Parallels between therapist and dom
I, 35f, am reeling after a realization. My therapist, 38m, triggered me in a way my dom, 44m, does, who is also a therapist, and I am just kind of reeling.
Yes there is a kink dynamic I developed around therapy, enter my dom.
It's just there are things I recognized I needed out of some kink. But I realized I was feeling dommed by my therapist. He reached out to me. He triggered me. And then was asking me to see him again, we were on a 6 month break and he called me last week because there was some glitch and he needed to ask me a question, and I have some stuff I'm trying to manage... so after 6 weeks of managing solo... I wanted to see him last week.
But ever since I realized he triggered me. And he even acknowledged he did. We were talking about it. He said he needed to help me.
It's not that anything he did or said wrong. So to speak It's that he uses the same techniques. The things I need but don't say out loud... until triggered.
It's just fucking with my head...
It's not the first time. When I worked with a trainer, it was a very much power dynamic... his thing was about building my body and mine was about being able to yell at him. And he could slap my ass once a month...
So clearly this is something I am seeking out from men... or is weird? LOL