I just think it'd be hot. He's such a great partner and lover, it seems selfish to keep him to myself. Plus it makes me pathetically wet to think of seeing their messages, or even better: enjoying each other
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i'm 19 with dark hair and a curvy body and i cheated on my boyfriend with his roommate while he was sleeping in the next room. the roommate fucked me hard on the couch and i had to stay quiet. the risk made it so much hotter and now i can't stop wanting more.
there's a little pale strip on his finger where the ring usually is. he thinks taking it off before he gets to me means something. it doesn't. i clocked it the first time and i've never said a word because honestly the tan does more for me than the ring ever could.
we work adjacent, different teams, and it started as the normal late-elevator, walking-to-the-same-lot thing where you both know before either of you admits it. he told me about his wife in the same breath he asked for my number, which is a choice, and i gave it to him anyway because i'm not the one who made vows.
he comes to me. that's the whole shape of it. he'll text that he's 'working late' and show up at my place still in the shirt he wore to dinner with her, and he's so wound up by the time he gets here, like i'm the release valve for a life he built somewhere else. i like that. i like being the thing he lies to get to.
he's soft and apologetic in his real life, i can tell, and with me he isn't apologetic about anything. he'll have me bent over my own couch with his hand in my hair and it's the least guilty i think he lets himself be all week.
people would call me the villain. i'm single. i didn't promise her anything. the ring's in his pocket, not mine.
he's coming tn. With a tan and all.
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Hi! I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. I have already cheated with one of my coworkers and one of my guy friends. Both of them were single though. His friend has had a girlfriend for years but I want him. Everytime my bf talks about him or I hear them playing games I get so turned on thinking about him. I have no issue being shy and getting out there but I've never been with someone else who's also been in a relationship. I've only cheated with single men.
Any advice on how to test the waters? What can I say? I have his Instagram and Snapchat.
I have been married for 20 years. Never cheated on my husband. Ever.
But, the more I think about it, the more I realize that being with one person until death is not natural and, honestly, it's an incredible independent sacrifice and concession. Considering our finite existence, which, compared to the universe's existence as a whole, it is just ridiculous that we are made to conform to a societal system whereby we are only expected to have one sexual partner after the decision to marry. Marriage was designed for the protection of assets childbearing and rearing. I believe you can still be married and adhere to those social obligations while exploring other people sexually.
The issue is ego, pride and insecurities. Men and women feel as though if their spouse seeks someone else for sexual pleasure, that means that they are not good enough. Or, they're scared of abandonment. Why can't it be accepted that people are naturally attracted to multiple types of people for different reasons and in this one life we have to live - a very short one relatively speaking, why can't we explore all of the pleasures life has to offer? Being safe, of course.
Pleasure and the desire to experience pleasure with someone who is not your spouse should not result in the destruction of a marriage, unless there were already other issues.
Done a lot of cheating this year and I cannot stop thinking about doing it again. I don't even feel bad about it anymore.
M46, Married 11 years. I've always had a bit of a thing for secret flirtatious conversations online with people around the world, talking about fantasies and the like. I've always been upfront about being married which often lead to discussions with either married women also looking to flirt, or women who didn't care and actually got a thrill out of teasing and seducing a married man. Both were a thrill in themselves, which I think lead to something of a cheating kink. The urge to have these chats and more comes and goes, and really has no relation to the state of my marriage at the time... There is definitely a part of it that is looking for validation from others, which is often lacking in my marriage in general.
A particular strong urge arose recently that saw me sign-up to a hook-up site... it proved a good spot to find new people to chat to with the added sense of risk being that they were also local to me. I ended up chatting with a number of great women. The chats were flirtatious and suggestive, eventually turning in full-blown sexting and picture swapping, all of which was such a turn on!
Last week, the flirting and anticipation reached fever pitch and one of the ladies booked a hotel and invited me over. I wasn't sure if I was ready to take the big step but the chats had been such a turn on I just had to explore it further. So I went to the hotel, knocked on the door, and instantly discovered that the chemistry we'd built in chat was there in person too. The next two hours was some of the most passionate and explosive sex I have ever had in my life! We did things we'd talked about in chat, and many that were simply spur of the moment, all of which left us exhausted and grinning.
We've continued to talk, including looking for new opportunities to meet and have sex again. A couple of the other women have now also started lining up dates around their families calendar for a meet-up, and I feel like a dam has broken... The thrill of fulfilling a fantasy, and potentially helping someone else fulfil theirs, while also satisfying our sex drives, is so intoxicating! I know this is such a risky thing to do, but that just seems to make it hotter!
