30 Femme 4 Butch
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*I'm a white, 5'8" 30 year old femme lesbian living in Idaho
I'm imagining a life with someone where we could support each other. Where we're both sociable and hard-working, both have a deep connection to nature and a commitment to our community.
I can be an absolute powerhouse of conjuring and I work hard to live a beautiful and interesting life. I've got a good stable remote job, I volunteer at a local community farm, cold water swim a few times a week, practice tarot, make art, organize events, journal, think about lesbian history, read a lot of non-fiction, and love wearing silly little outfits to go out for a night of partying, dancing, and live music.
I think about the question "what do we owe eachother?" a lot and try to show up for people in my community, whether that's helping them move house, inviting them to events, connecting them with resources, or giving then emotional support.
I keep myself very busy and would want someone who could keep up. Someone enthusiastically monogamous, not in the white picket fence way but in knowing that we belong with/to each other.
My dream partner is a tall, fat, strong butch and I've got a weak spot for curly haired brunettes with a goofy smile and kind, steady hands. They're good with people, enjoy a night out, are honest, funny, intentional, compassionate, and lean dominant in the bedroom. Ideally they're located within the pacific northwest but could be elsewhere as well.
Together we would curate mutual growth, joy, and laughter. I'm imagining kinky explorative sex (and lots of it) visiting hot springs and trying new bars and pillowtalk gossiping. When I think of you, I think of us in the orchard, me on the ladder and you at the base holding it steady.