MFM has made me step up my game….
Has anyone else experienced this? To be clear, I am in no way concerned that my wife is going to leave, like some other guy more, or want to replace me in any way. We are a team, and a damn good one…. But ever since we’ve started this adventure I have found myself speaking, writing, acting, and fucking her like we just started dating again. I hadn’t been treating her poorly in any way, but some of the things that I did to win her years ago had sort of fallen by the wayside as we’d fallen into the routines of daily life. Those things are back with a vengeance now! I’ve put some thought into it, and feel confident that it’s not coming from a place of insecurity but instead one of love and even deeper commitment to our relationship. Having given up “ownership” of her sexual being on occasion, I now find myself seeking to deepen all of our other ties. The imperfect analogy that comes to mind is like losing your vision and your hearing gets sharper.
So, I’ll ask again….has anyone else experienced this shift and has it stuck throughout the time you’ve been doing this?