I’m m27 and I can’t stop stop thinking about sucking strange men’s cocks and getting railed by them
I 39m the wife is 40m AP is 20, my wife and i had an accidental pregnancy.DID NOT expect one at our age, has not stopped my fun though. I have been planning to cheat while shes in labor. 3 days before and 3 days after my AP requested off from work. I made sure I was " scheduled" to work during that time. So when I get the call shes in labor I can go fuck her while my wifes im active labor.
Reading about all this cheating behind their partners back is making me throb. All I can think about is finding someone to meet up with behind my girlfriend’s back. Someone to pump full of cum. Cover their face in cum. Shoot cum all over their tits 🥵😈😏
So for context, I (18) posted a little bit ago about how I cheated on my boyfriend (19) with my ex (24) and how I didn't really feel guilty. The day after sure but after that? Nothing. I went on with my life like It was nothing. I guess the weirdest part was that I still felt this love for my boyfriend despite what I did. Well anyways I took some of the advice that y'all gave me and went for an STD checkup and found that I'm clean. I didn't have sex with my boyfriend in that time but still it was incredibly irresponsible of me to not do that so ty.
Anyways anyways, back to what happened. It’s been about a month now since that originally happened and well… it happened again. My ex texted me and after saying no he left it alone, but my dumbass urges just took over again and I texted him back. We met up again in his car and it basically played out the same as last time. We talked, we got frisky, then I rode tf outta him in his car. Then we met again a few days later, this time at his place. He wanted to do it raw but I said no and he was pushy about it. He tapped his dick on my stomach asking and asking but I finally got some self control and told him to rubber up. He was still whiny but when he saw that I was actually being serious he just went along with it. Even the comments he’d make about my boyfriend stopped, well except for his urge to constantly compare his dick size to my boyfriends but whatever.
And again, I would do all this but go home and act lovey dovey with my boyfriend after getting railed not even 12 hours earlier. I don’t know why I feel this way and some people said maybe I just miss the sex with my ex but still genuinely love my boyfriend. I gaslit myself into believing that too until just 2 days ago. I was with a longtime friend (19) in his room just smoking like usual when we started talking about sex. Me and this friend used to casually hook up on and off and it would stop when either one of us was in a relationship.
He talked abt how his single life hook ups were and I talked abt how my bf was in bed and eventually spilled that I cheated on him with my ex. He was pretty disappointed and told me a lot of the same stuff the people on reddit told me. He asked why and if it was really just an issue in the bed and I explained that I just missed the sex and the size of my ex. Also that my bf isn't really that small I'm just used to bigger, like my ex and him. I'm not good as measuring by eye so I think my ex is abt 8-9 inches, my friend is abt 7 inches, and my bf is 4 inches.
I guess that did something for him cuz he straight up just asked "I'm bigger than ur bf?" and I said yeah. We talked more and more and he wasn't "disappointed" in me anymore and said he "gets it" cuz sometimes "girls just need something bigger" and put a hand on my thigh. This is the part where I say I swatted his hand away but I didn't. I knew it was fcked up and I knew what I was doing to my bf was terrible but I'm a weak person and gave in. I took his dick out myself and stroked it slowly with both hands. He put a hand on my head and tried making me go down but I held back and just kept stroking. I spit on it but never put it in my mouth and kept going faster and faster until he started moving funny and came.
Every nerve in my body wanted me to be cute and sexy and lick the cum off my hand but I held firm and just wiped it on his bed sheet. He left to get condoms and "recharge" and we started immediately as soon as he got back. I was shocked but he wanted to go down on me even tho I didn't on him, but I still said no. I got on my hands and knees arched back with my head on his pillow and he pulled down my shorts and just went to fcking town on me. He isn't as big as my ex but god he was railing into me like crazy. We finished up and we went to eat and drove me home. Before I got out of the car he said it was a one time thing and that he was sorry.
Now I'm just left sitting here wondering wtf is going on with my emotions. Why does my friend feel more bad than I do? He's single I'm the one that's supposed to be responsible. And I know it's bad but the thought of losing my boyfriend breaks my fcking heart. I'm such a terrible person and I know I don't deserve him and I know I'm wrong but why do I feel this way? I always struggle with showing basic emotions or basic empathy but this whole thing is making me spiral. I can already feel myself getting worse cuz duh I just fcked a friend so idk. A therapist is gonna love unpacking all of this lmao
So we were 4 of us on this mountain holiday, me my buddy his girlfriend and our other friend. vibes were chill af, hiking joking drinking all that. his gf was always sharp and flirty dressed like she knew she looked good.
