Can I get some advice for my first time?

Hey everyone
I had my first gay experience a couple days ago with my friend’s housemate. We made out and he gave me a handjob. It was amazing but I was basically completely overwhelmed by it so I don’t think I did much for him
He’s coming over to my place tonight for some drinks and probably something more, we’ve been texting since yesterday and he was getting me to snap him while I was in the shower lol. It felt very good showing myself off to him.
He seems pretty dominant so I’m expecting him to lead the way but I don’t want to let him down with my lack of experience
I’ve been with girls before so I’m not nervous about being intimate with someone, it’s more just not knowing what to do to make him feel good. Like, how do you give someone a good blowjob/handjob?
I’m not even sure what kind of underwear to wear lol, it feels so different to getting ready for a hookup before. I’ve never really been like submissive or anything but I really feel like I want to please him and just give myself over to him lol
And advice would be appreciated, thank you

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u/IdiChapp — 3 days ago

Hit on by friend’s housemate and folded

I was out for after work drinks last night and ended up bumping into a friend I’ve not seen in a while. She was out with her boyfriend and their housemates.
My workmates went home but I stuck with them. It’s been a pretty stressful week for me for a lot of reasons so I was in the mood to just have a good night and relax
Throughout the whole night me and my friend’s housemate (let’s call him E) were really vibing, like we ended up racing to make the same jokes etc. It was a really fun time at the bar. We ended doing shots and all dancing together until just before they were closing.
In hindsight, E was trying to flirt and get close while we were dancing but I literally just thought it was messing around. I’m really not used to catching anyone’s attention like that so it didn’t clock until we were walking back for more drinks at my friend’s place
Everyone was walking ahead of us and E stuck back with me, I don’t fully remember what we were talking about but I remember making fun of him for not walking straight so he put his arm over my shoulder for support and I sort of got the hint then.
Having his weight on me with him leaning way closer than necessary to talk to me I really started to think something was going to happen
We walked a little more and we were sort of trying out touching each other a lot more without making it too obvious
By the time we were back to the house we’d fallen pretty far behind everyone and they were starting to call it a night as we came in. I think we were the only ones really wanting to continue the party anyway tbh
My friend says I’m cool to crash on the couch and asks if E is going to head up, but he suggests another drink instead. My friend said no so E shrugged and said goodnight, then he took my hand and led me into their living room and sat me down on the sofa. I remember thinking he was smiling like crazy at me. He went off to get us bear and I just sort of awkwardly waited
When he came back he sat right up next to me and then there was this really awkward silence. It looked like he worked himself up to it, I remember him biting his lip, then he put his bear and put his hand on my leg.
He said I should put mine down too and right then I was kind of panicking so he just took it out of my hand for me, put it onto the table and leant in to kiss me
I was shocked. I mean I’ve thought about guys a lot before, for like the past 10 year, and since the walk home I’d been thinking what ifs about him but it was very different when I actually could feel his lips.
It feels so different to girls but it was good. He actually put pressure when he kissed me and I felt like I had to make an effort to stop laying back and letting him on top. I didn’t last long though, he pushed my chest so I was laying underneath him and then I felt his hand rubbing against my dick as he was kissing me. It happened so quickly it felt like so much at once that I was like a virgin again, no idea what to do
Then I think he took my hand and put it round his back and my brain switched on again, and it was just making out again. Except unlike usually he was on the one on top of me, stronger than me, telling me what to do. I’ve never been submissive like that but damn I liked it when he told me to unbuckle my belt
I think I shuddered when he put his hand into my underwear and he laughed right in my ear. From all the alcohol it took me a while to get fully hard but feeling him hard against my hip helped a lot
We kept like that for a while, making out, him sucking on my neck, my ear, whispering to me that he knew I would it. I hope I wasn’t as loud as I thought when I came but fuck it felt good cumming into his hand
I went to put my hand to make him cum but he stopped me and told me ‘next time’ and then he kissed me and went to get a towel.
He crashed on the sofa with me which was nice but very awkward when both of us had to get up and rush to get to work this morning. We didn’t really end up talking in the morning so idk what to do now
I have no idea if I want to message him or what but I won’t be forgetting it quickly

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