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My husband has been reading a lot about penis enlargement methods and now wants to start jelqing. His size is already above average (length and girth), so I don’t really understand the drive, but he’s set on trying it.
I’m mainly worried about the injury risk. From what little I’ve looked up, jelqing can cause tears, bruising, scar tissue, or worse if done wrong, and I’m not sure how “safe” the technique actually is even when done carefully. He says he’ll start slow and follow instructions, but I’m still uneasy.
Has anyone here (or their partner) tried jelqing? Did it work, cause problems, or just not do much? Any real experiences?

So my husband likes me to slap and squeeze his balls during sex. He likes it firm, sometimes pretty hard. He says it feels intense and he gets off on it.
I’m a bit hesitant because I’m always worried about going too far and actually hurting him in a bad way. Like, balls are sensitive and I don’t want to do real damage. But at the same time… I really like the feeling of control it gives me. Seeing him react, the way he flinches and still asks for more, is unexpectedly hot. It turns me on more than I expected 😊

Has anyone else dealt with this? How do you find the right amount of pressure without crossing into “oh shit” territory?

Would love to hear from people who’ve been on either side of this.

Okay, this might be the funniest thing that’s happened in our house in weeks.
My husband somehow came across the infamous “toilet paper roll test”. The one where guys see if their erect dick fits in the cardboard tube. He was cracking up reading about it and decided he had to try it for science. I was just sitting there on the bed dying laughing while he grabbed a fresh roll from the bathroom. It didnt fit! He had this big goofy grin on his face the entire time, and now he’s been walking around the house all day with this extra little bounce in his step like he’s six inches taller.
I keep teasing him that he’s been unbearable ever since, but honestly it’s adorable. He’s been extra confident and playful all evening. Who knew a cardboard tube could be such an ego boost?
Has anyone else’s partner tried this ridiculous test? Did it end in victory laps too, or total chaos? 😂

So, i was laying in bed while he was out on the couch last night. Told him i was hungry and he said “I’ve got some tube steak”. Not knowing what he was referring to, i was happy that he would provide for me. Little did i know what he was referring too, but i learned real quick after approaching him on the couch…. There it was lol

We tried “the finger” thing and… wow. My husband was 100% into it while it was happening, making all the noises and the voluminous finish to say the least. But today he’s been a little quiet and keeps saying he feels kinda weird about it now. Like, good weird? Bad weird? He can’t decide 😂 He keeps looking at me funny and muttering “I can’t believe I liked that.” I’m over here trying not to laugh while also checking if he’s okay.
Anyone else’s partner get the post probing weirdness?

I wanted to share something that’s made a noticeable difference in our sex life. Strategically using condoms to help my partner last longer. A lot of guys feel self conscious about lasting shorter than they’d like, but condoms have been a simple, low pressure tool that benefits both of us. Thoughts?

Is it normal for the husbands to encourage masturbation?

We drained the battery last night and first thing this morning he put it on the charger (lelo sona cruise). I was thinking about the night before, looking at it charging and decided i needed it. I asked him if it was ok and he said absolutely go use it! Almost every time i am getting in the shower he tells me too lol.

We’ve been together for years and our sex life has always been great! but one thing has driven me crazy, my husband has this habit of not stopping right after I orgasm from oral. I get super sensitive afterward (like, can’t even breathe sensitive) and I’ve told him a million times that I need him to stop when I say so. Usually he’d keep going thinking he was being extra attentive or trying to get me to cum again, which honestly just killed the mood and left me frustrated and overstimulated.
Last night was different. I was on my back, he was going down on me, and he got me there hard!! The second I came I gasped out stop baby too much!
And he actually stopped. Immediately. No pushing, no just a little more, no disappointed look. He pulled back, kissed my thighs softly, and just held me while I came down from it, shaking and catching my breath. It was honestly one of the hottest and most intimate moments!!
Afterward I told him how much it meant to me that he finally respected that boundary, and we ended up having the best sex afterward!! Turns out a little bit of listening goes a long way!!! If only these men would listen from the beginning it would prevent a lottttt of issues 😅🤣💀

I just have to share what happened last night because it was absolutely amazing and I’m still smiling about it today. My husband really went above and beyond to make me feel loved, desired, and completely taken care of.
It started with a relaxing back rub. He had me lying comfortably on my stomach, and his hands worked slowly and lovingly over my shoulders, down my back, and all the way to my lower back and hips. He used one hand to use a dildo and the other hand was still rubbing my back. The pressure was perfect! firm but gentle, melting away all the tension from the day. I was already feeling so relaxed and close to him.
Then things got even better. He gently turned me over and used the same dildo with so much care and attention. He took his time, moving it in a way that built the pleasure perfectly. The combination of his touch, the rhythm, and how focused he was on my reactions had me reaching an intense, full body orgasm that left me breathless and shaking. He stayed right there with me through every wave, whispering how beautiful I looked and how much he loved pleasing me.
He started kissing my legs softly, working his way up with such tenderness. Then he went down on me, using his mouth in the most skillful and enthusiastic way while also bringing the toy back into play. The sensations were overwhelming in the best possible way. the warmth of his tongue combined with the steady pressure from the toy had me building up again quickly. He didn’t rush at all, he stayed completely focused on my pleasure until I had a second powerful orgasm that felt even stronger than the first.
Even after that, he kept kissing my legs and thighs so sweetly, then went back down on me again with that same loving dedication. It was pure bliss. The whole night felt like he was completely tuned in to me and my body, making sure I was worshipped and satisfied.
I feel so lucky to have a partner who takes such joy in my pleasure and knows exactly how to make me feel incredible. It wasn’t just physical, it was intimate, passionate, and full of love. Nights like this are pure magic!!

My husband has been working crazy hours lately, so I decided it was time to spoil him. As soon as the kids were asleep, I pulled him into the bedroom, pushed him down on the bed, and told him he wasn’t allowed to touch me until I was done with him.
I started slow kissing and licking up his thighs, teasing his balls with my tongue while looking up at him. Then I took him all the way into my mouth, nice and deep, getting him nice and wet. I love the way he groans when I swirl my tongue around the head and then slide back down until my nose is pressed against him.
I got really sloppy with it… lots of spit, sucking harder, using my hand to stroke him while I focused on the tip. Every time he started getting close I’d slow down just enough to edge him. He was gripping the sheets, breathing heavy, telling me how amazing it felt!
When I finally let him cum, I kept him in my mouth and swallowed every drop while he moaned my name. He came so hard his legs were shaking. Afterward I crawled up, kissed him, and told him that was just round one.
Nothing beats taking care of your man like that!!