one afternoon were all just chilling in the apartment. shes describing this hot outfit she brought and i zoned out then jumped back in like "fuck any girl in that id absolutely destroy her"
dead silence lol. it was the exact dress she was talking about. everyone loses it laughing hysterically while im turning red as fuck stuttering that i wasnt paying attention. in the middle of all the chaos she leans in and mutters something only i caught
"yeah… i figured you had a thing for going after what your friends have."
that smirk tho my stomach flipped hard. i kinda figured shed heard some rumors about me hooking up with a couple of the guys from the friend group exes and gfs before. this kinda confirmed it.
when the guys get hungry and head out for lunch i say im feeling sick and stay back. she jumps in quick saying shes not hungry either. door shuts and its just us two. we sit on the couch and she turns to me with this curious smile. saying something like you really liked that dress huh it had you saying some wild stuff.i was just trying to stay calm and cool waving all of that off.
"idk rumours say otherwise" she starts low "you know the ones about you and some of the other gfs and exes? is it true youve actually fucked a couple of your friends girls behind their backs?"
im all reluctant heart pounding guilt kicking in. "come on you cant believe everything you hear" i laugh nervous trying to brush it off.
but she doesnt drop it. leans closer eyes on mine hand on my leg. "but this is basically the same situation now isnt it? just us here… me being your friends girl… and you looking at me like that. tell me the truth did you really do it with them?" she keeps gently interrogating asking for details on the rumors how it happened pointing out how this feels exactly like those stories and how turned on she got hearing about it. her teasing questions and little touches slowly breaking me down even tho i kept saying we really shouldnt be talking about this it was a stupid comment nothing should happen.
eventually i admit a bit and the tension goes off. i kiss her hesitant at first. things build slow. i pull her onto my lap hands under her top while she grinds on me whispering how dirty this is. i bend her over the couch peel her leggings down and eat her soaked pussy from behind till her legs shaking. then i push in fucking her with long deep strokes while she moans and pushes back.
she rides me next taking control telling me how much better it feels than she expected. i flip her spread her wide and finally pull out cumming all over her stomach and tits.
we clean up fast just in time. rest of the trip was tense af acting normal but every glance i remember i just fucked my friends girlfriend.
I can't let my boyfriend find out yet. Tried sharing from my burner account but it was removed for low karma.
Around COVID I was whoring around quite often. I had a boyfriend back then that was attentive and did everything I asked. He was the best boyfriend I had ever had.
Idk what it was that made me want to cheat on him. It was almost a SD/SB relationship because he was 39 years older than me. He was older, but he loved to fuck me and have sexual fun. However, that didn't prevent me from bringing multiple men into our home for me to fuck and cheat on him with. I even cheated in the bed we shared.
I LOVED being such a slut during that time. I LOVED taking multiple guys cum in one day and then going back home to my bf. We would talk and have great evenings together, and I'd be sitting right next to him with my pussy FULL of cum.
We ended up breaking it off because we were in different stages of life and I didn't want to retire to Florida with him.
Once we broke up, I became a bigger slut. Started doing sex work online, and freely fucking many men whenever I wanted.
Fast forward a few years...
I'm now in a 3 year relationship with a great guy. He's only 15 years older than me, but still such a great boyfriend. I have my complaints in the relationship, but who wouldn't after 3 years.
Started doing sex work again 6 months ago and I wonder if that's what made me want to start cheating again. I was cheating with men on OF and other sites, so why not start in person, I guess.
ALSO it didn't help that I have a long time FWB.
This FWB is so close to my family and we hang out all the time.
It had been like maybe 5 years since I took his cock. We were "being good" because we're trying to both get into Ethical Non Monogamous Relationships. He's married though, so I wasn't too sure how it'd go for him. My bf has dabbled in ENM, and he's very much a sub, so I'm getting closer to having permission from my boyfriend to fuck other men.
Earlier this year, on my February birthday, we all (me, my bf, my FWB, and his wife) meet up for drinks. Afterwards, my bf and his wife leave to go back to work and my FWB and I stay drinking together. He convinces me to go back to his house to partake in some ganja.
After getting to his house, I made him cum twice. It felt so good to have him in my mouth.
Immediately after I told him that DID NOT just happen because I was being SO GOOD by being honest and not cheating on my current partner.
After that instance, we've been flirting HARDCORE.
He told my bf that he buys my OF and that he really enjoys my content.
Idk what it was about this week, but on Tuesday, I was flirting with him again and I just had to get that dick.
I arrived at his house with intentions of just giving him a blow job because I hadn't showered that day.
But, while I was there, he touched my pussy and felt how incredibly turned on and wet I was from sucking him off that he put himself inside of me and came deep within me.
I know it sounds terrible, but I loved it so much. I loved taking his cheating cum within me and feeling it start to oozeout of me.
