u/ItsBeenaLongRoad90

I always assumed my peak masturbation would be during college. After having children my libido jumped through the roof and I'm masturbating more now then I ever have in my life. Has this happened with other moms as well? Now that both my kids go to school being a sahm has provided me with so much free time it's the best kept secret of motherhood!

My husband likes when I help/encourage other men to make their wives masturbate as often as I do. Serious men only. Not into games.

I have tried various other strong wands like the die cast and others, but the texture of the head of the magic wand works best for me. I just need something stronger. Is there any potential news or rumors of magic wand coming out with something stronger?

Too many guys here looking to get their rocks off. I much prefer helping men turn their actual wives into women who embrace masturbation and playtime like me.

As a married mom of 2, I sometimes wonder how often other wives or mothers in my shoes are masturbating and usually end up believing there's no chance I know any others that masturbate as frequently as I do. Does anyone else ever catch themselves thinking that? Everytime I do I laugh a little bit at how shocked they would be if they ever knew.

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I'm in a marriage where it's for our children, who I adore to the moon. Both are now in school full time which has allowed me the opportunity to explore myself. I've come to realize how much I love masturbating and have to believe there are more wives or moms out there who enjoy it as much as I do. I've met men on here and together we have converted their wives into little masturbating mothers or wives like me and have enjoyed their journey through their husband's eyes very much. My husband doesn't mind the talking to other men considering the goal is getting more women to masturbate which makes it all the better. The men I meet on here vary in so many ways. There are serious ones who are invested in their wife's self pleasure and there are obvious ones looking to try and get a nut and it's obvious which is which. Pushing women to chase pleasure the way I do is the sexiest thing to me. Too many women suppress their desire for pleasure.

Guilty.

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I'm in a marriage where it's for our children, who I adore to the moon. Both are now in school full time which has allowed me the opportunity to explore myself. I've come to realize how much I love masturbating and have to believe there are more wives or moms out there who enjoy it as much as I do. I've met men on here and together we have converted their wives into little masturbating mothers or wives like me and have enjoyed their journey through their husband's eyes very much. My husband doesn't mind the talking to other men considering the goal is getting more women to masturbate which makes it all the better. The men I meet on here vary in so many ways. There are serious ones who are invested in their wife's self pleasure and there are obvious ones looking to try and get a nut and it's obvious which is which. Pushing women to chase pleasure the way I do is the sexiest thing to me. Too many women suppress their desire for pleasure.

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I'm in a marriage where it's for our children, who I adore to the moon. Both are now in school full time which has allowed me the opportunity to explore myself. I've come to realize how much I love masturbating and have to believe there are more wives or moms out there who enjoy it as much as I do. I've met men on here and together we have converted their wives into little masturbating mothers or wives like me and have enjoyed their journey through their husband's eyes very much. My husband doesn't mind the talking to other men considering the goal is getting more women to masturbate which makes it all the better. The men I meet on here vary in so many ways. There are serious ones who are invested in their wife's self pleasure and there are obvious ones looking to try and get a nut and it's obvious which is which. Pushing women to chase pleasure the way I do is the sexiest thing to me. Too many women suppress their desire for pleasure.

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I'm in a marriage where it's for our children, who I adore to the moon. Both are now in school full time which has allowed me the opportunity to explore myself. I've come to realize how much I love masturbating and have to believe there are more wives or moms out there who enjoy it as much as I do. I've met men on here and together we have converted their wives into little masturbating mothers or wives like me and have enjoyed their journey through their husband's eyes very much. My husband doesn't mind the talking to other men considering the goal is getting more women to masturbate which makes it all the better.

I grew up in a very conservative house where everything sex related was kept quiet and looked down upon. I married at 25 and sex with my husband was wonderful. The thought of ever needing to self love never crossed my mind. We now have two children with the youngest being 5 and my husband's desire for sex has all but disappeared. It's been about 7 months since the last time. Because of this, I've turned to masturbation. And in my self discovery I've realized I enjoy size much larger then my husband. I love him still and my family and will not blow this up until my kids are older but I will also continue to pursue what makes me happy. I've found the journey that keeps me distracted and happy (for now) and plan to stay on it.

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I started enjoying being more full ever since my second child. I do think the lack of intimacy after our second did spur me to explore more of what actually gave me pleasure and although it took some time to realize it was okay to enjoy larger objects when I masturbated, the fact I've arrived to this point has made me very proud. It took time learning to love myself. Has anyone else here ever gotten to this point? Is it something you still think is intimidating or are you happy you've gotten to a place where fullness and pleasure are what you enjoy most.

Idk if it's because I've had two kids but I don't enjoy anything less then 4 fingers when masturbating. If very into it it will be my first. Does anyone else have a go to finger amount? Am I on an island why what I prefer?

How come no other mom's told me that sending the kids off to school allows for an empty house of almost the entire part of the day? I masturbate more now than I did in college. The initial judgement passed a few weeks into my second going to school and now this is a time I very much look forward to.

And now I'm super insecure about it. Our sex life is awful and this is my only outlet. I told him my frequency is average granted I don't have many friends and no one to compare to I still think it's a normal amount I'm a bit at a loss and hurt. I don't really know what to do just kind of venting a bit.

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Ironically after my second baby my husband told me I didn't "feel the same" downstairs which lead to our now completely dead bedroom. Unfortunately during that same time my sex drive climbed through the roof. In spite of him and to prove a point I purchased a larger dildo and realized how much I enjoyed the feeling of something larger then him. I've since purchased 3 additional dildos and have found some solace in my masturbation and have yet to find a size that doesn't feel bigger then the next. It may be pathetic or sad to some and it's something I tell NONE of my friends but it's how I get by. I love my family and would never break it up so this is what I do to manage. Idk if other wives have explored this avenue but it really has been a welcomed change for me.

Happy Mother's Day to all my fellow moms in this sub. My husband always lets me "sleep" in today to allow me to have some extra me time. I gifted myself a new Rexxxx from All Night Toys and the test run is this morning. I hope all the other moms who want to play are granted their time today as well!

I was going into my junior year of college when I started masturbating regularly...I did think I'd always be one to masturbate regularly but not being 37 I masturbate more then most people. Has anyone else masturbated more with age? Does your spouse know or mind?