r/MFM_Lifestyle

I’m very curious about this so any advice helps greatly

We started on the couch. I love rubbing their dicks over the outside of their pants as they get hard, then eventually reaching my hands in to grab them. I placed my legs over our third's lap, then he started rubbing my pussy. I stood up for them to strip my stretchy dress off while kissing my husband and our third was rubbing and grabbing on my ass. I told them to sit back down on the couch, I got between my husband's legs and started sucking him, then I switched to our third. My body was somewhat turned towards my husband, and eventually I was on my hands and knees sucking our third while my husband played with my pussy with his hands and his mouth. After a couple minutes, I put a condom on our third's dick and rode him on the couch while my husband watched from behind. Then I turned around on his lap to ride him reverse while sucking my husband. We switched to me bent over the arm of the couch with our third behind me while my husband was in my mouth sitting on the couch. That was a really good position, will refer back to it at the end 😅

We moved to the bed so they could lay me on my back at the edge of the bed and take turns fucking me. Then our third went down on me and made me cum, which my husband said was loud enough to be heard in the hotel hallway (I guess I spaced out because I know I orgasmed but don't remember the intensity) 🤭 After that I took a quick break. When we got back at it, it was kind of a mess of position switching again. A little bit of riding. Swapping in missionary. Both of them on opposite sides of the classic spitroast position. So difficult to keep a dick in my mouth while being pounded from behind.

After some time, we took another break. We were all sitting on the couch again. I laid back on my husband and put my legs, spread open on our third's lap. My husband reached down and started rubbing and fingering my pussy. He stopped and moved to my boobs, then our third rubbed on my pussy some more. Eventually, I moved to the floor in front of our third, my husband got behind me on the floor and started fucking me from behind while I sucked on our third, he definitely enjoyed that viewpoint from sitting on the couch and said my ass looked so nice. Then my husband pounded me until he pulled out and came on my ass. After, he sat on the couch while I bent over the arm of the couch and our third got behind me. He pounded me out while I was at perfect eye level with my husband. Staring into his eyes while my pussy was getting wrecked was so hot 🥵 I came again and then our third pulled out and came on my ass.

Anyway, my brain is useless after these meetups. I definitely forget a lot of details. I don't know if it's from being so overstimulated or if they really fucked my brains out, but I would prefer to remember the whole thing. We really need to set up the tripod or get a cameraman 😂 do people typically take pics and videos?

So couple I hook up with regularly recently wanted to invite another guy over with me around. They found him. Mid 20s dude, looks good and all, not a loser by any means. Couple wants to video (which I never do with them). This guy is down for it.

Anyway. We end up shooting him and her. I'm completely out of the frame. But this guy just genuinely did not seem to care at all. Tons of faces. He's on video talking as well. I know a lot of people make all sorts of promises about not distributing any of the footage or not getting faces but the guy apparently genuinely did not care, did not ask for it at all.

I didn't actually try to creep on the guy but I am willing to bet money he's got a white collar career lol. Genuinely amazed. Curious if this is just the culture now? Do guys you invite also not care?

I often wonder if I'm alone in this line of thinking. I love MFM's from the moment I met a couple in the old yahoo chat rooms and they came to visit my apt. I was hooked forever and have had many more after. Fast forward, I get married, and while I miss having MFM 3somes, I don't want to do this with my wife. I have ZERO desire to share her. But if I could be the 3rd for a couple I would jump at the chance. I love the back and forth action. I also really love a woman that can take on two guys and be free. I've done DP and DVP...like I said, I love it all, but I don't want that with my wife. Most of the time when I read posts, husbands are giddy over sharing their wives, but that's just not for me. Are there other guys out there married or not, that enjoy being a 3rd but don't want to engage in this with a significant other?

For the women out there I have a question. If you have had a long term third that you enjoyed did you feel NRE? If you did feel it did it diminish the longer you were involved with him? The reason I ask is that my wife and I are now involved in a long term experience with a great guy and I believe she is experiencing NRE but says she is not.

Has anyone ever booked a massage for the wife to kind of test the mfm waters? Def don’t wanna involve an innocent massage therapist. But is there a place where I can find someone who can help us ease into this? Any suggestions are appreciated. Ty

Has anyone ever hired a male escort for a third for a MFM threesome? My wife and I have been talking about finally having a threesome. I know people say it is easy to find a third online. However, the idea of hiring a pro appeals to us. We like the transactional nature of the relationship. We are not looking for an ongoing thing, just one time. We do not want to make a relationship with a third person too. Anyone ever done this? I would like to know how it went.😄

Would like to hear from those who are tempted by also nervous about trying a MFM Threesome. What tempts you ..what scares you.

27m aspiring third, and I'm wondering for couples, what is the first thing that you notice when scouting for potential thirds? I've recently suffered a string of rejections based solely on external factors, such as geography and age and my lack of a physique, and my penis size

Some things I cannot control, other things I can. What I'm wondering is, what is the first thing that you notice externally when looking for a potential third, because I'm trying to narrow down where I am crashing and burning that is causing me to suffer rejections because after a certain number it's more of a statement on me than anything

If the primary characteristic is age then there's nothing I can do, it's just not a game for me at this time sadly, but if it's something like body, it'll take a few years but I can eventually get there. Hoping to hear everybody's thoughts

Spitroast is probably the best position, but a woman bouncing on top while sucking the other guy is very underrated in my opinion. Which mfm position is underrated to you?

