u/Infamous-Tale4285

My wife and I are both 28 we’ve been married for three years and have 2 kids in that time. When she had our first. She bounced back quickly and we talked about just going back to our sexual lives like we didn’t have a kid. Flash forward and our second was born in March. She has been so self conscious and no matter what I say she just refuses to be her normal sexual self like she was after giving birth to our first. So much so that when we tried to be sexual it took a bit of time for me to get hard because she kept her clothes on and didn’t seem that interested in it. I just want the spark to get back. Could use any advice thanks