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My gf just informed me that it made her uncomfortable that I kept asking for her to sleep with someone else. She also said that because of how she views sex, she'll never be ok with the idea of this.

This is such a strong fetish for me, I don't know how to cope. I feel like I'm grieving what could have been. It's just vanilla sex for me from now on I guess. Anyone here know how to deal with it?

Hey everyone! I think this post might be a bit unpopular/controversial, but I thought I would get the best advice from asking you people here.

Me (26M) and my gf (25F) are interested in partaking in this non monogamist lifestyle. She's really enthusiastic about it and LOVES the idea of being double penetrated. However, I would like advice on how you all here find good men. I really want to see my gf get fucked by another man, but I would not like it if he was an asshole/shitty person.

Ideally, I would want a guy who's super chill, doesn't see me as less of a man, doesn't disrespect my gf and her boundaries, doesn't subscribe to any toxic masculinity ideas. Just a guy who wants to have a good time and wants to help my gf feel sexy, which she very much deserves.

In your experience, how have you all been able to find men? Where did you go? How did you sus the weirdos/redpill incels out?