u/JonSalchijon1

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I am asking because a high end provider that I went to see advertised a rate of $500, but when I actually contacted her and asked about her rates, the rate I was quoted was noticeably lower than what I had seen advertised.

I honestly wasn't expecting that, so I'm curious, is this something that happens occasionally? Do providers sometimes quote a different rate when communicating with a potential client, whether because of a temporary change in rates, a slower period, a promotion, or some other reason?

How common is it for the rates you usually offer, to differ from the rate shown in your ad?

I was just surprised by the difference because I had assumed the advertised rate was what I should expect to pay, so I wanted to understand how providers generally handle situations like this.

I typically try to book in advance in the morning or afternoon but I am kind of a procrastinator when it comes to actually texting a escort, so I texted about 5 providers at around 9 P.M in the span of 2 hours and only one of them texted me back just when I already went home to call it a night. its making me think that these providers are simply enjoying their weekend and their work phone is off, are busy with another client (or clients that had booked before me), or my text message just looks suspicious to them.

Do you think my introductory text is bad, tell what you think: "Hello (Escort name), I saw your ad on (website) my name is (my name)! I am (race, nationality, age) and live in (this area).

I would like to know if we could do a 1 hour incall session as soon as possible. Please let me know if you are available and I hope to hear from you!" (and depending if they are Latin American I put a little comment in Spanish in parenthesis to let them know we can speak in that language if they want)

Is welcoming text too suspicious for you in your honest opinion? Or did I just contact too late on a weekend that people obviously want to enjoy, which of course I am not going to bother them if so (god knows I love my weekends undisturbed).

Appreciate any help on this.

There's a particular provider whose ad I perused that stated verbatim, "If you have a fetish please ask first and I will let you know if It is something I can accommodate for you or not. Fetishes are extra and I offer a wide range of fetishes so let me know what you are into and we can go from there"

Does that mean it’s okay to ask about the rates for those extras when I first contact her through text before booking? Or should I book first and ask later?

I know here In the U.S we have to be careful with what we say so I am trying to handle this the right way without being explicit.

I just want to be respectful and not come across as noncommittal or just price checking, but I also don’t want to show up and find out the extras push over my monthly budget.

Any advice from providers would be appreciated. Thanks.

I am a client who really enjoys roleplay and costume scenarios (things like being with a cheating wife, therapist, yoga instructor, succubus, etc). Thats why I usually only look for fetish friendly or PSE providers for these kind of sessions.

But I am curious about the opinions on escorts on the topic. How difficult is it for you to follow a general roleplay flow or light script? Is it better when the client explains the scenario and desired vibe in advance?

Do you prefer a detailed outline, or is a looser description enough?

Have you found that roleplay works better after seeing a client a few times, or is it fine to try on a first visit?

I’ve had some sessions where the roleplay felt awkward or I ended up having to guide things a lot, and I’m trying to figure out whether better planning on my end would help or if some providers just aren’t as comfortable with it.

Any honest advice from providers would be appreciated. Thanks.