u/Key-Jellyfish3376

This morning I hit my goal weight! My wife of 38 years said "You look very fit, who is she"? I didn't hesitate I said it could be you. I got no response. This is after no sex on Father's day and 2.5 months since our last sexual encounter.

I want her but she doesn't want me.

63m HL 60f LL Already had a couple talks about frequency of sex. It might increase a little but always goes way down. When we do agree to have sex, she tells me to hurry up. That sure doesn't help anything.

I have started masturbation and I am starting to look around for a FWB. At this point I might be relieved to get caught.

I don't think another talk will help. Been together 36 years and sex was great for most of it.