Over the next couple of days, I COULD NOT stop thinking about it. I went to work and went thru the motions , but that's all while my pussy had a puddle between my lips.
Me and this FWB are joining our families today for 4th festivities and I knew if I didn't get him inside of me beforehand, that I would not be able to play it cool. I look into his eyes and all I can see is lust and desire for one another.
Friday I told him he had to meet me... that he had to fuck me before we met up with our families. I told him I was overwhelmed with desire and lust for his dick.
He came over to my office and I wore a dress because I knew I'd want easy access for him. We didn't have much time, but we had enough time for me to get his dick ready with my mouth, and enough time for him to fuck me and fill me with his nut.
A few hours after he left, my boyfriend came by my office and I knew he wanted to do something sexual. I could still feel my FWB cum in my pussy, and I didn't want my wet pussy to be suspicious, so I made him cum with my mouth instead.
It made me feel so slutty to have them both in my office yesterday.
I'll never tell my BF about cheating on him. But, a part of me thinks he's a little suspicious about it. He knows I'm a slut and have sexual needs...
Now gonna get ready and go have a great 4th of July with our two families. I'll just be day dreaming about him filling me once again 🤤
Had a post in my city about being taken and looking for a girl who doesn’t mind that or who is also taken. Basically I’ve got a huge cheating kink. This one girl reached out to me saying she was in a relationship but that her bf never fucks her etc. we chatted for a bit and exchanged pics. Wayyy hotter than I was expecting since most of the responses were not my type. I’m a tall handsome fit white guy so attraction was important to me.
After a few weeks of messaging she agreed to come by after her work shift and before she headed home. Told her bf she had to stay late. Tight little petite Filipino girl. Perfect body, great ass, and knew how to ride a cock :) since then we’ve been sneakily linking up once or twice a month. Things have progressed to fucking raw (one time she reached down and ripped the condom off while riding me and I about busted just from that sight) she tells me how badly she likes being filled w my cum right before she goes home to her bf. I once met her outside her apt and we fucked in her car while her bf was inside studying or something. So fucking hot.
Now I’m addicted to this cheating thing and I can’t stop. She always teased me when we are fucking asking where my gf is and if I love her pussy more than my girls. At this point I think I do. The thrill is just too much fun and I don’t think I’ll get over it.
I get that not many people understand why others cheat, i started when the wife went off sex due to medical issues. She goes away once a year to visit family, and every year i try and stop myself cheating but i can’t. I love anything sex, age doesn’t bother me
Over the years i have discovered a lot about myself, how i don’t actually have a type and that there are so many unsatisfied women out there.
One lady, a 60yr old had a huge list of medical issues and hadn’t had sex for 9 years. She had an incredible figure and on our first date i had her voluptuous tits out and she wanked me off, making me cum over them which was an amazing experience by itself. The next meet we ended up in bed and damn was she tight, i left her to take control and guide my cock inside her, and eventually she got all 7 inches of it inside her extremely tight pussy, then she rode it for all she was worth, i am quite a heavy cummer, so needless to say i filled her well and truly, and boy didn’t she complain about the amount of cum as it was everywhere lol.
I don’t see it as cheating after all this time, its just companionship for people who are missing out on one of the best things there is in life, intimacy
Age never came into it either, i am just as much into older women as i am younger, proven by age gaps of 30 years either way! although older women have always done it for me.
As a 32 year old who has never tried bbc i cant think of anything hotter than cheating on my husband with one.
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For context, been with my AP nearly as long as I've been dating and married to my wife. Mostly was online but we'd meet infrequently and the sex was so good- very kinky and very submissive, and so different to the sex with my wife.
She's had a couple of boyfriends in that time and we've still carried on, but she's recently got with someone else and has made it pretty clear that things are going to change between us.
I'm very happy for her, her last two boyfriends have been wastes of space, and she deserves someone who makes her feel as wonderful as she is. Our affair was always about the sex, there was never any question of me leaving my wife, we both just got off from the thrill of the chase so to speak. But as happy for her as I am, I already miss our affair, and I know I'll get over it but just needed to get the feelings out there!
For context, I’ve cheated several other times with women closer in age to me, and it was always very hot, but I’d wanted to try a much younger girl for a while. I finally met this 26yo slut on an app and she was dying for married cock. We met in a parking lot and fucked in the backseat of her car. I cannot describe how tight her pussy was, how soft her skin was, how good her tits tasted. She rode my cock so good while I told her how much better she was than my wife, until she came all over me.
Now, all I can think about it is the idea of finding a college age slut and using her behind my wife’s back. Worth going for some of that Gen Z pussy?