I am looking for some honest perspective from people who have actually been in this situation.

My wife and I have been talking about the idea of an MFM threesome. We are both curious and open-minded, but neither of us has any real experience with this kind of dynamic. Right now it is more of a “what if” conversation than something we have committed to doing.

I think my biggest concern is regret—either in the moment or afterward. Not necessarily from a moral standpoint, but more emotionally. I wonder how it might affect how I see my wife, how she sees me, or how it might change our relationship dynamic in ways we cannot predict.

For those of you who have tried it, especially if you went in without prior experience:

• Did you have any regrets afterward?
• Were there emotions that caught you off guard?
• What do you wish you had talked through more beforehand?
• Did it strengthen your relationship, or create complications?
• Most importantly.. where do you find the third?

We have a strong relationship and good communication, and I want to approach this carefully rather than impulsively. Any insight—positive or negative—would really help.

So when presented with your choice of fun for the evening, what are some of the deciding factors that make you choose an MFM over couple play?

For us it’s whatever mood we are in sure. But one of factors is that there definitely is a different energy and dynamic with single guys.

We have made some fantastic long lasting connections with couples and amazingly sexy nights and we shall continue to do so.

But we have slowly been feeling the desires again for that enegery a single young stud brings haha

We have found it’s easier to manage and make a connection with single men, so energy expended can be a deciding factor for us.

So again, we are Curious what you all think when you choose and what’s the deciding factor?

How does everyone here feel about the woman kissing both men during MFM threesomes? I'm mostly talking about kissing after oral. As the third or bull, one of the things I would like to try out is kissing the woman after she gives oral to her partner. My fantasy is for her to give him a blowjob and then swallow his cum, and after she swallowed his cum completely I would like to kiss her with tongue involved and all. I'm not into cum swap and or anything like that, and I'm not into kissing the other man, but the act of kissing the woman after she's given oral is something that turns me on for some reason.

I was wondering how you guys feel about kissing during MFM? For the men, does it taste different when kissing the woman after she's given oral and/or swallow the other man's cum, or do you not notice it at all?

I feel like the MFM community is full of people who'll tell you how much it's helped their relationship and how their relationship is better than ever before they started messing around in the LS. Curious if people have opposite stories here?

I recently tried reconnecting with a couple I knew from 2019 or so. Turns out they're divorced. I ended up hooking up with the (ex) wife and from the sound of it it was all downstream of hooking up with guys. She got really into it and constantly wanted to meet younger guys. He didn't like it. Boom.

I've also met people who tried, very quickly discovered that it would lead their relationship astray and pulled away quickly.

My boyfriend and I decided to try bringing in another guy for the first time. We met him, had some drinks to loosen up, then went back to our place. I got changed into something sexy and when I came out both of them were already hard.

Having two cocks to play with at once was overwhelming in the best way. They kept switching between my mouth and my pussy. I ended up on top of my boyfriend while the other guy fucked me from behind. The feeling of being completely filled was something else. I came multiple times and they both finished inside me one after the other.

Afterwards we all just lay there laughing and talking. It felt surprisingly normal and fun. My boyfriend said watching me enjoy it so much turned him on more than he expected. I’ve been thinking about doing it again ever since.

Our F loves hearing how much I (the third) love her body … “You have such a great ass” for example. The more enthusiastic I am the better for her. For me it’s a little cliche but hearing her yell “harder” while I’m behind is always a good one.

My boyfriend and I had been talking about trying a threesome for months. We finally found a guy we both liked on an app and met him for drinks first. The conversation was so easy that by the time we went back to the hotel room I was already excited instead of nervous.

I put on lingerie and let both of them touch me at the same time. Having two pairs of hands on me felt insane. They took turns fucking me and using my mouth while I was in the middle. At one point I was riding my boyfriend while sucking the other guy and he had to pull out because it felt too good. That moment made me feel so powerful.

We tried DVP and I came so hard I almost cried. Afterwards both of them finished inside me. The whole thing lasted for hours and felt completely natural. My boyfriend and I talked about it for days after and it actually made us closer. I already want to do it again.

Hi! I (22F) recently separated from a MFM dynamic because they had to move away.

TLDR: are women joining MM couples common? Or did I just get lucky? Will I ever find that dynamic again?

A little about what it was like (and apologies in advance it’s a tad confusing): the man (M39) who reached out to me said that his partner (M36) wanted to add a woman to the dynamic and that he would do anything to make his partner happy. We were all new to the situation, so I was comfortable in exploring this new dynamic with them.

M39 wanted me to be dominant towards him, but unfortunately I did not prefer his fantasies so he ended up taking a cuck role in the relationship, although he loved to make out before, during, and after sessions.

As for M36, he transitioned to female before we met but after a while missed some of his masculine features so he stopped the transition. While his husband preferred to use she/her pronouns for his partner, I used he/him pronouns as per my partner’s request. This partner was more like a boyfriend to me, and would often take me on dates while the other partner was working. (I hope this makes sense!)

It was a wonderful relationship! I am surprised that with its many complications it worked out so well. But now that they’ve moved, I want to find another dynamic similar to the one I was in. Unfortunately, I’ve only found advice and stories about MF couples with a M unicorn. Is it uncommon to find MM couples with a F unicorn?

Thanks for reading :D