u/Internal_Brush_8982

So I’m sure many of us have a friend who we’d love to turn into a JO bud but are too scared to directly ask or aren’t sure how to bring it up. Making this thread to give ideas that have either worked for me or I think would be a good way to make it happen while minimizing the chance of making things awkward between you and your friend. Without further ado…

To start, do you have a friend that you’re already comfortable bringing up sexual topics with? Maybe sharing women, celebs, or pornstars you think are hot? Details from your sex lives with your partners? If not, you can slowly bring up these topics with your friend, being sure to gauge their reaction. If they respond in kind sharing who they find hot or details from their sex life, react positively and keep the conversation going. Maybe ask for more details or escalate slightly. Over time when this becomes more normal for you two things will likely naturally escalate and you’ll get more comfortable taking your conversations in a dirtier direction.

Next, once sexual topics aren’t out of the ordinary for you two, you can try sending him a hot thirst trap photo/video over DM on IG (the hotter, the better), perhaps with a message saying something like “Thought you’d enjoy.” At the least he’ll like it, and he’ll probably reply with something like “Damn” or “So hot.” From there you can agree with him how hot it is, and maybe send another one to get him going even more. Then you can tell him it’s his turn to send you one, challenging him to find one that’s even hotter. If he does you can either tell him you think he may have you beat, or playfully tease that yours were better.

After exchanging these DMs for the first time you can do this moving forward every now and then if your friend seems to play along and enjoy it (which they likely will). When you two are more comfortable doing this after he sends you a sexy post you can start to mention things you find hot in the pic/video, or say something dirty to get your friend going like “Imagine her big tits bouncing while she rides you.” If he replies with something like “Fuck yeah” or “They’d look so good” you can then say “Not gonna lie, I’m starting to get a little hard.” If he reacts negatively with something like “Wtf bro” you can just play it off saying “My bad bro lol, but can you blame me? She’s so hot.” If he instead replies something like “Same” then that’s a green light to keep going, sending more or talking more dirty.

Once you’ve gotten this far, the next time you hang out it wouldn’t be too out of the ordinary if y’all are hanging out at home or maybe a bar to show him these kind of sexy posts in person, or take things a little further and bring up a hot porn scene you watched recently, or some of your favorite porn stars. Then you can ask him “What about you?” He’ll either tell you and you can keep it going from there, or say he hasn’t really been watching much porn, then you can tell him “Man this scene was so hot you gotta see it. I’m down to show you or can send it to you later.” He’ll likely be horny at this point thinking about porn so he may be down right there and agree to watch it with you, or if he’s still not ready for that but agrees for you to send it to him then you can ask him how he likes it the day after or what his favorite parts were. You can even say something like “Did it make you cum as hard as it did for me?” If he admits to blowing his load to it that’s a good sign that he’s comfortable enough to tell you about him cumming.

Going to a strip club together, maybe having a few drinks getting nice and horny there before heading back your place after to hang out some more is another idea. Pro tip: leave a few porn magazines on your coffee/side table ahead of time. When you two get back from the strip club, already buzzed and horny, and he sees them…you know he’s gonna grab them to look through. Before you know it he’ll be hard, and you can tease him saying “I see you’re enjoying those magazines huh?” pointing to his buldge. Then just take it from there…

Another topic you can bring up when you two are hanging out at home is to ask if he’s ever tried Viagra/Cialis or Honey Packs (which if you’re wondering contain Viagra in them and work just as well). If he says no, tell him you have some if he wants to try. If he’s down then you can take them together, and then after giving it some time to kick in, you can ask him if he feels it working yet. He’ll either say yes or not really. In either case you can say “let’s put something on the TV to test it.”

If you’re too hesitant to throw on porn immediately, you can instead put on a sexy bikini/lingerie show on YouTube. After watching that for a few minutes you two are bound to get hard. You can then say “Ok yeah it’s definitely working” pointing to (or grabbing) your buldge. Then say “What about you?” He’ll likely admit the same. Or if you can clearly see he’s hard you can say “Looks like it’s working for you too” with a laugh. Once you’ve acknowledged you’re both hard you can slowly squeeze yours over your pants saying “Damn man, I’m really fucking hard right now. I kinda wanna jerk off.” More than likely he’ll say “Same.” If he says that, you can tell him it’s cool if he wants to, or ask if it’s cool if you do. If he says no, it’s still fine and you can try again another time, but more than likely it’ll be very hard for him to resist.

If he’s down you two can start stroking yourselves over your pants, and after doing that for a little if he hasn’t already pulled his out you can say “It’s hard to do this over my pants and will feel better if I just take it out.” Then if he’s down doesn’t seem to have any objections you can pull your cock out at that point. He will likely follow shortly after. From there after you two have your cocks out and are jerking together you can ask if he’s mind if you throw on some porn on the TV. He’ll of course tell you to go ahead at that point. You could maybe even start with the scene you shared with him previously.

From there you can trade off picking scenes to watch and jerk to. At that point you can ask if he normally jerks off with or without lube. Then tell him about your favorite lube to use (in my case it’s Albolene). If he says he’s never tried it tell him he has to. Then tell him “wait one second” then go grab it. Before you know it you two are jerking your rock hard lubed up cocks to porn together!

You can also ask him if he’s tried a fleshlight before. If not, offer for him to try yours. If you want to try frotting but are afraid to bring it up, have a hot double penetration scene on and ask him if he’d ever be down to try that with a girl. Then you could say “I wonder if we could both fit inside the fleshlight together, wanna try?” Between the Viagra making him harder than he’s ever been, the porn, and his lubed up cock feeling amazing sliding in and out of the fleshlight, he’ll likely be too horny to say no. Then you slide your cock into the fleshlight, gliding against his being squeezed together.

There you two are, moaning and grunting fucking the same fleshlight together with your throbbing lubed up cocks, DP porn playing on the TV, talking dirty together. The sounds of your lubed cocks sliding in and out, balls slapping together, your moans, and the sounds of the porn in the background will become too much ultimately sending you both over the edge making you cum harder than you’ve ever came before.

Once you’ve done this it’ll be hard to go back, and he’ll likely be down to jerk together again whenever you two hang out. Once you’re comfortable jerking together, you’d also now have a good partner for MFM threesomes if that’s something you’d want to do together.

Feel free to use this thread to post any other ideas you have, or let me know if these would work on you!

Happy Jerking!