's had a couple of boyfriends in that time and we've still carried on, but she's recently got with someone else and has made it pretty clear that things are going to change between us.

I'm very happy for her, her last two boyfriends have been wastes of space, and she deserves someone who makes her feel as wonderful as she is. Our affair was always about the sex, there was never any question of me leaving my wife, we both just got off from the thrill of the chase so to speak. But as happy for her as I am, I already miss our affair, and I know I'll get over it but just needed to get the feelings out there!