Does edging help go beyond the body spasm and reach and actual orgasm?
Hi everyone. Despite being 21 I'm quite new to anything sexual. Recently I bought a bullet vibrator because I wasn't going anywhere with my fingers, and although it was helped immensely, I can't seem to climax. I manage to get to what I assume is the tipping point; my whole body contracts, my walls start to spasm and I feel this huge need of release, yet I can't seem to obtain it. I stay with that need and then I lose it, which is very frustrating.
I don't know if I might actually be orgasming without realising it. I understand everyone's orgasms are different, but I genuinely belive I am not reaching it because I don't feel anything after my body stops contracting, is more of a feeling of losing the sensation rather than climaxing. Sorry if this doesn't make sense, I don't know how else to word it 😅.
The thing is, I have been reading a lot in this subreddit and I was wondering if edging would help. I reach the point of convulsion rather quickly, so maybe there's a disconect in my body that prevents me from orgasming and i need more time???
I don't know, but I would appreciate it if anyone could give me tips on how to properly edge myself (do I take breaks, when to stop, etc) and if anyone has gone through this, what's your experience? Did you manage to overcome it?
Thank you in advance!