u/ImprobableGrind

MFM has made me step up my game….

Has anyone else experienced this? To be clear, I am in no way concerned that my wife is going to leave, like some other guy more, or want to replace me in any way. We are a team, and a damn good one…. But ever since we’ve started this adventure I have found myself speaking, writing, acting, and fucking her like we just started dating again. I hadn’t been treating her poorly in any way, but some of the things that I did to win her years ago had sort of fallen by the wayside as we’d fallen into the routines of daily life. Those things are back with a vengeance now! I’ve put some thought into it, and feel confident that it’s not coming from a place of insecurity but instead one of love and even deeper commitment to our relationship. Having given up “ownership” of her sexual being on occasion, I now find myself seeking to deepen all of our other ties. The imperfect analogy that comes to mind is like losing your vision and your hearing gets sharper.

So, I’ll ask again….has anyone else experienced this shift and has it stuck throughout the time you’ve been doing this?

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u/ImprobableGrind — 9 days ago

First Time MFM last night.

My wife and I are new to the lifestyle. We have been to a few sex clubs and done some above the waist play and same room play there. Then we got on the apps.

My wife sifted enough to find a guy that she found attractive and they matched and did a bit of flirting. I didn’t enjoy this part of the process, as it felt like my wife diverting her attention from me but I also understand that her fantasy involves some level of familiarity and connection. He and I spoke privately via text to form some rapport and for me to feel him out and ask some logistics and technical questions (testing, protection, schedules, etc)

We went out on a three-way date on Saturday night, sat in a circular booth with her sandwiched in between us. You could absolutely see under the lip of the table that two men were feeling up her thighs as she leaned her legs on the third. The taboo aspect and the risk of being in public were a little thrilling. I had her wear a toy in her panties that I could remote control, and loved the shocked face when I buzzed her in public. He kissed her goodnight and I took her home and took care of her since she was so wet and horny after all that attention.

On Sunday, we had him come over. His testing results were more than a year old, so we set the parameters that he wasn’t giving or getting oral, nor would there be penetration from him on that encounter.

He was sort of like an eager puppy, but I already had the entire thing planned out for my wife and it turned out ok. I started us all out in the kitchen, making him some chilled tequila and two smoked old fashioneds for my wife and I and eventually transitioned over to the living room couch where we both kissed her and she grabbed both of our cocks and got fingered a little by the third. I held the pace of the encounter (remember, eager puppy) by handing my wife her drink whenever I noticed her getting over-stimulated. She was incredibly nervous, and I didn’t want to get her roaring drunk just to get over that, so I planned a massage for her.

I asked our third to come into the bedroom and help me set it up, and he and I talked about keeping the massage sensual but not overtly sexual, with the idea of giving her a proper 60 minute rubdown and turning her brain off. I had my wife lay down on her stomach facing the foot of the bed, I stood over her at the foot of the bed with my cock right by her face, and I had the third sit up on the pillows at the head of the bed…this gave him a really nice view and still allowed me to make eye contact with him to control the pace of everything…we waited until she started to melt into the massage a little…eventually she was excited enough raise her head and start sucking me off. He was busy kissing and sucking her toes…we think he’s got a bit of a foot fetish and she *does* have very cute little feet!

Unfortunately, despite some recreational Viagra (I don’t need it, but it’s fun lol) I was too busy curating her experience to enjoy any of it. I don’t think that I’ve ever failed to get rock hard within about 10 seconds of my wife wrapping her beautiful lips around my cock, but I just wasn’t in the mood at all. After a few minutes of this, which still felt really good of course, I leaned down and asked her in a whisper in her ear if she’d like to stroke his cock for him.

I had him come stand at the foot of the bed and I moved over to stand on her left side with her still laying on her stomach. I took a little vibrator off the shelf and held it to her clit while she stroked his cock right in front of her blindfolded face. As he was getting closer, I changed toys to her rabbit, inserting it into her…she was insanely wet, that silicone slid right in! Then I mounted her and stroked my cock a little while watching her stroke his cock with a huge smile on both of their faces, and slid my cock into her along with the toy for DVP. She *really* enjoyed that, asking me to fuck her and begging for me to cum in her. He came all over the towels and her arms and hands and she kept stroking him to keep him hard. I was still kind of bored with the entire thing, so I didn’t cum but I did make some appropriate noises in the hopes that she’d finish.

It turns out she was still too nervous and overstimulated to cum this way, so I kept the vibrator in her and flipped her over onto her back and went down on her. I have an almost 100% success rate with oral and my wife, but it just wasn’t happening. I asked her if she’d like to make our third cum again, and so while I was eating her pussy, we had the third sit up by her head and make out with her and play with her breasts and she grabbed his cock and stroked him off all over her hands, arms and some ended up all the way down on his calves lol. She held his cock as it softened and almost made it to the finish line several times as I stayed down on her for a solid 35 minutes…

We all got up, I made us another drink while she put on a completely sheer lace robe we got for her and went out into the kitchen to enjoy that drink and talk for a bit. We eventually finished our drinks and sent the third home, and then I took her in the bedroom and played with her sopping wet pussy while she sucked my cock again. Instantly hard. I put her rabbit back inside of her, flipped her on her stomach and pushed in with it and we both came hard as hell within about 5 minutes.

We then just laid together on the bed, and when we got done panting, discussed the encounter and what we liked and didn’t like about everything. I enjoyed watching her pleasure, but was really pretty bored with the entire thing. She absolutely adored having the attention of two hot guys even though she couldn’t finish. Overall, we both thought it was a mostly positive experience and we plan on inviting the same guy over again once he gets his testing updated.

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u/ImprobableGrind — 25 days ago