u/Maleficent_Music4439

Me(33) and my partner have been talking about exploring the idea of adding a third, and been thinking on moving forward with it.
My question is how do you and your partner come to an agreement of what kind of guy you want. Do you just list what you want? Would it be better to travel and find someone or better to find local?

We’ve been doing a lot of research and we’re at the point where we’d like to move forward with meeting up. I know the best choice is to meet up in public and get to know them a little, and see if there’s connection and spark. How does someone start a conversation and what kind of conversation do we have. I guess I’m trying to figure out how we make that first meeting feel natural?