u/Jerksky_One

I was born with mild (subcoronal) hypospadias. I have to sit down to pee. I know that most of you femboys here prefer to sit while peeing. For you guys it's merely a choice, but for ME, it's FORCED.

Indeed, as a little kid I tried peeing standing up a few times, and whenever I did, my stream won't shoot out forward enough and I would make a fucking mess all over myself.

Due to my displaced urethra, I can't easily aim my pee (in a standing position) like most men can do. In very, very rare cases when I am FORCED to use a urinal, I have to do the following:

• Lift my skirt up, pull my pants (if I am wearing one) down, and pull my underwear to the side
• Keep my feet apart and bend my knees slightly
• Aim my penis very forward, and (gently)^(1) manually spread my urethra open with my fingers (two fingers of one hand on each side)
• That way, while the stream itself will arch forward, it still makes SOME mess/dribbles, so as for me, mess-free standing pee is NOT really something I am capable of doing.

^(1) If I spread them too hard, it can be (potentially) harmful