




Consider this in Your Himplant Go - No Go Decision
Hello Friends,
Now 10 weeks in, for those that have followed me on my journey, I offer this for your calculation in determining to Himplant or not. As I read many posts I will agree that yes, size is important. It is a factor in this post. Most of the DM's to me ask what was your before and after flaccid and erect. I went ahead and published those in my prior posts. But, with size in the bedroom super to have, there is also a supplemental indicator of success for me now - becoming a Show'er.
The accompanying reality of going from a grower to a show'er has had a resounding and overwhelming positive impact for me. For once in my life I have something people notice. It's life changing in a truly wonderful way. To be a grower my whole life, the Himplant has become mind altering in a way I never expected. The self esteem I've gained is worth every bit of the anxiety of recovery.
It wasn't until about week 3 and 4 that this came home to me. When I was beginning to migrate from loose sleep wear to my regular sleep pants (didn't work!); when I began migrating from baggy clothes to work clothes (didn't work well!); when I began going out and socializing more (whoops my pants fit a grower not a show'er); and when I was going back to work (and didn't want to look like a porn star). Aaaahhhh, my pants show every shape of my new member - my church pants are more revealing; my underwear just don't work any longer that were made for growers not show'ers; and forget the speedos right now - you just can't cram all this in. Then the next challenge - decisions, decisions - do I put my member down the right pants leg today or the left pants leg today?? Whoa, I never had to make that decision my entire prior life! All this at one time created much anxiety over the past couple of weeks in a fabulous way. I'm doing my best to make my outfits look attractive without being vulgar, lol.
It's truly mind altering for someone that envied all the show'ers his entire life - and now to be tossed head first (ha, literally) into an entirely new and wonderful world - to be catapulted into a new reality. It's just over the top. It's hard to express in words the true joy of the new and permanent me.
I took my sons to an amusement park at the end of week 7. While I was very careful to not ride anything that would hurt myself, I couldn't help but notice one awesome thing - a first in my life. In the past being the people watcher, I easily and readily picked up that I was the one being watched for once in my life*.* I was uncomfortable at first but by the end of the day I was telling myself - YES!! And folks, that's not a sock or padded jock down there, lol!!! Sorry to sound a bit arrogant, but after all these years we Himplant brothers are a bit entitled. It was humbling and exilerating at the same time.
This post is just meant to be thought provoking for all of you on the fence. For me the Himplant is mind blowing in a way I never imagined. I would do this all again in a heartbeat as difficult sometimes as the healing process was at times. That discomfort is all just a past memory, but the stares are a constant occurrence ;) I stay in awe of Dr Taj's work.
As always, DM with questions. I usually don't respond to threads on a post. I'm happy to help, and happy to share progress photos (under DM only).
You guys are the best. Thank you for all the support through my journey.
Kindest regards,
ICAF99