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We tried “the finger” thing and… wow. My husband was 100% into it while it was happening, making all the noises and the voluminous finish to say the least. But today he’s been a little quiet and keeps saying he feels kinda weird about it now. Like, good weird? Bad weird? He can’t decide 😂 He keeps looking at me funny and muttering “I can’t believe I liked that.” I’m over here trying not to laugh while also checking if he’s okay.
Anyone else’s partner get the post probing weirdness?

I wanted to share something that’s made a noticeable difference in our sex life. Strategically using condoms to help my partner last longer. A lot of guys feel self conscious about lasting shorter than they’d like, but condoms have been a simple, low pressure tool that benefits both of us. Thoughts?

Is it normal for the husbands to encourage masturbation?

We drained the battery last night and first thing this morning he put it on the charger (lelo sona cruise). I was thinking about the night before, looking at it charging and decided i needed it. I asked him if it was ok and he said absolutely go use it! Almost every time i am getting in the shower he tells me too lol.

We’ve been together for years and our sex life has always been great! but one thing has driven me crazy, my husband has this habit of not stopping right after I orgasm from oral. I get super sensitive afterward (like, can’t even breathe sensitive) and I’ve told him a million times that I need him to stop when I say so. Usually he’d keep going thinking he was being extra attentive or trying to get me to cum again, which honestly just killed the mood and left me frustrated and overstimulated.
Last night was different. I was on my back, he was going down on me, and he got me there hard!! The second I came I gasped out stop baby too much!
And he actually stopped. Immediately. No pushing, no just a little more, no disappointed look. He pulled back, kissed my thighs softly, and just held me while I came down from it, shaking and catching my breath. It was honestly one of the hottest and most intimate moments!!
Afterward I told him how much it meant to me that he finally respected that boundary, and we ended up having the best sex afterward!! Turns out a little bit of listening goes a long way!!! If only these men would listen from the beginning it would prevent a lottttt of issues 😅🤣💀

I just have to share what happened last night because it was absolutely amazing and I’m still smiling about it today. My husband really went above and beyond to make me feel loved, desired, and completely taken care of.
It started with a relaxing back rub. He had me lying comfortably on my stomach, and his hands worked slowly and lovingly over my shoulders, down my back, and all the way to my lower back and hips. He used one hand to use a dildo and the other hand was still rubbing my back. The pressure was perfect! firm but gentle, melting away all the tension from the day. I was already feeling so relaxed and close to him.
Then things got even better. He gently turned me over and used the same dildo with so much care and attention. He took his time, moving it in a way that built the pleasure perfectly. The combination of his touch, the rhythm, and how focused he was on my reactions had me reaching an intense, full body orgasm that left me breathless and shaking. He stayed right there with me through every wave, whispering how beautiful I looked and how much he loved pleasing me.
He started kissing my legs softly, working his way up with such tenderness. Then he went down on me, using his mouth in the most skillful and enthusiastic way while also bringing the toy back into play. The sensations were overwhelming in the best possible way. the warmth of his tongue combined with the steady pressure from the toy had me building up again quickly. He didn’t rush at all, he stayed completely focused on my pleasure until I had a second powerful orgasm that felt even stronger than the first.
Even after that, he kept kissing my legs and thighs so sweetly, then went back down on me again with that same loving dedication. It was pure bliss. The whole night felt like he was completely tuned in to me and my body, making sure I was worshipped and satisfied.
I feel so lucky to have a partner who takes such joy in my pleasure and knows exactly how to make me feel incredible. It wasn’t just physical, it was intimate, passionate, and full of love. Nights like this are pure magic!!

My husband has been working crazy hours lately, so I decided it was time to spoil him. As soon as the kids were asleep, I pulled him into the bedroom, pushed him down on the bed, and told him he wasn’t allowed to touch me until I was done with him.
I started slow kissing and licking up his thighs, teasing his balls with my tongue while looking up at him. Then I took him all the way into my mouth, nice and deep, getting him nice and wet. I love the way he groans when I swirl my tongue around the head and then slide back down until my nose is pressed against him.
I got really sloppy with it… lots of spit, sucking harder, using my hand to stroke him while I focused on the tip. Every time he started getting close I’d slow down just enough to edge him. He was gripping the sheets, breathing heavy, telling me how amazing it felt!
When I finally let him cum, I kept him in my mouth and swallowed every drop while he moaned my name. He came so hard his legs were shaking. Afterward I crawled up, kissed him, and told him that was just round one.
Nothing beats taking care of your man like that!!

So we were getting into it and I started off with my mouth, sucking him nice and slow, getting him rock hard. But I really wanted to switch things up, so I grabbed some lube and started stroking him with my hand. Jeeez the way he reacted was so hot.
I worked him up and down, nice and slippery, while my other hand went to his balls. I started squeezing on them, then gave them a few slaps. I think he really likes it as the little moans he let out were amazing. There’s something so powerful about having his balls in my hand, feeling them tighten up while I give em those slaps. It turns me on like crazy.
I also rubbed hard on his taint and he seemed to love that too., like he was pushing into it.

I really wanted to slide a finger inside him so bad, but I’m not sure if he’d be into it yet. Has anyone else been in this spot? How did you bring it up?

Anyway, as much as I love sucking him off, I think I might love handjobs even more now. Being able to watch his face the whole time, especially when he finally came… that eye contact and seeing him lose it was just 🔥 I could do that for hours lol
Anyone else get a huge rush from the hand + ball play combo? Or am I just discovering my new favorite thing?

So I had to delete my previous post because my husband informed me that I may have included just a little too much detail 🤣

In my defense, I was simply trying to explain why our marriage is still going strong after all these years. Apparently there’s a fine line between sharing relationship advice and writing a step-by-step instruction manual.🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 oops 😅

My husband and I have been reading discussions here for quite a while and finally decided to join in the fun We’re a happily married, monogamous couple and have talked about sharing some of our stories and intimacy online while being anonymous.
To be clear, we’re not looking for other couples or anyone else to join in, we have a great marriage and are completely committed to each other.