u/Itz_loree

Hi everyone, I hope it’s okay to ask this here. My partner and I have recently become interested in bottom growth, and we’re hoping to learn from people who have firsthand experience before making any decisions.

We’re both completely new to this, so we’re not really sure where to start. My partner is nonbinary and lives in the UK, and our main goal at the moment is bottom growth. We’d like to understand what options are available, what people have found effective, and what the process realistically looks like.

One thing that makes this a bit more complicated is that they still live with their family, and we’re not sure how supportive they would be if they knew they were exploring something like this. Because of that, we’d really like to approach everything in the safest, most responsible, and most discreet way possible. If medical supervision is the best route, we’d like to know what that process looks like in the UK, and whether there are any resources or clinics we should look into.

We’ve seen a lot of people mention testosterone cream or gel, as well as DHT cream, but we’re struggling to figure out what’s actually available in the UK and how people go about getting it. Is testosterone cream something that can be prescribed for this purpose, or are there other ways people access it? We’d really appreciate any insight into how this works, especially if you’ve gone through the process yourself. We already know injections isn’t the way for us.

We’ve come across a lot of different information online, and it’s hard to tell what’s reliable and what’s just anecdotal. We’d really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s experienced bottom growth, especially regarding what actually worked for you, what changes to expect, how quickly things happened, and whether there are ways to prioritize bottom growth while understanding that other androgenic effects can also occur.

We’re not looking to rush into anything, we’re mainly trying to educate ourselves and make informed decisions. Any advice, personal experiences, or recommendations for trustworthy resources would mean a lot.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.

Hi everyone, my girlfriend and I have recently become interested in clitoral growth, and we’re trying to learn as much as we can before making any decisions. She’s a cis woman living in the UK, and our only goal is clitoral growth, we’re not looking into gender transition or broader masculinization, so we’re hoping to understand what options, if any, exist for that.

The biggest issue is that we’re both complete beginners and don’t really know where to start. She still lives with her family, and we’re not sure how supportive they would be if they found out she was pursuing something like this. Because of that, we’d really like to approach everything in the safest, most responsible, and most discreet way possible, whether that means speaking to a doctor, going through a clinic, or simply educating ourselves first before doing anything.

We’ve read a little about things like topical testosterone and DHT cream, but it’s difficult to separate reliable information from misinformation. We’d love to hear from anyone who has personal experience or knowledge about what actually works, what the realistic side effects are, and whether it’s possible to focus mainly on clitoral growth while minimizing other changes. We understand hormones can affect the body in different ways and that there’s probably no way to guarantee only one effect, but we’d really appreciate hearing from people who have been through this or who know where we can find trustworthy information and material.

If anyone has advice, resources, or recommendations, especially from people in the UK or familiar with the healthcare system there, we’d be incredibly grateful.
Thanks in advance!

Hey everyone, I’m looking for App Store (iOS) apps that work well for couples to use during voice/video calls, ideally something that fits into a D/s dynamic, spice, or at least has flexibility for kink.

What we’re trying to find is something interactive we can actually play together live, not just read separately. Think more along the lines of structured intimacy games, not static prompts. This idea came from the need of doing something that could keep us turned on and the vibe right while pumping her pussy, making it more exciting and kinky. We tried looking for something like this online but sadly we couldn’t find anything or anyone talking about it before, why not asking here!

Ideally we’re looking for something like:
Spicy board or mini-games designed for couples on calls;
Truth or dare, challenges, “command” style mechanics;
Teasing, obedience, or role-based interaction options (light to moderate D/s energy);
Ability to escalate intensity depending on mood.

But overall, ideally something that keeps both partners actively engaged at the same time on the kinky side.

We’re hoping to find something that can feel structured, yet with some active participation rather than something passive or repetitive that could get boring/awkward overtime during a call, or indeed while pumping.

If anyone here has found apps that actually work well in a BDSM/D/s context for long-distance couples, I’d really appreciate recommendations or personal experiences.
Thanks in advance.