asking for head from men
i 23f have a hard time expressing what i want during sex with men. i’m not really looking for a relationship and pretty frequently have (protected) flings here and there. with women it’s so much easier for me but with men it’s hard for me to voice that i want my pussy ate. sex comes so naturally to me and i usually don’t even feel anxious during it but unless they initiate eating me out or ask me what i want them to do to me which i tell them i want some head and i get it it usually doesn’t happen. i feel like men should automatically want to eat you out and i always feel awkward demanding/asking for it.. its so weird to me because with women you never have to ask it’s just a given but most men don’t really feel that way. also i can’t imagine telling a man to go down on me to which they respond “no” or “they don’t do that” because where do you even go from there?? i guess i’d have to kick them out or give them the same energy and refuse giving them head.😭 at the end of the day i know i need to be more assertive and it’s something im working on because i deserve to have my needs met just as much as they do. what i want to know is how yall go about saying you want some head? or how do you signal to it?